Ok, why did you even bother looking at her facebook?The North Dragon said:Been going one a week now off no contact. Heard nothing from her and exuded to remove her from Facebook a couple day as ago. Ended up sniping on her yesterday for first time and see she added back her ex before. He's already in a relationship with someone else but she told me she disliked him, he cheating on her and treated her like crap.
What were you hoping to gain from it? That you'd find some post about how much she misses you or "I'm miserable now that part of my heart is mssing" blah blah blah......
Did you get what you wanted from looking at her page?
Are you now in a better place?
If you can learn from your mistake, then some good will come from this, if you cant, then I pity you.
Told or you saw?The North Dragon said:I remember one day when me and her were meeting up before we started dating her ex turned up really drunk. She told me she dismissed him and told him it was over for good.
Actions and words buddy......
Did the ex live with her when they were together?The North Dragon said:I kind of feel like my relationship was a rebound but it lasted 1.5 years? I was playing my cards right in the beginning always making her want more and trying to get me to move in her flat. After I told her I wasn't ready it pretty much went down from there.
That could be a reason she wanted you to move in, to fill the void of having a person in the house with her........
It may well have been a rebound initially
Does it really matter now though?
A year and a half on you're still in the same position - don't bother trying to work this sh1t out in your head mate, it really isn't worth it
To her, nothing had changed, it's the logic difference between men and women. Don't question it, just accept itThe North Dragon said:Couple months later I talked to her about getting a house and she couldn't understand why I wanted to do it now and not back then? I thought it was simply to early in the relationship.
Don't waste time trying to analyse
Why are you gutted?The North Dragon said:Kind of gutted I haven't heard anything back, would have been nice knowing she is thinking of me and it's hard not seeing each other anymore. I never begged her to stay I only try to fix I problem and want a second chance and she declined. Told her friends isn't an option and don't text me either.
By being gutted you are just saying to us that you are still clinging on,
all that says to me is that you are missing her and you're gutted that she doesn't feel the same way......
I realise you are only a week in, and as such its hard to get these things in check, but you gotta try and move on
You get this every now and again, but you will come out the other side stronger.The North Dragon said:Feeling like chit today bro's, feeling like I am back at day 1!!
You're still trying to analyse all the sh1t that went on - you gotta try and let it go
Don't dwell on it - keep active and try and clear your head of these unproductive thought.