I did my first night out since becoming officially single last week, and was on fire from a pickup perspective. I went out with my co-workers, and went into full self-amused mastery single mode. In the span of 90 minutes, I made eye contact with and teased almost every girl around, kissed a cute girl and got her number, then went home with a college girl and had sex with her.
I tried out drama game, which Julien from RSD does, and it’s funny how effective it is. When I met the girl I took home, I made eye contact with her and she came up to me and asked me to buy her a drink (she’s poor and in college).
I went into this hilarious bullsh1t about how “all you girls are the same! I just want to open up to a good and loyal girl but you just want to get a drink out me! It’s so disgusting!”
It’s really amusing to do sh*t like this, and the girl rushed to gain my validation.
As a testament to the power of drama game, as the bars closed, the girl begged me to go home with her and promised that she’d drive me back the next day.
We had sex that night which was empty and meaningless, I ubered back from the girl’s place almost as soon as I woke up, and all today I’ve been depressed, hungover, and pining for my former girlfriend lol.
I did enjoy the experience, but ultimately the shallow sex was a drop in the bucket for the deep hole in my soul.
I will say though, bc coming out of a breakup is some deeply traumatic sh1t, it allows you to completely get rid of your fear of rejection. When you’ve just ended something with a girl you’ve loved, every other girl seems like worthless trash, which gives you the right mindset.
You look around you, and see guys standing stiffly ahead, and girls flitting around like emotional butterflies. Your mind zeroes in on the females at the bar as hilarious little girls who want you and are attracted to you, and you want to fvck around with. You don’t need them and their validation at all; your energy is self-amused and you share it with them. When you make eye contact, you might do some stupid confident little dance move while you say some mind blowingly stupid bullsh1t that makes you laugh.
In other words, you develop the mindset of “I’m going to have fun and mess around with these stupid little girls, and share my self-amused good feelings with them.”
If you have this mindset, you can say whatever comes to your mind, and practically get away with murder. I did p1ss off one girl when I commented on her earrings, but she got over it, and the rest of the girls were into what I was doing or not bothered by it.
We’ll see how many meaningless lays it takes to get over my former girlfriend.