hey bro, am in mid 30s.
The day she asked for a relationship, I asked clearly what does it means where she said she wanted a committed relations and we both agreed on getting rid of other ex/hookup from our phone/life.
So it was clear from myside and I maintained the same, while for her it didn't.
Many times she asked me when I was out if I am with another girl or when am on phone she will ask if am still talking to other girls. So for me it was same to ask her.
Why look at her phone? well , I think am glad I did before I spent more effort and emotions later to be found I have been cheated and dumped.
The day she asked for a relationship, I asked clearly what does it means where she said she wanted a committed relations and we both agreed on getting rid of other ex/hookup from our phone/life.
So it was clear from myside and I maintained the same, while for her it didn't.
Many times she asked me when I was out if I am with another girl or when am on phone she will ask if am still talking to other girls. So for me it was same to ask her.
Why look at her phone? well , I think am glad I did before I spent more effort and emotions later to be found I have been cheated and dumped.