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Senior Don Juan
I’ve done some searching, I can’t find an article on conversations that I want. So, I’ll make one. Here it goes;
The High School Conversation
Alright boys, here is the absolute key in High School conversation; don’t use it too much.
I realize about 75% of you out are have already called me nuts, let me elaborate.
The fact is, High School Conversation is relatively useless. Think about your average HS looser. Not the one who lives in his hole, but the one who at least has the balls to talk to a girl. What are their conversations? “Deep, wonderful, exchanges of marvelous knowledge?” Please…
If some looser is dumb enough to talk about meaningful stuff to an HS girl, he is done for. I know you all have GF’s who are “different” and “not like that”, but I’m talking about the average HS chick. BBB has a nice post on HS girls and how they are only interested in “the color and the shape” of things and not the content. He also said something along the lines of “girls only like to talk about gossip” and believe me this is totally true.
So, I realize everyone here is told to approach and learn to hold a conversation. I believe this a very important part of attraction. But this refers to dating, not the hallway conversation.
When you find a girl you think would make a nice date, then on your date I fully support the conversation that “will help you get to know each other”.
So back to the hallways. You have three choices. You can talk about meaningful stuff that you really enjoy talking about, you can keep conversations to a minimum, or you can become a metro-sexual and yack all day about the most recent gossip.
Ok lets analyze each option.
Option 1) Meaningful Conversation in High School
Sorry boys, but if you do this you will bore the **** out of your target. Humans naturally find no fun in chatting about something that they have no interest in. It’s a fact of human nature. So all you are really accomplishing is making your target bored as hell every time you open your mouth.
Option 2) Shut the **** up in High School
If you haven’t already realized, this is the option I am advocating. We will come back to this in detail soon…
Option 3) Gossip in High School
You become another AFC loser putting down other people in some desperate attempt to raise your own self esteem. You can do this if it really fits your fancy, but come on people.
How should I have a DJ conversation in High School?
Well here you are. Say “Hi”, “How are you doing”, the usual stuff. The thing I see most in High School is that when a guy is “interested” in a girl, he is “obligated to go and have this one on one conversation that changes his life.” ****ing bull****. Let the conversation roll on its own.
What do I mean? I mean that if you have something to say that you define as having “meaning” then say it. If there is something to talk about, then TALK ABOUT IT!!! But please for the love of God DO NOT FORCE A CONVERSATION IN HIGH SCHOOL.
Every guy talks to girls. Girls get talked to every minute of every ****ing day. If you “ignore” them and keep conversation limited, you become an object of mystery. You start to make them wonder. Trust me this is a very good thing.
Here is the point that I have been trying to make with this post. Do not force a conversation. Do not feel obliged to “connect” with a girl. Just go with what feels natural. Don’t be afraid to just walk with a girl to a class without talking. Don’t be afraid of silence, it’s not as uncomfortable as you may think. Just follow your instincts and do what is natural, there is no exception with conversation.
The High School Conversation
Alright boys, here is the absolute key in High School conversation; don’t use it too much.
I realize about 75% of you out are have already called me nuts, let me elaborate.
The fact is, High School Conversation is relatively useless. Think about your average HS looser. Not the one who lives in his hole, but the one who at least has the balls to talk to a girl. What are their conversations? “Deep, wonderful, exchanges of marvelous knowledge?” Please…
If some looser is dumb enough to talk about meaningful stuff to an HS girl, he is done for. I know you all have GF’s who are “different” and “not like that”, but I’m talking about the average HS chick. BBB has a nice post on HS girls and how they are only interested in “the color and the shape” of things and not the content. He also said something along the lines of “girls only like to talk about gossip” and believe me this is totally true.
So, I realize everyone here is told to approach and learn to hold a conversation. I believe this a very important part of attraction. But this refers to dating, not the hallway conversation.
When you find a girl you think would make a nice date, then on your date I fully support the conversation that “will help you get to know each other”.
So back to the hallways. You have three choices. You can talk about meaningful stuff that you really enjoy talking about, you can keep conversations to a minimum, or you can become a metro-sexual and yack all day about the most recent gossip.
Ok lets analyze each option.
Option 1) Meaningful Conversation in High School
Sorry boys, but if you do this you will bore the **** out of your target. Humans naturally find no fun in chatting about something that they have no interest in. It’s a fact of human nature. So all you are really accomplishing is making your target bored as hell every time you open your mouth.
Option 2) Shut the **** up in High School
If you haven’t already realized, this is the option I am advocating. We will come back to this in detail soon…
Option 3) Gossip in High School
You become another AFC loser putting down other people in some desperate attempt to raise your own self esteem. You can do this if it really fits your fancy, but come on people.
How should I have a DJ conversation in High School?
Well here you are. Say “Hi”, “How are you doing”, the usual stuff. The thing I see most in High School is that when a guy is “interested” in a girl, he is “obligated to go and have this one on one conversation that changes his life.” ****ing bull****. Let the conversation roll on its own.
What do I mean? I mean that if you have something to say that you define as having “meaning” then say it. If there is something to talk about, then TALK ABOUT IT!!! But please for the love of God DO NOT FORCE A CONVERSATION IN HIGH SCHOOL.
Every guy talks to girls. Girls get talked to every minute of every ****ing day. If you “ignore” them and keep conversation limited, you become an object of mystery. You start to make them wonder. Trust me this is a very good thing.
Here is the point that I have been trying to make with this post. Do not force a conversation. Do not feel obliged to “connect” with a girl. Just go with what feels natural. Don’t be afraid to just walk with a girl to a class without talking. Don’t be afraid of silence, it’s not as uncomfortable as you may think. Just follow your instincts and do what is natural, there is no exception with conversation.
