Koopa Troopa
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Wow, it's hard to believe I'm back on here. I was a member of this site back in 2004 but stopped posting once I started dating a wonderful girl. However, here I am three years later and I need some DJ feedback.
Long story short, I met a girl during my senior year of college in 2004 and we hit it off quickly. We dated throughout that year, and when we both graduated at the end of the year we moved in together, which really kick started the whole process. Here it is 2007, we've been together for a little over 3 years, and I just popped the question. As I said earlier, she is a fantastic person and I definitely saw myself being with her for the rest of my life, but over the last few months I've started question if I want to still be with her.
Our situation has always been a bit different than most. We started living together 6 months after dating, and she is in the jewelry business so the talk of a ring was never taboo - it was more of a when than if. On top of this, we are getting ready to move out of the state because I was accepted to a top business school, so a lot is going on right now.
Basically my dilemma boils down to this: I am getting ready to start this awesome experience at a great school, where I feel I will meet a ton of new girls, and I'm not sure I am ready to be tied down yet. It seemed like a fine plan when I was in my current state, but now that I am starting this new adventure, I almost want to go it alone and see what's out there for me. In all likelihood, this school will enable me to find a fantastic job in two years where I will be making a nice chunk of change, so I don't think it will be hard to find new girls down the road. That said, I have had a great time with this girl, and I would feel like a total **** for leaving her when she has agreed to move with me AND has agreed to marry me! I know I shouldn't have done it, but it was a situation where it's basically sh#t or get off the pot, plus my family loves her and they were pressuring me.
Because of these thoughts in my head, we have been getting in a lot of little fights because I am irritable and nervous about what to do. On one hand I feel like a creep because I would be leaving this girl high and dry, when she really hasn't done anything horrible to me. On the other, I am only going to live once, and who knows what is out there for me. I don't really want to settle down right now because I feel like the best part of my life is still ahead of me.
Thoughts and/or opinions?
Long story short, I met a girl during my senior year of college in 2004 and we hit it off quickly. We dated throughout that year, and when we both graduated at the end of the year we moved in together, which really kick started the whole process. Here it is 2007, we've been together for a little over 3 years, and I just popped the question. As I said earlier, she is a fantastic person and I definitely saw myself being with her for the rest of my life, but over the last few months I've started question if I want to still be with her.
Our situation has always been a bit different than most. We started living together 6 months after dating, and she is in the jewelry business so the talk of a ring was never taboo - it was more of a when than if. On top of this, we are getting ready to move out of the state because I was accepted to a top business school, so a lot is going on right now.
Basically my dilemma boils down to this: I am getting ready to start this awesome experience at a great school, where I feel I will meet a ton of new girls, and I'm not sure I am ready to be tied down yet. It seemed like a fine plan when I was in my current state, but now that I am starting this new adventure, I almost want to go it alone and see what's out there for me. In all likelihood, this school will enable me to find a fantastic job in two years where I will be making a nice chunk of change, so I don't think it will be hard to find new girls down the road. That said, I have had a great time with this girl, and I would feel like a total **** for leaving her when she has agreed to move with me AND has agreed to marry me! I know I shouldn't have done it, but it was a situation where it's basically sh#t or get off the pot, plus my family loves her and they were pressuring me.
Because of these thoughts in my head, we have been getting in a lot of little fights because I am irritable and nervous about what to do. On one hand I feel like a creep because I would be leaving this girl high and dry, when she really hasn't done anything horrible to me. On the other, I am only going to live once, and who knows what is out there for me. I don't really want to settle down right now because I feel like the best part of my life is still ahead of me.
Thoughts and/or opinions?