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Don Juan
Well first post topic in like...forever...over a year i'm sure. I've had no problems getting women or whatever. I recently just go out of a 7 month relationship which ended with her being immature in a relationship sense and i was kind of fed up (more to it then just that but...there you go).
Hope everyone has been doing well!
However, 2 weeks ago i met this girl, and hung out with her and her best friend the following day...moved pretty quickly...from just talking to kissing like we are in a relationship in a matter of a day. We both agreed to take things slow however and it was steady after that, i love hanging out with this girl. She went on vacation last friday until this monday in new mexico with her brother and mother...to meet her aunt and uncle down there for the weekend and just hang out and have fun. She calls me (5-10mins here and there with a longer one at the end of the day or so) and text messages me frequently...and she was until she got back...and the text messaging thing slowed way down but still calls every so often.
Not really worried about that.
What i was worried about (this was ALL legit reasons...she wasn't bull****ting) is we made plans that monday night when she got back...but she felt sick so we said we'd go out tuesday night instead. However she wanted to hang out with her sister since she lives in AZ and was here over the weekend and she was leaving the following day. She never gets to see her much and haven't really that whole weekend. I'm like "yeah that's fine, no worries we'll do something some other time...what about wednesday?" We agree, and the time comes toward the night and we are talking and i bring up us hanging out that night and she said "don't be mad at me but she has to get some things done" or whatever. So now i'm just straight up annoyed...though it none of it really was her fault except probably the last day. And tonight i have reservations to go out to dinner when she gets done with work...and i've been more demanding...like telling her what we are doing and there isn't any getting around it...sort of thing, if you get what i'm saying.
Question: What should I do or show to her as of right now? Don't bother typing "move on" or something in the like...you are just wasting your time because that's not what i asked.
One last thing...I tried making sense of this but it seems my girls that are friends seem to understand more then me.
Her past 3 relationships have been with marines so she would see them maybe a couple days every few months...and we came up on the converstation about "us" and she said she "never had a guy always there for her." and that she was a little confused in what she wants to do right now...or something in the like. But assured me she still really likes me and cares about me...and her actions (other then stated above) prove it. I'm just being a little AFC right now but still.
Question: What's your take on that ^
hella long but good reading material beacuse i haven't seen this type of situation yet...maybe someone else can learn from it as well. Thanks.
Hope everyone has been doing well!
However, 2 weeks ago i met this girl, and hung out with her and her best friend the following day...moved pretty quickly...from just talking to kissing like we are in a relationship in a matter of a day. We both agreed to take things slow however and it was steady after that, i love hanging out with this girl. She went on vacation last friday until this monday in new mexico with her brother and mother...to meet her aunt and uncle down there for the weekend and just hang out and have fun. She calls me (5-10mins here and there with a longer one at the end of the day or so) and text messages me frequently...and she was until she got back...and the text messaging thing slowed way down but still calls every so often.
Not really worried about that.
What i was worried about (this was ALL legit reasons...she wasn't bull****ting) is we made plans that monday night when she got back...but she felt sick so we said we'd go out tuesday night instead. However she wanted to hang out with her sister since she lives in AZ and was here over the weekend and she was leaving the following day. She never gets to see her much and haven't really that whole weekend. I'm like "yeah that's fine, no worries we'll do something some other time...what about wednesday?" We agree, and the time comes toward the night and we are talking and i bring up us hanging out that night and she said "don't be mad at me but she has to get some things done" or whatever. So now i'm just straight up annoyed...though it none of it really was her fault except probably the last day. And tonight i have reservations to go out to dinner when she gets done with work...and i've been more demanding...like telling her what we are doing and there isn't any getting around it...sort of thing, if you get what i'm saying.
Question: What should I do or show to her as of right now? Don't bother typing "move on" or something in the like...you are just wasting your time because that's not what i asked.
One last thing...I tried making sense of this but it seems my girls that are friends seem to understand more then me.
Her past 3 relationships have been with marines so she would see them maybe a couple days every few months...and we came up on the converstation about "us" and she said she "never had a guy always there for her." and that she was a little confused in what she wants to do right now...or something in the like. But assured me she still really likes me and cares about me...and her actions (other then stated above) prove it. I'm just being a little AFC right now but still.
Question: What's your take on that ^
hella long but good reading material beacuse i haven't seen this type of situation yet...maybe someone else can learn from it as well. Thanks.
