This has been annoying me so here it goes. I see DJ's here commenting on these "monkey" girls that wait for a new guy to come along before ditching their current man. The DJ says: forget her, move on, you can't trust her, she'll leave you for another guy too, blah, blah.
You DJ's who say this I have to ask, what type of woman will surely not leave you or not cheat on you or surely not betray your trust? Please disclose the attributes of this type of woman for me, b/c when you do I will begin my quest to find one of these divine female creatures. I would assume I will be following a yellow brick road accompanied by a scarecrow and a fukkin squeaky tin man on my way to find this woman of my dreams.
Get real! There are no absolutes in life except death. How do you know you can trust a certain woman? Some of you say well if she is leaving him for me she'll do the same to me. How do you know that? Please tell me. How do you know you won't be able to trust her with you? Please tell. How do you know the single woman you date will be trustworthy? You don't. It involves risk dealing with all women, and it's the same for them dealing with us.
I can hear it now "But Crowes, if she left him for me, she'll leave me for another guy." So what! Grow some balls! Maybe she won't leave you, won't cheat on you, be a great partner. No way to tell but try.
You know what, that little 20 year old virgin that is in church every Sunday and is innocent as they come, she might leave you azz too, she might cheat on you, she may be untrustworthy.
DJ's will say: well those "monkey" girls have low self esteem. Yep, probably do. But do you agree all women are needy? You know they are so that makes them all insecure in a way. Plenty of DJ's here are insecure, do we banish them and deem them not worthy?
Any DJ's here used a girl for sex or social proof? We all know the answer. Then when the right girl came you ditched her for this other girl. WTF is the difeerence in that and a girl staying w/ a guy until a better mate came along?
This is a huge double standard we are applying here. You DJ's that say a girl like this will leave you for another guy too, tell me how you know this? Is that what happens in every case of a girl leaving one guy for another? Hell no.
And you know, if I was in a relationship with a girl and the sex was great, but I didn't really love her, and I fell in true love with another girl, I'd leave her azz for the better girl. DJ's will say, well I wouldn't be in a relationship w/ her to begin with. Yea right. You can't predict how things will happen or what your feelings toward a person will be. It's all about risk.
Any DJ's here been exclusive w/ a girl but flirted with other women, or cheated, or left her b/c the relationship was going sour and you had a new honey showing interest? Does that make you a monkey too? Are you the same DJ bashing these "monkey girls"?
You cannot tell me that a woman in a certain setting (ie: single) will be trustworthy for certain, or not leave you for another guy.
Why are some of you DJ's scared of what the woman may do? Why don't you have any balls? Why can't you accept the fact that any woman may leave you for another guy? Why are you so damn scared of getting involved with her because you are afraid she may leave you? Again, why don't you have any balls?
In my opinion if you are scared that she may leave you for any reason, you are not a DJ. If you are scared to get involved with her because she left her man for you, and your'e afraid she'll do the same to you, you are not a DJ.
You "scared DJ's" don't make sense to me. To me a real DJ will assume risk, be fully aware of it, and deal with what happens, like a fukkin man. As I said, there is no woman guaranteed not to leave you. If you eliminate your options by being afraid to accept she left him for you and may do you the same way, you have lost. Your fear of what she may or may not do has defeated the possibility of you being a DJ, it confines you to act or not act on the possibility of what may or may not happen.
I choose not to be one of these hypocritical DJ's.
You DJ's who say this I have to ask, what type of woman will surely not leave you or not cheat on you or surely not betray your trust? Please disclose the attributes of this type of woman for me, b/c when you do I will begin my quest to find one of these divine female creatures. I would assume I will be following a yellow brick road accompanied by a scarecrow and a fukkin squeaky tin man on my way to find this woman of my dreams.
Get real! There are no absolutes in life except death. How do you know you can trust a certain woman? Some of you say well if she is leaving him for me she'll do the same to me. How do you know that? Please tell me. How do you know you won't be able to trust her with you? Please tell. How do you know the single woman you date will be trustworthy? You don't. It involves risk dealing with all women, and it's the same for them dealing with us.
I can hear it now "But Crowes, if she left him for me, she'll leave me for another guy." So what! Grow some balls! Maybe she won't leave you, won't cheat on you, be a great partner. No way to tell but try.
You know what, that little 20 year old virgin that is in church every Sunday and is innocent as they come, she might leave you azz too, she might cheat on you, she may be untrustworthy.
DJ's will say: well those "monkey" girls have low self esteem. Yep, probably do. But do you agree all women are needy? You know they are so that makes them all insecure in a way. Plenty of DJ's here are insecure, do we banish them and deem them not worthy?
Any DJ's here used a girl for sex or social proof? We all know the answer. Then when the right girl came you ditched her for this other girl. WTF is the difeerence in that and a girl staying w/ a guy until a better mate came along?
This is a huge double standard we are applying here. You DJ's that say a girl like this will leave you for another guy too, tell me how you know this? Is that what happens in every case of a girl leaving one guy for another? Hell no.
And you know, if I was in a relationship with a girl and the sex was great, but I didn't really love her, and I fell in true love with another girl, I'd leave her azz for the better girl. DJ's will say, well I wouldn't be in a relationship w/ her to begin with. Yea right. You can't predict how things will happen or what your feelings toward a person will be. It's all about risk.
Any DJ's here been exclusive w/ a girl but flirted with other women, or cheated, or left her b/c the relationship was going sour and you had a new honey showing interest? Does that make you a monkey too? Are you the same DJ bashing these "monkey girls"?
You cannot tell me that a woman in a certain setting (ie: single) will be trustworthy for certain, or not leave you for another guy.
Why are some of you DJ's scared of what the woman may do? Why don't you have any balls? Why can't you accept the fact that any woman may leave you for another guy? Why are you so damn scared of getting involved with her because you are afraid she may leave you? Again, why don't you have any balls?
In my opinion if you are scared that she may leave you for any reason, you are not a DJ. If you are scared to get involved with her because she left her man for you, and your'e afraid she'll do the same to you, you are not a DJ.
You "scared DJ's" don't make sense to me. To me a real DJ will assume risk, be fully aware of it, and deal with what happens, like a fukkin man. As I said, there is no woman guaranteed not to leave you. If you eliminate your options by being afraid to accept she left him for you and may do you the same way, you have lost. Your fear of what she may or may not do has defeated the possibility of you being a DJ, it confines you to act or not act on the possibility of what may or may not happen.
I choose not to be one of these hypocritical DJ's.