We all know or have seen a SHB. Whether or not she is your particular focus, no one is going to say that they wouldn’t like to have her. There is one big problem that is standing in everyone’s way. There are just not enough of them. Just like in economics, when there is a shortage of an in demand product, the prices will rise accordingly. Let’s just say 1 in 20 girls qualifies for SHB status. You are going to compete with at least 20 other guys for her attention. This is why the SHB will usually do what she wants. She doesn’t fear for loss because she knows that whatever it is can be easily replaced by someone else. Just look at any escort website, the hotter the girl, the higher the price.
Sure there are ways around this. You can date women under SHB status, find ones who don’t realize they are SHB, or go for untraditional SHB. All of these are legitimate solutions, but in the end does not resolve the basic problem, “How do I get her?”
The solution is in problem. You need to become rare. People have to stop viewing you as just one of another 1000 guys who want a SHB, but as a unique individual.
Let’s look at examples:
1. Working out. How many people do you see in real lives who are in shape? How many are really buff? Now tell me how many do you see who are fat? Part of the attraction that people have to those who are in shape is because there are so few of them.
2. Wealth. How many are rich? How many are poor?
It doesn’t just have to be objective things like looks and money. You can be funny, a good dancer, a dominate individual. You just have to stand out.
I think the point is obvious. The more qualities that express how you are unique, the more it will raise your value to her. She won’t just see you as a just another face, but as a specific individual who she will have to make a real choice about. The best part, no compromises are necessary, you are just being you.
The name of the game is scarcity. As we all know, people want what they can’t have. When you make yourself unique, the demand for you increases!
Two points:
It is important to note that you have to be able to express your individuality ******d. Yes we are all different in someway already, but without finding a way demonstrate to others, nobody is going to realize this.
When trying to express your uniqueness, go for the positive qualities which people aspire to. Do not just try and express your same old self with a new package. A 300 lbs man in an Armani Suit is still 300 lbs.
Sure there are ways around this. You can date women under SHB status, find ones who don’t realize they are SHB, or go for untraditional SHB. All of these are legitimate solutions, but in the end does not resolve the basic problem, “How do I get her?”
The solution is in problem. You need to become rare. People have to stop viewing you as just one of another 1000 guys who want a SHB, but as a unique individual.
Let’s look at examples:
1. Working out. How many people do you see in real lives who are in shape? How many are really buff? Now tell me how many do you see who are fat? Part of the attraction that people have to those who are in shape is because there are so few of them.
2. Wealth. How many are rich? How many are poor?
It doesn’t just have to be objective things like looks and money. You can be funny, a good dancer, a dominate individual. You just have to stand out.
I think the point is obvious. The more qualities that express how you are unique, the more it will raise your value to her. She won’t just see you as a just another face, but as a specific individual who she will have to make a real choice about. The best part, no compromises are necessary, you are just being you.
The name of the game is scarcity. As we all know, people want what they can’t have. When you make yourself unique, the demand for you increases!
Two points:
It is important to note that you have to be able to express your individuality ******d. Yes we are all different in someway already, but without finding a way demonstrate to others, nobody is going to realize this.
When trying to express your uniqueness, go for the positive qualities which people aspire to. Do not just try and express your same old self with a new package. A 300 lbs man in an Armani Suit is still 300 lbs.
