Thanks for all the response from all of you. Ganster of love thanks for the true thought and suggestions. Everyone else thanks for the tips and encouragements. But guess what? I'm not going dinner with her tomorrow, Saturday evening? Why? Because I just went out with her tonight. It's happens earlier than I expected, but I have nothing to complain. When the evening ended with her tonight, I told her, "Tomorrow's dinner is canceled." And In in a moment, I'll tell you why I canceled this Saturday dinner with her. Before I tall you, let me just back up my story.
Earlier on today, Friday, she called me. She called me to ask if she could bring her friend tomorrow for the dinner.
Her: Can I bring my friend along?
Me: Sure!! It's up to you.
Her: You're not going to feel uncomfortable?
Me: Nah, it's up to you. If you feel more comfortable, then bring all your friends. The more, the better.
Me: Leme invite all my friends too. And we'll make it big! Just let me know ahead of time how many you're bringing, so I can arrange it.
Silence pause for a moment.
Her: I don't work today. I want to come visit you. Can I come?
Me: Sure.
Her: I'll give you a call before I'm coming.
She hung up.
Later in the day around 4:00 pm, I receive her call.
Me: Hello?
Her: It's raining. I don't know if I'm going to come. Can I still come?
Me: It's up to you.
Her: I'm afraid to bother you.
Me: It's okay.
Her: I'll be there at in 30 minutes then. (hung up)
Around 4:30 pm she arrived. I showed her my room and we chatted about it. Then a new conversation starts.
Me: Would you like some water?
Her: I'm more like hungry. (I gave her a bottle of water anyway)
Me: You didn't eat yet?
Her: No
Me: We'll go out to eat afterwards.
We chatted a bit more while she was at my place. Then her sister call her to go join a party at one of our friends. Our friend's house is about one hour drive. She asked me if I want to go. I said "No."
Me: If you want to go to our friends party, you'd better go now because it's takes awhile to drive to get there.
Her: I don't know if I want to go.
Me: Well, so you want to go dinner with me. (She agreed)
I took her to this Thai restaurant. At the restaurant, I did the ordering. Of course, I was a gentlement, so I did ask to make sure she can eat the food I'm going to order. "Can you eat seafood?" So I ordered seafood. It's common courtesy I thought. I also ordered other dishes. She seemed to enjoy the meal.
We seem to click during our dinner conversation. She asked me one question that I remember. Her question: "If you like a girl, would you like a girl to like you first or you like the girl first?"
I did not know the answer. Then, right at the moment, the waitress interrupted right on time, leaving the question unanswered.
Towards the end, I paid the bill, and headed to my place. The dinner lasted about 2 hours. I don't remember all I said or she said, but I knew she was enjoying it. Me too.
Now we arrive at my place parking lot. She asked, "Can I use the restroom?" So I let her in my place again. After she used the restroom, she stayed to chat with me a little. Ten minutes after, she said "I got to get going." "Let me walk you out," I said.
On the way out, I said "Lets cancel the dinner tomorrow."
She responded, "Are you going to hang out with those guys tomorrow?" She's referring to our group of friends that we normally hang out on weekends. "I don't know," I responded.
But guess what? I cancelled the Saturday dinner because I thought I don't like it if she's inviting her other friends to join us. Also, I just had good dinner with her already, so I don't want another one so soon.
Ten minutes after she left, she called me.
Her: I can't find the freeway.
(She has to take the free way back to her house)
Me: Really? Try to take this road blah blah blah.
Her: Okay, I'll try. If I still get lost, I'll call you again.
she hung up the phone.
Five minutes later, I called her to make sure she finds her way.
Me: Did you find the way home okay?
Her: I'm fine now.
Then, instead of ending the conversation, we ended chatting for another 30 min on the phone while she's driving home. It was all fun.
Now the night ended good. YOu know what? I felt so good that I was much in control and I did take the guts to ask her and I did it well. Thanks to all the don juans again for the tips so far.
So, One dinner is out of the way. Now what do I do next???
