Befuddled
Don Juan
I've been living a great life over the past 6 months or so, and plan to keep it up. it's been awesome. And I’ve met a good deal of girls n gone out on a lot of dates, etc... But never really wanted to hook up cause I felt as though it would tye me down and would take away my newfound fun for live by making me feel like what I did with the onetis that drove me to these boards.
Anywho..... So if any of you read the post I posted awhile back this might seem familiar to you. So doing what I do best after the sun goes down... I go out with the buddies to a party..... get absolutely sloshed....had absolutely no intention of hooking up... talked to chicks n stuff... but we were just out to get some stupid-drunk-memories... hehe.
Now id met this girl.... and had literally never had a conversation with her...ever (except for the introduction). So we are all getting drunk at this party, which has like a good 50-75 ppl. It's getting late and I’m starting to slowly black out.... we're on the grass.. Touching n groping n stuff. Then I temporarily black out....the next thing I remember is her leading me back to our apartments... holding hands n all.
So she makes me a sandwich...we make small talk with other ppl there at her place, and we climb into bed together. We make out n stuff,but in my state I couldn’t go any further. So we sober up a little.... and get ready to got o bed together.... then I try to get her top off...and she’s like 'nooo not tonight'.... at this point I was like... alright... I’m passing out. But I’m a talkative drunk.. And usually id end up in deep conversations...so I wasn’t getting any sleep and started rambling on and on...it was pretty cold that night, so I was like "yeah id like to go to Alaska for my honeymoon just cause the cold will encourage more sex" n just random **** like that lol. Then if I remember correctly the conversation steered to kids....and I said something like "the only time I’ve ever felt like having kids was when I watched monsters inc." lol. So anyway she sushhed me...and we went to sleep. I mosey on out later in the morning.
The next day.... I go over to hang out...and she gets all touchy feely with me on the couch and she decided to watch monster's inc. kind of weird. I doze off during the movie, and when I wake up some guys come over n invite her n her roomies to drink... n they go...so I was like... hmmm.... so I mosey on off to the clubs.
Since then she’s been coming over to my apartment a LOT more often(like every other day), and asking me to hang out with her n stuff. it's all cool.... she’s cool to hang out with.
Over Easter break, a friend of mine informs me that she lost her virginity very recently and that she’s only been with 2 guys. I was like ...that’s awesome. One of them is a friend of mine(a major player)...didn’t really bother me. But this guy also tells me that she tried to get with HIM, but that he wasn’t interested n she was very disappointed. I’m thinking I ended up in bed with her a week or so after that. I was a bit..... Disappointed, but not a big deal at all.
So we hang out some more..... n then end up going to the local pub about a week ago. This dude who filled me in on her, n my buddies n myself have become good friends so we went there as a group(she was there before).
So me n a couple of friends get a pool game going, and she comes over n we flirt n hold hands n stuff.... standard stuff. But towards the end I glance over to her and she has her arms around this dude. He isn’t responding, but she’s got her hands all over him(not just a hug…this was like for a good 5-10 minutes). That just got me a bit confused.... the alcohol didn’t help. That basically killed my drive to try and spend the night with her.
Later that night we end up at my place, n r just hanging out having the usual drunken conversation...and end up talking about sex. And she mentions she lost her virginity 2 months ago and has never had an orgasm, etc etc, while looking straight at me in a nervous sort of way. I had nothing to contribute to the conversation so I just nod. she was just hanging around at this point and the awkward silence on the 4 of us being in the same room was getting unbearable, so I fire up my video games and just block it all out
. The dude she tried to get with comes in, and before he’s about to leave she pulls him back...holing hands, etc...And puts her arms around him from behind and starts groping his groin...like right in front of me…and talking something as well. My buddies were just plain shocked, as was I... I just kept playing the video game.
So the dude leaves, and she finally leaves.
The next day she comes over n tries to get me to go clubbing with her n her friends.....I was kind of low on funds so didn’t go out, and didn’t really want to go out with her that night.... she tried to come onto me with kino n stuff.... like arms around the waist n stuff...I just backed away and kept the conversation casual and was friendly but didn’t make any contact with her on purpose.
This was on Saturday night, which has been the last I’ve seen/heard from her.
It doesn’t bother me much cause I’ve had a lot of **** going on so don’t have much time on my hands. But it's awkward how the high point with this chick was in the very beginning.
