nroug7 said:
Doing what feels natural, there's no real technique, no way you SHOULD respond to anything, no set barriers.
There's no set way you should act or speak when it comes to attracting women, and you shouldn't spend every minute analysing your battle plan, if It happens it happens. if it doesn't, it doesn't.
Women are simple, they don't want to spend all their time with you talking about serious stuff, they do that already with every girl and nice guy. But talking to women won't get you friend zoned if you can remain flirtatious and joke around.
So that's it, just do whatever feels right. You will get the girl or you won't, but does it really matter?
First off , doing 'whatever feel right' is only as good as the situation we speak of. You think there's no real technique ? Well,you're wrong. There SHOULD be none , but that's only in a dream world where men are educated to be men , instead of pussified metaphoric she-males.
Society indoctrinates males even since they're born to "give her flowers, express your feelings , be
a nice guy , treat every girl like she's special". A.k.a put her on a pedestal. Because this is how you're brought up ,
this particular behavior is what 'feels right'. And we all know where it leads.
Think of it as a poker game. Which player do you think will end up winning the important prizes ? The guy who takes his time to study the game and act on the knowledge he acquired or the fish who simply all-ins all his hands , the guy who plays how it "feels right" , no matter the outcome ?
Sure,the fish might have luck on his side and score from time to time,but in the long run , who comes ahead as the winner ?
Doing what feels right is only good once you know
what right is. Otherwise , there would be no friend-zone and no 25+ year plus virgins.
This is also the reason why so many people view the things DJ and pickup teach as completely wrong. Some are so indoctrinated that they simply find this stuff unbelievable and think there's no way in hell it would ever work.Coincidentally (not coincidentally at all actually) these are the guys who have the biggest struggles.
One of the best examples is after you've been dumped by someone you really loved / cared for. What do you feel ? I'm willing to bet that being in the depressive state you would be in , what you feel is posting sad and pathetic statuses on facebook , texting her to take you back ,begging her on your knees and crying ,curled up in a ball ,on the floor.
No ? That's not you ? Okay , but it certainly is a vast majority of guys out there. I don't have to explain what the right course of action would be in that particular scenario , but the 'techniques' tough here are without a doubt better than what your average guys does.
