Mr.Positive
Master Don Juan
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Aside from mingling in bars/parties, I've personally found that women rarely cold approach me in normal daily life. They do however, make it easy for me to approach them on occassion using subtle hints. The handful that have approached me directly, were terrible at it, nervous, didn't make sense, etc...so, I've always thought gals were just bad at it.
Today, I was proven wrong, in a big way. I was approached by a gal today at lunch, that put any cold approach I've ever done to shame.
I thought I'd share this story..
I was at my favorite deli today for a late lunch, and the place was empty. While I was waiting for my sandwich, a young gal walks in and makes strong eye contact with me as she approached the counter. Very confidently.
Tall gal, very beautiful, big brown eyes, long black hair, latin descent, and dressed black business attire.
So, I get my sandwich, grab a paper and sit down at a table in the corner. The deli has about 10 tables, for two, all empty, and a few minutes later this gal sits at the table next to mine, in the chair opposite facing me, crosses her legs in my direction, and starts twirling her hair while looking down at her sandwich.
I take that as an obvious subtle hint, and start thinking about what to say to approach her.
Well, I didn't have to say a thing. She stands up, walks directly up to me, and stands very close to me as I'm sitting down.
I look up at at her, she smiles, strikes a sexy pose with her hips out, and says in a quiet feminine voice.."would you please open this for me?"
She hands me a bottled water. I open it, look back up at her, and she tilts her head slightly, smiles, and says thank you....never breaking eye contact.
She then slowly turns around, and sits back down at her table, crosses her legs in my direction, tilts her head again, makes eye contact, and smiles again.
This approach, actually left me speechless as I continued to look at her. After a moment or two, I snapped out of it and ended up joining her at her table for a nice lunch together. Nice gal, though think she's a bit young for me. We exchanged numbers.
But wow, that was one bold, confident, approach. That gal really amazed me by doing that. It was all in her body language.
The kicker though, was before she approached...she didn't even try to open the bottled water herself. That's just classic, right there.
Today, I was proven wrong, in a big way. I was approached by a gal today at lunch, that put any cold approach I've ever done to shame.
I thought I'd share this story..
I was at my favorite deli today for a late lunch, and the place was empty. While I was waiting for my sandwich, a young gal walks in and makes strong eye contact with me as she approached the counter. Very confidently.
Tall gal, very beautiful, big brown eyes, long black hair, latin descent, and dressed black business attire.
So, I get my sandwich, grab a paper and sit down at a table in the corner. The deli has about 10 tables, for two, all empty, and a few minutes later this gal sits at the table next to mine, in the chair opposite facing me, crosses her legs in my direction, and starts twirling her hair while looking down at her sandwich.
I take that as an obvious subtle hint, and start thinking about what to say to approach her.
Well, I didn't have to say a thing. She stands up, walks directly up to me, and stands very close to me as I'm sitting down.
I look up at at her, she smiles, strikes a sexy pose with her hips out, and says in a quiet feminine voice.."would you please open this for me?"
She hands me a bottled water. I open it, look back up at her, and she tilts her head slightly, smiles, and says thank you....never breaking eye contact.
She then slowly turns around, and sits back down at her table, crosses her legs in my direction, tilts her head again, makes eye contact, and smiles again.
This approach, actually left me speechless as I continued to look at her. After a moment or two, I snapped out of it and ended up joining her at her table for a nice lunch together. Nice gal, though think she's a bit young for me. We exchanged numbers.
But wow, that was one bold, confident, approach. That gal really amazed me by doing that. It was all in her body language.
The kicker though, was before she approached...she didn't even try to open the bottled water herself. That's just classic, right there.
