SharinganUser
Master Don Juan
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- Oct 1, 2006
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I recently decided to join the Okcupid forums to stir up some **** for kicks. I made a post about how important Kino is and how to use it(though I didn't call it kino), I made another post about how relationships are not nessecary and that you shouldn't get into one unless you are already a happy, stable individual, and one about not dating fatties, but that one was more like icing the cake than actually seeing how people would react.
Needless to say that I was met with a lot of hostility especially from people people who didn't understand the concepts. They said I was being manipulative. They said that you shouldn't subtly woo someone for months, even though I didn't give a time constrained, I just assumed that people knew that you could kiss on a first date. They said that those things won't work on her if she doesn't feel attracted to you, even though a little attraction was implied in the topic I was discussing.
Why are people so sensative and hostile when it comes to wanting to improve your social skills in regaurds to dating? Why is it that when you learn how to sell a computer/stocks/drinks, it's called sales, but when you apply those same skills and concepts to dating it's called being manipulative.
Needless to say that I was met with a lot of hostility especially from people people who didn't understand the concepts. They said I was being manipulative. They said that you shouldn't subtly woo someone for months, even though I didn't give a time constrained, I just assumed that people knew that you could kiss on a first date. They said that those things won't work on her if she doesn't feel attracted to you, even though a little attraction was implied in the topic I was discussing.
Why are people so sensative and hostile when it comes to wanting to improve your social skills in regaurds to dating? Why is it that when you learn how to sell a computer/stocks/drinks, it's called sales, but when you apply those same skills and concepts to dating it's called being manipulative.