So has anyone else got the ignore dump?
I think that's what is happening to me now.
She was completely INSANE about me. Always saying she misses me and how she can't wait to see me and she cooks for me and says how she wants to take care of me and all that. Never seen a girl with a higher interest level in me before and she always said things like "everyone deserves someone who makes them their #1 priority." I considered her a wonderful catch. Two weeks ago emailed me in the morning saying she had such a horrible night at work and got home to see I changed my main myspace picture to one of us together and she freaking cried a "happy cry" and that i made her morning so much better.
Out of no where she has just stopped talking to me. Earlier in the week (wednesday) I investigated what was up with a txt msg from work and i got this response:
"I am sorry. i have been sick. Went to bed as soon as i got home. i have just been cranky. it isn't you. sorry babe."
The sick thing is true. I saw her on the weekend and she may have a stomach ulcer (she's a nurse) and is going to a GI doctor this week. She still goes to work and all that and managed to get a haircut with her mom so it's not so dehibilitating she can't keep in contact with me.
We had a less than ideal weekend because she's sick and cranky but still managed to go to my dad's birthday party on Saturday and her niece's baptism on Sunday. I meet a good portion of her family I hadn't met yet and they really like me including her two brothers. I meet her aunts for the second time and they hug and kiss me and they laugh a lot with me. She has a big, Italian family and family is mucho important to her.
Sunday night after the baptism and dinner, we don't have sex since she's ill, but i wake up a couple times during the night to her cuddling up to me. I leave her place on Monday morning. She offers to make me breakfast, and SHE goes out to clear my car of snow. We kiss some and I go on my way. I think things are just dandy.
Very little contact for a few days... She barely responds when I try to contact her. Sometimes if i send a txt she just doesn't respond at all. Completely out of character. I let her be for the better portion of a day and a half.
Tonight, after not talking to her the entire day, I call her at a time when i knew/thought she was home from work and awake. No answer. I leave her a msg on AIM saying that I understand she's been ill and busy with work but that we should communicate about why we haven't been talking and that i'd like some sort of response about whether she's avoiding me or not (yeah yeah maybe i sounded needy). She stops being idle after a little bit then proceeds to put up and take down an away message repeatedly (like 8 times) for about 20 minutes. Almost seems a way to just fvck with me.
I may be overreacting but i'm just taking this as a typical female way of dumping a dude. Sure, she may be sick but i at least deserve recognition that i'm the boyfriend. A "hello, good morning, yes i'm still sick, thanks for caring" is not too much to freakin ask.
Goddamn 180 degree crap. Why do girls pull that sh1t? I was the cat's meow before last weekend.
I think that's what is happening to me now.
She was completely INSANE about me. Always saying she misses me and how she can't wait to see me and she cooks for me and says how she wants to take care of me and all that. Never seen a girl with a higher interest level in me before and she always said things like "everyone deserves someone who makes them their #1 priority." I considered her a wonderful catch. Two weeks ago emailed me in the morning saying she had such a horrible night at work and got home to see I changed my main myspace picture to one of us together and she freaking cried a "happy cry" and that i made her morning so much better.
Out of no where she has just stopped talking to me. Earlier in the week (wednesday) I investigated what was up with a txt msg from work and i got this response:
"I am sorry. i have been sick. Went to bed as soon as i got home. i have just been cranky. it isn't you. sorry babe."
The sick thing is true. I saw her on the weekend and she may have a stomach ulcer (she's a nurse) and is going to a GI doctor this week. She still goes to work and all that and managed to get a haircut with her mom so it's not so dehibilitating she can't keep in contact with me.
We had a less than ideal weekend because she's sick and cranky but still managed to go to my dad's birthday party on Saturday and her niece's baptism on Sunday. I meet a good portion of her family I hadn't met yet and they really like me including her two brothers. I meet her aunts for the second time and they hug and kiss me and they laugh a lot with me. She has a big, Italian family and family is mucho important to her.
Sunday night after the baptism and dinner, we don't have sex since she's ill, but i wake up a couple times during the night to her cuddling up to me. I leave her place on Monday morning. She offers to make me breakfast, and SHE goes out to clear my car of snow. We kiss some and I go on my way. I think things are just dandy.
Very little contact for a few days... She barely responds when I try to contact her. Sometimes if i send a txt she just doesn't respond at all. Completely out of character. I let her be for the better portion of a day and a half.
Tonight, after not talking to her the entire day, I call her at a time when i knew/thought she was home from work and awake. No answer. I leave her a msg on AIM saying that I understand she's been ill and busy with work but that we should communicate about why we haven't been talking and that i'd like some sort of response about whether she's avoiding me or not (yeah yeah maybe i sounded needy). She stops being idle after a little bit then proceeds to put up and take down an away message repeatedly (like 8 times) for about 20 minutes. Almost seems a way to just fvck with me.
I may be overreacting but i'm just taking this as a typical female way of dumping a dude. Sure, she may be sick but i at least deserve recognition that i'm the boyfriend. A "hello, good morning, yes i'm still sick, thanks for caring" is not too much to freakin ask.
Goddamn 180 degree crap. Why do girls pull that sh1t? I was the cat's meow before last weekend.
