This guy needs help...Seriously.

[CableLight]

Okay, some of you may have read This Thread about this "friend" of mine here at college and how he's a dumbass. Yadda Yadda.

Well, he's at it again. Two weeks ago this lady-friend of mine had some friends of hers in town visiting, so I tell her she can bring 'em over to my room. She does.

All is well until that "friend" of mine also came to visit. He sits in a chair, and one of the girls (who was quite drunk) is unexplainably lovestruck by him. Like, she actually said "I really want to have sex with you right now," multiple times. He does nothing. NOTHING! Its okay, it's fine...She's drunk, that wouldnt be moral to take advantage.

Flash forward a week. She somehow got my phone number and asks for a picture of him.

Flash forward another week (i.e. this week) and she's coming up here again for the sole purpose of seeing my friend. He is - in no way - at all enthused by the fact that this girl (who is VERY decent, mind you) is basically coming to town to fvck him. I spent much of last night trying to convince the guy to just bang this chick and he's like "I don't know if I want to." C'MON! Its no-strings-attached sex with a fairly hot girl! Whats the problem?! He even said she's attractive!

So whats he do today? Packs up and goes to gamble at a casino. I'm seriously questioning this guys sexual orientation. How can you pass this up? Its like every guys dream to have a hot girl who just wants to bone and goes out of their way to do it. AHH!

 

[Disconnect]

Ninja-kick him out of a dorm window.

 

[AverageFC]

More women need to be vocal like this girl. She could teach a female DJ class

 

[Mojo604]

I use to be REALLY AFC-ish, and not even then would I have passed up on something like this.
I am sorry, but, your friend is a cokc-loving homosexual.

 

[Dominus]

Well, at least he's not risking spawning any offspring.

 

[diplomatic_lie]

Personally, I would see the girl, but not sleep with her. Call me poofy but I don't sleep with women so early - risk of disease, bad experiences, etc.

Once girl I slept with after the 1st date started calling me all the time, even though I didn't like her, and eventually ignored her calls (she never got the message).

Still, I would at least make the effort to see her, if she's hot...

 

[Lifeforce]

It's his descision not yours. Get off his back.

 

[ScrewIt]

maybe he's impotent and doesnt want anyone to know...

but anyways as someone said, its his life/his body, let him be, you have no business telling him what he should do.

 

[SuperFlex]

Sounds like he's making her want him more to me.

 

[A&F Brand Cologne]

Originally posted by SuperFlex
Sounds like he's making her want him more to me.

to what purpose? he's already got an opportunity to get guilt-free sex from her.

no, my guess is that this guy is a virgin and is terrified at the prospect of having sex.

 

[CableLight]

Originally posted by Lifeforce
It's his descision not yours. Get off his back.

Yeah, just like it was "his descision" to kick out a window and climb a statue, among other things.

Anyway - as for him doing this to make her want him more - Negative on that. He came back last night around midnight and I mentioned something about maybe giving her a call to at least see what she was doing since she is leaving today (Sunday) and verbally expressed wanting to talk to him. This comment was echoed by a few other buds of mine.

I was a little tipsy so I can't reiterate what he said verbatum, but something about it being "hard to talk to girls" and that he wasn't able to drink last night were what was holding him back.

 

[Derek Flint]

He's probably gay, but just doesn't know it yet.

That might also explain his drinking and sometimes violent behavior - lots of internal conflicts going on.

 

[Lifeforce]

Originally posted by CableLight
Yeah, just like it was "his descision" to kick out a window and climb a statue, among other things.

Anyway - as for him doing this to make her want him more - Negative on that. He came back last night around midnight and I mentioned something about maybe giving her a call to at least see what she was doing since she is leaving today (Sunday) and verbally expressed wanting to talk to him. This comment was echoed by a few other buds of mine.

I was a little tipsy so I can't reiterate what he said verbatum, but something about it being "hard to talk to girls" and that he wasn't able to drink last night were what was holding him back.

I'm just wondering why you brought this up to discussion, leave the poor guy alone. If you have problem with his descision, take it up with him, not with us.

 

[CableLight]

Originally posted by Lifeforce
I'm just wondering why you brought this up to discussion, leave the poor guy alone. If you have problem with his descision, take it up with him, not with us.

Okay, Dr. Phil.

Wow, tough question...Why'd I bring this up. Well, in no particular order:

1) I can.
2) It's a discussion forum.
3) People talk about social situations and relationships all the time on this forum.
4) Comedic effect.
5) I enjoy writing.
6) Desire to vent

That should be fairly sufficient.

 

[sfalexi]

Originally posted by Lifeforce
I'm just wondering why you brought this up to discussion, leave the poor guy alone. If you have problem with his descision, take it up with him, not with us.

Personally, I think this is HILARIOUS! I'm glad he brought it up. He didn't name any names so the other guy doesn't have to worry. And I'm getting a KICK out of the **** this guy is doing.

I for one, say thank you.

Alexi

 

[DJDamage]

It could be many reasons maybe he got a tiny d1ck or one testicle and really self conscious about it? You just don't know. If I was him, I would at least meet her and see whether or not she was a psycho or something if she was attractive.

You know its actually more of a DJ quality to reject sex if you don't feel like it, then fvck her just because she wants too?!. Do you think Hugh Hefner wants to fvck every time one of his bunnies presents him her pvssy?? No because he knows there are plenty more where that came from. Although every one wishes they can be in Hefner shoes, one can take a lesson and learn that you are more of a man to try and go out and score under your own terms then let some girl offering that to you out of sheer luck like a groveling slave.

 

[Lifeforce]

If the woman is just attractive than it isn't necessary I would want ot have sex with her. It takes some more, some chemistry and a little kinkyness. I prefer to have some connection with the girl since the sex will be much better then. Maybe he works the same. I just thought it was strange you brought it up when it was a friend off yours.

 

[Dapper Swindler]

You can't help people that do not want help. That's why you can't refer a friend to sosuave unless they ask you for help. Because even if you told someone to go here, unless they are motivated to make changes in their life, they are going to ignore all the advice available.

 

[CableLight]

UPDATE!

Oh my...This just got interesting.

I was talking with this girl last night, and we had a pretty interesting convo. Minor details, minor details. Now she's coming back in a couple of weeks and mentioned needing a place to stay, so I pointed out that my "friend" has a single room (i.e. regular dorm room, no roommate). She said she'd be on board for stayin there.

I talk to my "friend" today and tell him about it, and he says she could stay in his room. Break-through city.

Now I've got a running bet with a girl up here on if he'll score with her or not. If he does, she owes me $20. If he doesn't, I have to dye my hair blue for a week.

Some of you might think I've been nothing but an ass for even bringing this thread to life, but hey, I'm willing to bet he'll come through in the clutch.

 

[Dominus]

Originally posted by CableLight
Now I've got a running bet with a girl up here on if he'll score with her or not. If he does, she owes me $20. If he doesn't, I have to dye my hair blue for a week.

So, ahh, what shade of blue goes well with your wardrobe?