backbreaker
Master Don Juan
a few days ago on this forum i posted about a chinese girl friend of my wife's friend who is going back and forward between 2 guys one her ex husband and the other a friend of mine. anyway something happened last night that i found pretty interesting/intriguing beucase it confirmed my belief that Jerk's are nothing but extroverted AFC's.
Anyway, she had been going back and forward and the girl is crazy about the ex husband still and the dude is just doing dope (literately), ****ing skanks and just having the i dont' give a **** attitude about her.
so, yesterday the chinese girl has a moment of clarity and says you know what.. **** this **** lol. I'm seriously done. she went ghost on him.. well as ghost as you can go when the guy is the father of your child but you get the point. she even moved home with her mom to try to just get away from the ex husband, much to my friends dismay who is "sticking by her" in all this.
so the dope head ex husband then proceeds to do his best carl thomas impersonation, and is crying like a little ***** and is breaking **** and goes on this epic bender because he "can't handle the pain of being without her" and i'm thinking well **** you brought this on yourself buddy. WTF do you want. And why everyone calls ****ing backbreaker when someone is ****ing up drugs I dont' know but I'm captain save an addict or some ****. . I mean, this dude is tore up. tore up, high, emotional, about as AFC as an AFC can get.
and at that point looking at him it hit me.. this dude, can't live without this girl. in his mind at least he can't. he can put on the i don't give a **** facade, but it's just that. This dude is a little father along than most AFCs beucase somewhere he realized that if you treat certain girls like **** they somehow get off on it, but at the end of the day, he has the exact same problem as the BETA afc has as in he can't see his life without this girl.
It also hit home what girls see in jerks... this dude, for this chick has hit the perfect balance of emotinoal jerk.. he's a jerk to her but then has outbursts of effection and it pulls her in. she gets off on the excitement it's a chemical rush. Now mind you, this isn't the type of chick i would persnoally take seriously nor would i advise you to do so either, but i see it now. I can see why she's so wrapped up in him he's a drug to her. If it weren't for the son she'd be getting high with him right now most likely.
I thought it was interesting to see it play out first hand. everyone talks about being a jerk but looking at this dude i don't see why people would have an interest in just putting makeup over a problem like he has versus actually developing inner game and becoming a guy whose life just doesn't revolve around the approval of a woman regardless.
Anyway, she had been going back and forward and the girl is crazy about the ex husband still and the dude is just doing dope (literately), ****ing skanks and just having the i dont' give a **** attitude about her.
so, yesterday the chinese girl has a moment of clarity and says you know what.. **** this **** lol. I'm seriously done. she went ghost on him.. well as ghost as you can go when the guy is the father of your child but you get the point. she even moved home with her mom to try to just get away from the ex husband, much to my friends dismay who is "sticking by her" in all this.
so the dope head ex husband then proceeds to do his best carl thomas impersonation, and is crying like a little ***** and is breaking **** and goes on this epic bender because he "can't handle the pain of being without her" and i'm thinking well **** you brought this on yourself buddy. WTF do you want. And why everyone calls ****ing backbreaker when someone is ****ing up drugs I dont' know but I'm captain save an addict or some ****. . I mean, this dude is tore up. tore up, high, emotional, about as AFC as an AFC can get.
and at that point looking at him it hit me.. this dude, can't live without this girl. in his mind at least he can't. he can put on the i don't give a **** facade, but it's just that. This dude is a little father along than most AFCs beucase somewhere he realized that if you treat certain girls like **** they somehow get off on it, but at the end of the day, he has the exact same problem as the BETA afc has as in he can't see his life without this girl.
It also hit home what girls see in jerks... this dude, for this chick has hit the perfect balance of emotinoal jerk.. he's a jerk to her but then has outbursts of effection and it pulls her in. she gets off on the excitement it's a chemical rush. Now mind you, this isn't the type of chick i would persnoally take seriously nor would i advise you to do so either, but i see it now. I can see why she's so wrapped up in him he's a drug to her. If it weren't for the son she'd be getting high with him right now most likely.
I thought it was interesting to see it play out first hand. everyone talks about being a jerk but looking at this dude i don't see why people would have an interest in just putting makeup over a problem like he has versus actually developing inner game and becoming a guy whose life just doesn't revolve around the approval of a woman regardless.