The manly approach i've come to realize to many is something along the lines of this:
See a hot girl and you waste no time.. you approach her let her know your intentions of you're attracted to her and you want to take her out on a date. No wasting time.. no beating around the bush.. Oh, if I had a penny for every time I've seen a guy approach a girl with this technique and get completely shot down... there is much better way to cold approach as well, this is definitely one of the most overly used and cliche ways of going about it.
Anyways.. could this work? ofcourse anything could work. I've approached 50+ girls with "you'd look cute as fawk waking up next to me in bed, i just had to come tell you that" and i've landed more then a few numbers and slept with two of them. Is that game? no, its playing the odds, they would of slept with me no matter what i said. I could of approached them in a clown suit and probably got the same results.
Want to know what will easily double your amount of lays with approaching the same amount of girls you already do?
Focus more on "disarming" the "seducing" in the very beginning. reason is most chicks need to be ready to be hit on, "MASCULINE MEN" go up to hot chicks all day everyday hitting on them and asking them out right off the bat, this is a turn off unless shes physically attracted to you, don't play the numbers game...
You on the other hand are doing the complete opposite, displaying that you're a cool guy with an awesome personality, good conversation, etc. they key is to become likable. Once you've established this THEN you can flirt, if you don't FLIRT after you've established this you will end in the friendzone.
whats works AMAZINGLY well is "accidentally discovering that shes your type" its also the truth, i started to talk to hot girls and realized i cant STAND them..
say things like:
-you like family guy too? daaamn you might be awesome, i can't tell just yet tho
-you're not a materialistic chick like the others in town, i like that about you
-NO WAY you listen to eminem also? you're going to be my future ex wife, im keeping the dog when we split though.. sorry i'm an animal lover.
you gotta read signs then you can start laying down some more aggressive game, but flirting, rapport, and relating to a girl will land you in bed with her over "hey im john, your cute, let me take you out" ANY DAY OF THE WEEK. no matter how "manly" anyone believes that approach is.
worst case scenario if you DON'T hook up with the chick, you're got a cool female friend, that knows your a cool guy and girls LOVE playing match maker.
P.S. I know someone is going to respond with the cliche "this is a waste of time, i don't need to put in any work, i'm a man, if she doesn't want me right from the beginning, i get rid of her and on to the next one"
Do car dealerships have sales people trying to actually sell cars? Or do they work on the theory of: if someone wants to buy a car they will buy it, we don't need to convince them, or show them what the car has to offer. Its a waste of time for us to have any sales people.
See a hot girl and you waste no time.. you approach her let her know your intentions of you're attracted to her and you want to take her out on a date. No wasting time.. no beating around the bush.. Oh, if I had a penny for every time I've seen a guy approach a girl with this technique and get completely shot down... there is much better way to cold approach as well, this is definitely one of the most overly used and cliche ways of going about it.
Anyways.. could this work? ofcourse anything could work. I've approached 50+ girls with "you'd look cute as fawk waking up next to me in bed, i just had to come tell you that" and i've landed more then a few numbers and slept with two of them. Is that game? no, its playing the odds, they would of slept with me no matter what i said. I could of approached them in a clown suit and probably got the same results.
Want to know what will easily double your amount of lays with approaching the same amount of girls you already do?
Focus more on "disarming" the "seducing" in the very beginning. reason is most chicks need to be ready to be hit on, "MASCULINE MEN" go up to hot chicks all day everyday hitting on them and asking them out right off the bat, this is a turn off unless shes physically attracted to you, don't play the numbers game...
You on the other hand are doing the complete opposite, displaying that you're a cool guy with an awesome personality, good conversation, etc. they key is to become likable. Once you've established this THEN you can flirt, if you don't FLIRT after you've established this you will end in the friendzone.
whats works AMAZINGLY well is "accidentally discovering that shes your type" its also the truth, i started to talk to hot girls and realized i cant STAND them..
say things like:
-you like family guy too? daaamn you might be awesome, i can't tell just yet tho
-you're not a materialistic chick like the others in town, i like that about you
-NO WAY you listen to eminem also? you're going to be my future ex wife, im keeping the dog when we split though.. sorry i'm an animal lover.
you gotta read signs then you can start laying down some more aggressive game, but flirting, rapport, and relating to a girl will land you in bed with her over "hey im john, your cute, let me take you out" ANY DAY OF THE WEEK. no matter how "manly" anyone believes that approach is.
worst case scenario if you DON'T hook up with the chick, you're got a cool female friend, that knows your a cool guy and girls LOVE playing match maker.
P.S. I know someone is going to respond with the cliche "this is a waste of time, i don't need to put in any work, i'm a man, if she doesn't want me right from the beginning, i get rid of her and on to the next one"
Do car dealerships have sales people trying to actually sell cars? Or do they work on the theory of: if someone wants to buy a car they will buy it, we don't need to convince them, or show them what the car has to offer. Its a waste of time for us to have any sales people.
