so this litterly happened to me 4 x recently within a little over a month. 1st girl at gym, had a good 1st convo not to long not to short, asked to talk some more again sometime and she said she litteraly just got out of a relationship like a week ago, and directly told me to come talk to her agian sometime when i see her and she let me know, she seemed legit serious about it, not like a bull****er type, so i said well nice meeting you ect. so i later had alot of thought about it, like so how long will it take you to be ready for another relationship wright? i havent seen her in the gym yet since. Since then Ive asked myslef i know its not a legit excuse and need to just move on and so i have been since.
2nd time, girl at gym, had a good 1st convo not to long not to short, asked to talk some more again sometime and she said she just dating wright now, doesnt do anything too fast, and i can come talk to her if i see her again, to me absolute bull, to be dating, you got give out ya num. Its not like i see you regurly!
3rd time, girl at gym, short convo, asked to talk more, said doesnt do anything too fast, and we can talk more if i see her, point blank.
i started this thread tonight becasue i just got out of one of my college classes which there was a cutey in and i sparked up some short convo after class, this time i asked her if she was single , she said ya, and asked if she wanted to talk some more later, she said well i just got out of a relationship and kinda just wana be bymyself wright now, i said ok nice to meet you, later.
so this now got me kinda irritatatied and after this it made me feel like she might have well said "you just arent good enough for me".
i think they all should just say off the bat there with someone, atleast for me i have no hard feelings, total legit excuse. they dont have to make us feel like were not good enough. or are they really honest. ive researched a bit and of course woman and men are diff , you will read if a man says this line hes looking just for friends w benifits which we know is true, but girls say in their case this can be ironically a legit excuse if the timing was there, which i can simi understand, its just harder for us to, because we are the men here. of course were all diff, woman are diff but i see it as if a girl meets a good looking and well caried man ect., she shouldnt just let him walk away. so some thought and questions would be what do you think the percentages of girls that would actually use this as an excuse due to non interest vs. ironically bad timing they really are feeling maybe down at the moment. One key thing here is what i read is that if there serious about it, then good chances are they are the ones that just got broken up with, which i could understand there temp hatred towards all men, if they were in deep love him. Wouldnt you say most girls would tell you off the bat there with someone as a nice excuse if just not interested? If this being more so true, maybe we all men should try to understand there reasoning. But its that Dam ironic timing that Gets Me,How can it be that Ironic, Is it Freaking possible, 4 times within a little over a month! And then well how long do you need to recover if I could be considered dating material in your book?
So thats my rant, what yall think, all opinions welcome. So I would say girl at college class seems like a def no go to me. 2nd girl at gym to me sounded just like lack of interest, but you never know weather can change? 1st girl at gym, well, when i see this girl at the gym im going to be utterly forced past my will to talk to her again, since she did give the invite, how would you guys go uopn this 2nd approach, i feel if she feeling me she can make the suggestion wright? shes a big girl wright, or is this the beta side of me talking and i need to be alpha here take charge, go for the takedown again. otherwise i feel if she doesnt, when i walk away leave it at that dont look back.
2nd time, girl at gym, had a good 1st convo not to long not to short, asked to talk some more again sometime and she said she just dating wright now, doesnt do anything too fast, and i can come talk to her if i see her again, to me absolute bull, to be dating, you got give out ya num. Its not like i see you regurly!
3rd time, girl at gym, short convo, asked to talk more, said doesnt do anything too fast, and we can talk more if i see her, point blank.
i started this thread tonight becasue i just got out of one of my college classes which there was a cutey in and i sparked up some short convo after class, this time i asked her if she was single , she said ya, and asked if she wanted to talk some more later, she said well i just got out of a relationship and kinda just wana be bymyself wright now, i said ok nice to meet you, later.
so this now got me kinda irritatatied and after this it made me feel like she might have well said "you just arent good enough for me".
i think they all should just say off the bat there with someone, atleast for me i have no hard feelings, total legit excuse. they dont have to make us feel like were not good enough. or are they really honest. ive researched a bit and of course woman and men are diff , you will read if a man says this line hes looking just for friends w benifits which we know is true, but girls say in their case this can be ironically a legit excuse if the timing was there, which i can simi understand, its just harder for us to, because we are the men here. of course were all diff, woman are diff but i see it as if a girl meets a good looking and well caried man ect., she shouldnt just let him walk away. so some thought and questions would be what do you think the percentages of girls that would actually use this as an excuse due to non interest vs. ironically bad timing they really are feeling maybe down at the moment. One key thing here is what i read is that if there serious about it, then good chances are they are the ones that just got broken up with, which i could understand there temp hatred towards all men, if they were in deep love him. Wouldnt you say most girls would tell you off the bat there with someone as a nice excuse if just not interested? If this being more so true, maybe we all men should try to understand there reasoning. But its that Dam ironic timing that Gets Me,How can it be that Ironic, Is it Freaking possible, 4 times within a little over a month! And then well how long do you need to recover if I could be considered dating material in your book?
So thats my rant, what yall think, all opinions welcome. So I would say girl at college class seems like a def no go to me. 2nd girl at gym to me sounded just like lack of interest, but you never know weather can change? 1st girl at gym, well, when i see this girl at the gym im going to be utterly forced past my will to talk to her again, since she did give the invite, how would you guys go uopn this 2nd approach, i feel if she feeling me she can make the suggestion wright? shes a big girl wright, or is this the beta side of me talking and i need to be alpha here take charge, go for the takedown again. otherwise i feel if she doesnt, when i walk away leave it at that dont look back.