A new chivalry requires a new sexual credo. I offer the following:
* I am not here to force you to have sex with me.
* I am not in a great rush.
* If you say "no," I will assume you mean "no".
* If you say "thus far, and no further," that far, though no further, I might go.
* You must mean what you say and say plainly what you mean, else you may find yourself alone when what you really wanted might lie somewhere in between.
It's not my advice, but IMO this is gold.
http://www.backlash.com/book/sexcredo.html
* I am not here to force you to have sex with me.
* I am not in a great rush.
* If you say "no," I will assume you mean "no".
* If you say "thus far, and no further," that far, though no further, I might go.
* You must mean what you say and say plainly what you mean, else you may find yourself alone when what you really wanted might lie somewhere in between.
It's not my advice, but IMO this is gold.
http://www.backlash.com/book/sexcredo.html
