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Agree with EyeBRollin. Polite and to the point.Hi Brad How are you? On Monday I have plans but on Wednesday in free. I have to make sure you know I have a partner so if you're keen for a friendly drink, I can meet you there?
Fvck that. If he wants to get it, then try and get it. It could just be a sh!t test to see if he is going to go for it anyway...if it is, that's the exact opposite of what will actually work...she wants him to show some aggressiveness and dominance not passiveness.Agree with EyeBRollin. Polite and to the point.
I suppose, but if a girl is telling him she is sleeping with a 6'1 basketball player and they will just be friends if they meet for drinks, I think that means she wants to see how desperate he is. And if she testing him before they even meet face to face, what's she going to do when he wants to make a move?Fvck that. If he wants to get it, then try and get it. It could just be a sh!t test to see if he is going to go for it anyway...if it is, that's the exact opposite of what will actually work...she wants him to show some aggressiveness and dominance not passiveness.
What she wants is irrelevant to this situation. What the OP wants is all that is important.I suppose, but if a girl is telling him she is sleeping with a 6'1 basketball player and they will just be friends if they meet for drinks, I think that means she wants to see how desperate he is. And if she testing him before they even meet face to face, what's she going to do when he wants to make a move?
Also, if what she said could be a test, then almost everything out of a girls mouth could be a test. If she said "Let's meet at my apartment and go straight to sex." It could be a test to see how lonely he is and how long he hasn't had sex.
We can't consider everything a test, would make for a long week.
Sounds like another low quality woman looking to upgrade behind her bf back. If she is making plans with you and admitting she already has a boyfriend then this is a low quality woman. I'd say "thanks but Wednesday doesn't work for me. Take care." No counter offer from me then next her.Hi Brad How are you? On Monday I have plans but on Wednesday in free. I have to make sure you know I have a partner so if you're keen for a friendly drink, I can meet you there?
OP is trying to get laid, not fall in love. What's the problem?Sounds like another low quality woman looking to upgrade behind her bf back. If she is making plans with you and admitting she already has a boyfriend then this is a low quality woman. I'd say "thanks but Wednesday doesn't work for me. Take care." No counter offer from me then next her.
Remember guys if she will cheat with you she will cheat on you.
I guess I still live up to the old man code. Where if a women is taken, even if she wants it out of respect for my fellow man i don't go there. I was taught that being and respecting one an other, that was integrity. It also taught the women in our generation to not play those games because no guy would put up with it. I'm guessing that old man code doesn't exist anymore?OP is trying to get laid, not fall in love. What's the problem?
I guess i am old fashioned. What would your take be if you came home and your lady was ankles high getting it from some strange guy?I personally could care less if they have a BF, husband, sex partner. As long as I want them, nothing else really matters to me.
"Don't expect you to be. I'm just upfront, so if my confidence or directness intimidates you or is more than you can handle, I know before I waste my time. Now that you know the rules of the game, are you going to play, or do you want to take your ball and go home?"Your 'seduce you' text message is now my headline on POF.
I just got a message.... "what makes you think I'm that easy?"
Golden.
Too overconfident. Maybe that works, but I would've toned it down a bit. It might sound funny in text between us, but unless her interest is sky high, it'd fall flat. id go with what @bigneil said. Very direct to cut the bs, but still is playful and sternI used Awesome! I hope he isn't going to be jealous when I seduce you Wednesday night.. no answer back hahaha lol see what happens
It all depends on how she knows him to be. It works well if it fits with how you typically act. I've used it several timesToo overconfident. Maybe that works, but I would've toned it down a bit. It might sound funny in text between us, but unless her interest is sky high, it'd fall flat. id go with what @bigneil said. Very direct to cut the bs, but still is playful and stern
In all actuality, if you care about what to text back to her, you're trying too hard already.