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They live with the false idea that they can get something perfect. Human relations are complex and problems arise because of variety of reasons. As some people are wrongly suggesting, I never said people should stick to one relationship for life even if it makes them feel miserable, but some guys here sound like feminists when they say "Oh, more power to people who change their lives", yeah, right, people who change their lives without even trying to see what the issues are and trying to give them a fix at first, people who throw away whole years of their lives because they "are not compatible any longer" or "don't feel the same way".
There's deception in social media. Wake up.
And high value men like the POTUS are always trading in their wives for younger, childless models. When women act as per their Sexual Market Value imperative, it's "liberating", but when men do it, it's scoundrelous.
Oh I disagree. They know exactly what they're doing, and as long as they don't get knocked up or get fat, they know that they can go into "beta male" mode when they hit the big 3-0.
This is called the disaster scenario in the MGTOW/TFL/incel community.
Yes, a lot of men can't. Oh sure they *could* if they could be satisfied with a fat chick or single mommie, etc.
To me - It would depend on the reason for the lack of happiness. If it's a lack of attraction - there's no resolve for that. There's no reason either side should want to resolve that. And I think most relationships end because of lack of attraction. Externally, other issues may arise (and normally come through in the form of nagging, constant fighting, etc) but the underlying reason is one side no longer finding the other charming.
Society will evolve in it's own direction regardless of what a few frustrated "smart people" think. There are many men who have been preaching that humans aren't meant to be bonded together beyond the normal period of time it takes for child birth. I have sea-sawed back and forth on my opinion on that topic; and I think there's pro's and con's to both.
And how do you know this girl wasn't miserable in their relationship? Because of social media? Because when you were with them they "seemed" happy. Come on man....lizardking82 said:
If a person (man or woman) stays in a relationship they do not enjoy being in, it's far more likely to turn into a toxic relationship. Thus making both parties unhappy.lizardking82 said:
I would say the number of people miserable that they left someone and then realized it was a mistake are DWARFED by people who are miserable because they choose to stay in relationships they have no business staying in.lizardking82 said:
Why so angry, man? I sent the message on mistake. **** happens. She didn;t even start anything with that guy anyways, she is back to calling me once in 2-3 days, told me she misses me, she doesn't feel him, bla bla, exactly what I told her would happen LOL
Sounds like this explains both your friends in this story. It's sad but I know that feeling, though it feels distant after my decade of growth. End of the day, once you have a life you enjoy, you can't fall for this trap anymore. Being alone is infinitely better than settling for a crazy chick.
And I could give a rats a$$. Zero sympathy for those, that lack the ambition and balls to even attempt to try taking what is theirs for the taking. There's literally no excuse for it today.
I'm not angry, just calling it how I see it. If it ain't this chick, then how many chicks are you falling for enough that you have unspoken commitments with? Like that's a thing, as I said in the last thread. You ain't got to lie to kick it with me bruh.
I don't wanna kick it with you, dude. We're just discussing. You didn't remember, I reminded it to you since it's my story. No commitments, I don't even worry about her anymore. She is going in the path I knew she would and I told her she would. She thought she was smarter and right, so now she gets what's coming her way. I don't have commitments with women, let alone unspoken ones, but in general, when things are going fairly OK between two people, women don't tend to go fack other dudes. When they do, they are more "cheating" on themselves then on me, really. She can get d1ck anywhere, but she can't get a person that makes her laugh and feel good and sometimes feel angry and knows how to handle her in virtually every situation. Women and everyone is free to do whatever they want. When I care about a person, I feel "owed" to tell them if I think they're doing it wrong or not. Most of the time, they don't care and go on and do it anyways and then they come back telling me it happened almost exactly how I told them it would.
Was being sarcastic. And tldr.
Thank you for being sarcastic, man. I will continue my attempts to talk to you like a grown up person, but I respect your sarcasm, though.
I tried red pilling them, but they are so broken they won't listen. Heck, I wont deny I wouldn't have listened either when I was in their shoes. I was them up until a year ago after a BPD broke me down to my very core. Im talking broke me the phuk down to the point I almost took my own life over some stupid alcoholic, coke wh0re! I didn't have a lot of experience with women, so I was the perfect target for her to destroy. I'm a completely different man now. Never thought I would be where I am today. While I have a STD and PTSD from that experience, I am grateful for who I have become. I've grown and learned more about life and myself in the past year than I have in 10.
Well the guy was a super beta for 1) having a facebook bc only women have facebook 2) like a woman he put pics of them up (I think I am going to vomit) If the man had an Instagram as well he wears pink panties to bed at night.
