Part of my routine lately has been going to basketball practises with my friend and his son. He’s the coach of a group of 12 year olds including his son and runs the practise. I sit with one of the fathers whom I’ve developed a close friendship with and have a good time.
My friend would pick me up with his son since my Driver’s Licence is suspended due to a recent medical problem and we’d go together.
He’s recently separated and his wife moved out on him. Still, she sticks her nose in everything and makes his life a living hell and tries to control everything and anything in his life and threatens him with her madness. My friend fears her and tries appeasement whenever he can.
The punch line:
She took a fit about him picking me up and me going to practises with them. In her madness she finds something wrong with him helping a friend through some hard times. Being the spineless AFC, he bowed to her wishes and I am no longer going to attend the practises.
Any thoughts on how I should deal with this? Is he a true friend by not standing up to her?
My friend would pick me up with his son since my Driver’s Licence is suspended due to a recent medical problem and we’d go together.
He’s recently separated and his wife moved out on him. Still, she sticks her nose in everything and makes his life a living hell and tries to control everything and anything in his life and threatens him with her madness. My friend fears her and tries appeasement whenever he can.
The punch line:
She took a fit about him picking me up and me going to practises with them. In her madness she finds something wrong with him helping a friend through some hard times. Being the spineless AFC, he bowed to her wishes and I am no longer going to attend the practises.
Any thoughts on how I should deal with this? Is he a true friend by not standing up to her?