Even if the guy seems weird cuz hes by himself, if he strikes up a conversation with any of them, they will immediately change their mind about him. He only seems wierd cuz he doesnt talk to people. Im guilty of the same thing. I go out alone, to places where I know my buddies will end up at sooner or later. Last night, however, I couldnt find anyone I knew, and I went to three bars. One of them, I sat by myself and talked to the bartender, but noone else, (and it may or my not have looked weird to people, but who cares?) the next bar I hung out woiith the bartender, and talked to several people I didnt know. SO I KNOW i didnt come off wierd there. And the third place, there was literally noone there, except the bartender and bouncer, so I had one beer and talked to them, and went home.
The point is, you can go out alone, as long as you hang out with people there. I've met plenty of lone wolves in the bar, and ended up having a good time with them all night. You HAVE to go talk to people. I need to follow my own advice. I have a problem with looking pissed off all the time, so people who dont know think Im an *******, but after a ten minute conversation, I open up, and they change their minds really quick. I cant help, I really try to not come off like that. I have a dual personality. Im either quiet, and pissed off looking, or Im opened up, and very social and fun. People tell me this all the time. If I dont know people, Im very closed off naturally, and it really hurts my game in a way. On the other hand, sometimes I'll talk to a chick who always thought I was an ass hole, and she'll be attracted to me, because I finally opened up to her, and we'll hook up.
The point is, you can go out alone, as long as you hang out with people there. I've met plenty of lone wolves in the bar, and ended up having a good time with them all night. You HAVE to go talk to people. I need to follow my own advice. I have a problem with looking pissed off all the time, so people who dont know think Im an *******, but after a ten minute conversation, I open up, and they change their minds really quick. I cant help, I really try to not come off like that. I have a dual personality. Im either quiet, and pissed off looking, or Im opened up, and very social and fun. People tell me this all the time. If I dont know people, Im very closed off naturally, and it really hurts my game in a way. On the other hand, sometimes I'll talk to a chick who always thought I was an ass hole, and she'll be attracted to me, because I finally opened up to her, and we'll hook up.