From ASF - When you neg, ALWAYS present it as a compliment - be charming, friendly, positive, earnest and sincere in your "compliment"
If you present your neg as a deliberate insult you come off as a jerk (which however is a good excuse to "apologise" by giving her a hug and a kiss to "make up" for your insult
. Being a jerk of course could be a turn-on for some girls, but more often than not, it is a turn-off. Which doesn't mean that being a nice guy is your goal, in fact that's usually an even bigger turn-off. When you fall into the "nice" and eventually the "Let's Just Be Friends" zone, you'll wish you would have fallen into the "jerk" zone, that way you would at least have had some sort of a chance of doing a comeback. So avoid being a "jerk" or a "nice guy" - just take the best of both worlds and neg her with a "compliment
Then - once she is down from her throne - You gotta Demonstrate Some Value
She is on a throne only in your mind. If you actually considered yourself worthy of her, even better than her, you wouldnt even have to do that.
DEMONSTRATE VALUE.
Of course it all depends on how you are leading the convo and what you want to know from her - example from ASF.
The point of eliciting values is to find out what she wants in and from a man and then turn into that man of her dreams by providing her with it. But don't be fooled, if she says she wants her man to be tall and financially secure, you're not going to the doctor to get implants for your legs or rob a bank. What she gave you were means values, which means that tall in itself does nothing for her - what matters to her is how a tall man by her side makes her feel. And this is the key - for each means value you need to find out the ends value, which is what she really wants. Let's take the example of a tall man. Asking her "and how does a tall man make you feel?" might reveal that it makes her feel secure and protected! Aha! That's what she really wants! She wants to feel protected and secure, not a "tall man" per se. In practice, she'll reject a tall man that doesn't make her feel protected and secure right away, whereas you, who you might not be tall at all but can make her feel secure and protected, have just elicited your way to her pants.
All women want the same thing - a man. Statng what you like and not feeling insecure whether she will like it, she will be impressed more than if you played it like you were similar souls.
Now personally i am an athlete, so i try to take the convo down this pathway - demonstrating my athletic prowess, asking her how an athletic person/strong person makes her feel etc.
Now you can demonstrate value in a number of ways - not just through convo - Take mysterys levitation trick for example.
We are all individuals and all have different qualities that we can elicit to reel in the prey, you just gotta find it. Once this has been done - I like to ISOLATE the women.
You are trying to impress her. Rather express yourself, your feelings and experiences, she will follow.
ISOLATION.
Put them in a place where they are isolated, and they will die before fleeing (or something lol) - Sun-Tzu
Once you have your target isolated, then its time to run some game on her - Veil the world so that she sees only you at this time, present her with topics that control the flow of her day, use words to captivate her imagination and take her on a spellbinding rollercoaster of emotion that ultimately gets YOU where YOU want to be.
An easy way to elicit some more value and get some good MAVEC in is to use the mind reader test lol. Pretty cheesy but, hold her gaze with that Sexual State of mind and squeeze her hand as you do so.
Tell her to look into your eyes and think of a vegetable beginning with the letter C, then a country beginning with D, then a animal beginning with E.
The Usual answer would be - You: Your eating Carrots in Denmark while riding Elephants???
- this is good for KINO (watch for her squeezing your hand back and hold her gaze - If she holds your gaze for more than 3 secs then i would go in for the kiss ;X
If your not feeling the vibe just yet then you could try running some patterns if you know some: Heres one i analysed:
SS: Sex Is natural - analysed
This is a powerful pattern based around getting the women wet and in the sack in 10 minutes - the delivery of this should be near pefect - your voice tone should be on top form, you MAVEC should 75% of the way be natural and comfortable and the overall process in which you deliver the pattern should be based around you knowing that your gonna get a lay at the end of it - KNOWING.
Sex Is Natural Pattern:
(Fluff talk etc. Remember.. connection first!)
You : Well, we're adult's now, aren't we? We can talk about sex in an intelligent way, can't we ?
Her : Uhhh...yeah...
You : Well....how do you VIEW SEX NOW. (?)
(shut up and let her talk)
You : I agree. And I think that SEX is much more than that. It's human nature! SEX ensures that our species will survive and that's why SEX IS PROGRAMMED DEEPLY... INSIDE... YOUR MINE. It's like... there's this voice (pause, point to your own mouth or throat... hahaha... ambiguity) inside YOUR MINE, which is actually, your vocalized URGES and DESIRES... and as you LISTEN TO THIS VOICE, it's telling you... YOU WANNA HAVE SEX, YOU WANNA HAVE SEX... YOU NEED TO HAVE SEX.... YOU NEED TO HAVE SEX. NOW, WITH ME, this is all so natural! You may not ACT ON IT, or JUST DO IT, but the point is, it's a DESIRE... a natural, AROUSING URGE... ME, I TAKE THIS IN (point to ****)... with an open mind.
I don't know if you have OPENED YOURSELF UP (open leg gesture*) to things (point to ****) like these."
open leg gesture - join both palms, point palms towards her legs, then separate them on cue.
Ok, unneccessary. You assume shes not into sex, and u have to make it look natural. Of course sex is natural, treat it as such with your behavior. I.e. talk freely about it, but dont make it important. If she sees it is importat to you, she will not have sex with you. It is strange, but thats how women operate.
remember - this is only a template - mould and shape it to fit it your situaton
Beleive in yourself and deliver with confidence - then enjoy the fruits of your labour.
At this stage of your Sarge/Approach you should be at a level where youve #closed and really ought to have *closed. But if not, the game you have run and the following of this guide should stand you in good stead for future sarges.
Conclusion:
OPENER
NEG HIT
ELICIT VALUE
ISOLATE
MIND TRICKS/KINO/MAVEC/ROUTINE
CLOSE
Believe in yourself, and DO NOT FEAR APPROACHING - IF YOU WANT IT...THEN TAKE IT!!!
well that is as far from TAKING IT as it gets.
Good Luck
Sarge On... [/B][/QUOTE]