Mike: it's both. Looks and image. Chicks definitely go for the bad boy / player look and attitude, but you still have to be attractive to pull it off... especially if you are gonna be extremely successful. The better looking you are - the more good looking women you get. It's not much different from us men, and the hot / flashy / wild chicks. They still have to be hot - not just skanky, bad, and "cool". Nobody cares if an average girl is acting like a ***** or being stuck up or slutting around or being fake, or whatever. But the hot girl with an attitude and many options turns us on. Same with women. All about value, really.
But like with women, we don't want a complete *****. Maybe a nice girl with an attitude, or some sass, or whatever. But everyone likes the "bad" / sexy look and attitude, I think. Or at least, it turns people on sexually. Which is pretty much what you need.
To the OP: leagues and status definitely exist at the club, and really most of everywhere. Most girls either want a hot guy, or someone who seems cool, exciting, popular, social, mysterious, in-demand, etc.
But I question your motives. You're complaining that shallow / dysfunctional women at the club aren't looking for good men, so you give up on women... WTF? I used to get approached a lot at clubs, bars, parties ,and low-end warehouse jobs, and all the girls were trash. They don't care how good you are, or what your character is, or anything of the sort. Nor do they have any depth or sense. They just want sex with hot guys, cause a bunch of drama, act crazy and stupid, piss everyone off, etc. Thats why they go to these venues in the first place. You CAN'T expect these people not to be shallow, crazy, and dysfunctional... Thats why they go after bad boys in the club.
But you're right... even 4s have high standards, and expect the best. The higher you go on the scale, the more stuck up, high maintenance, demanding and entitled they are. ESPECIALLY in these shallow crowds.
A lot of fat, semi-decent looking girls approached me, and still acted like I was supposed to live up to their standards, and satisfy them, and all this nonsense - when better looking girls were approaching, as well. But they still acted like they were the prize, had huge ego's, acted like dumb ****s, played games 'cause they thought I actually a **** about them, or their fat approval, etc. These girls were fake AND fat, and not all that good looking... but still acted like queen bee's. Pouting and moaning, expecting me to chase, and all the things hot girls do.
Just a bunch of spoiled children in these scenes, really. But there's a lot of guys who go there to get laid, the girls approach hot guys, and whatever else, and they get huge ego's from it. It's all their lives consist of: ego, competition, status, hot this, hot that. Useless, shallow people.
It's hell, and a complete waste of time. The girls are so trashy, fake, and useless - you almost dont want to have sex with them... even though its literally all they're good for. The ONLY reason you do is because some of them are hot. Beyond that, they're complete ****.
Avoid.
