Hey everyone!
OK, I've been seein' this girl who is, well, slightly plump. I know in terms of looks, she's not my ideal. But at the time when we met, we had lots in common, & it was just lots & lots of rampert sex, which was fun! Then after a while of this she wanted a relationship.
After some soul searching, i decided to give the relationship a go & we officially became an 'item'. It's coming up to almost 2 years now since we started having sex with each other. In this time, she's said she loves me a few times, & she genually does i think.. But i haven't recipricated. I know this is beginning to get to her, that i won't say 'I love you'.
For one thing, there was a time when i think i did love her, but after 2 years, things aren't as fun as they used to be, & we're falling into routine. I think at heart i liked being single & don't like the responcibility involved in being in a relationship.
Plus i KNOW i can do better. I mean, i REALLY like her company.. but loving her is a completly different matter. Sayin' that kinda cements use together, & i don't want to do that. With a 2 year relationship, am i just bein' an arse for doin' this?
She asked me why i wouldn't say 'i love her', and i couldn't give a real answer, just that "thats a huge thing to say, i don't think i'm ready" which REALLY upset her.
So.. what d'ya think?
OK, I've been seein' this girl who is, well, slightly plump. I know in terms of looks, she's not my ideal. But at the time when we met, we had lots in common, & it was just lots & lots of rampert sex, which was fun! Then after a while of this she wanted a relationship.
After some soul searching, i decided to give the relationship a go & we officially became an 'item'. It's coming up to almost 2 years now since we started having sex with each other. In this time, she's said she loves me a few times, & she genually does i think.. But i haven't recipricated. I know this is beginning to get to her, that i won't say 'I love you'.
For one thing, there was a time when i think i did love her, but after 2 years, things aren't as fun as they used to be, & we're falling into routine. I think at heart i liked being single & don't like the responcibility involved in being in a relationship.
Plus i KNOW i can do better. I mean, i REALLY like her company.. but loving her is a completly different matter. Sayin' that kinda cements use together, & i don't want to do that. With a 2 year relationship, am i just bein' an arse for doin' this?
She asked me why i wouldn't say 'i love her', and i couldn't give a real answer, just that "thats a huge thing to say, i don't think i'm ready" which REALLY upset her.
So.. what d'ya think?