I figure I can still hang around with her n stuff, n it's pretty obvious she likes me, but apparently she like a whole group of other guys as well n makes me feel like I’m on a list. I doubt ill take it any further than friends with her though. What do you guys reckon?
The above account took place over a 3-week period.
Anywho..... So if any of you read the post I posted awhile back this might seem familiar to you. So doing what I do best after the sun goes down... I go out with the buddies to a party..... get absolutely sloshed....had absolutely no intention of hooking up... talked to chicks n stuff... but we were just out to get some stupid-drunk-memories... hehe.
Now id met this girl.... and had literally never had a conversation with her...ever (except for the introduction). So we are all getting drunk at this party, which has like a good 50-75 ppl. It's getting late and I’m starting to slowly black out.... we're on the grass.. Touching n groping n stuff. Then I temporarily black out....the next thing I remember is her leading me back to our apartments... holding hands n all.
So she makes me a sandwich...we make small talk with other ppl there at her place, and we climb into bed together. We make out n stuff,but in my state I couldn’t go any further. So we sober up a little.... and get ready to got o bed together.... then I try to get her top off...and she’s like 'nooo not tonight'.... at this point I was like... alright... I’m passing out. But I’m a talkative drunk.. And usually id end up in deep conversations...so I wasn’t getting any sleep and started rambling on and on...it was pretty cold that night, so I was like "yeah id like to go to Alaska for my honeymoon just cause the cold will encourage more sex" n just random **** like that lol. Then if I remember correctly the conversation steered to kids....and I said something like "the only time I’ve ever felt like having kids was when I watched monsters inc." lol. So anyway she sushhed me...and we went to sleep. I mosey on out later in the morning.
The next day.... I go over to hang out...and she gets all touchy feely with me on the couch and she decided to watch monster's inc. kind of weird. I doze off during the movie, and when I wake up some guys come over n invite her n her roomies to drink... n they go...so I was like... hmmm.... so I mosey on off to the clubs.
Since then she’s been coming over to my apartment a LOT more often(like every other day), and asking me to hang out with her n stuff. it's all cool.... she’s cool to hang out with.
Over Easter break, a friend of mine informs me that she lost her virginity very recently and that she’s only been with 2 guys. I was like ...that’s awesome. One of them is a friend of mine(a major player)...didn’t really bother me. But this guy also tells me that she tried to get with HIM, but that he wasn’t interested n she was very disappointed. I’m thinking I ended up in bed with her a week or so after that. I was a bit..... Disappointed, but not a big deal at all.
So we hang out some more..... n then end up going to the local pub about a week ago. This dude who filled me in on her, n my buddies n myself have become good friends so we went there as a group(she was there before).
So me n a couple of friends get a pool game going, and she comes over n we flirt n hold hands n stuff.... standard stuff. But towards the end I glance over to her and she has her arms around this dude. He isn’t responding, but she’s got her hands all over him(not just a hug…this was like for a good 5-10 minutes). That just got me a bit confused.... the alcohol didn’t help. That basically killed my drive to try and spend the night with her.
Later that night we end up at my place, n r just hanging out having the usual drunken conversation...and end up talking about sex. And she mentions she lost her virginity 2 months ago and has never had an orgasm, etc etc, while looking straight at me in a nervous sort of way. I had nothing to contribute to the conversation so I just nod. she was just hanging around at this point and the awkward silence on the 4 of us being in the same room was getting unbearable, so I fire up my video games and just block it all out
. The dude she tried to get with comes in, and before he’s about to leave she pulls him back...holing hands, etc...And puts her arms around him from behind and starts groping his groin...like right in front of me…and talking something as well. My buddies were just plain shocked, as was I... I just kept playing the video game.So the dude leaves, and she finally leaves.
The next day she comes over n tries to get me to go clubbing with her n her friends.....I was kind of low on funds so didn’t go out, and didn’t really want to go out with her that night.... she tried to come onto me with kino n stuff.... like arms around the waist n stuff...I just backed away and kept the conversation casual and was friendly but didn’t make any contact with her on purpose.
This was on Saturday night, which has been the last I’ve seen/heard from her.
It doesn’t bother me much cause I’ve had a lot of **** going on so don’t have much time on my hands. But it's awkward how the high point with this chick was in the very beginning.
I figure I can still hang around with her n stuff, n it's pretty obvious she likes me, but apparently she like a whole group of other guys as well n makes me feel like I’m on a list. I doubt ill take it any further than friends with her though. What do you guys reckon?
The above account took place over a 3-week period.
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