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Counseling is a crock of sh!t. I've yet to find a counsoler who did anymore for me than a giant rock could have done.Zarky said:OP you might want to consider seeing a psychologist. The responses here are actually pretty good ones but if you're seeing "evil" in all women because of something one of them did to you then I think it's time to get some deep professional counseling.
I wouldn't be so sure about that. You walk into a therapist's office, and they are going to see you as an "income stream," whether they know it consciously or not.Zarky said:Well, it's certainly better than "peer therapy" from randoms on teh interwebz.
I also feel that life is passing me by, it's a self-depreciating feeling. Maybe we might be on the same boat that the best years of our lives is slipping. For me, I know I have so much potential to be the best, making a dent in this world and unable to create opportunities to achieve them.Malcontent said:Yeah, I just wonder what that "event" will be. I feel like life is passing me by and here I am scowling about it. I'm struggling with whether or not I just need to let the time pass naturally or shock myself into change.
I gave this a shot recently and i actually had a great time with this girl i met up with this weekend. I have hooked up with the really hot, short dress, all done up blondes in the hot bars/lounges but aside from the sex, they were a headache so big, not even a whole bag of Excedrin would help. The hottest girl i was seeing for a few months was pretty damn hot to the point that every single place we went, guys couldn't stop staring. I was banging the fvck out of her but once i was done... it was like the drama started soon after. I remember one night we had really good sex and right after we got into a huge fight lol and to no surprise, that dating relationship ended during a big argument. Did i look good walking into places with a beautiful Woman many men crave? Yea. Was the sex great? Yeah. Was the Emotional roller coaster worth it? No. It helped that im a good looking guy and women would hit on me in front of her so that kept her in check but it also flared up jealousy and argument that started with a phone call asking "Where were you?" "Who were you with?" "How come i haven't heard from you!?" I did put up with it for a little bit because she was hot but i ended it when things just got too much. Before her i dated many other hot chicks but although their personalities varied... it came down to the same type of drama.Die Hard said:Try focusing on women who are a bit lower on your standards. I'm not saying downright ugly but suppose you normally look for HB8's or HB9's, then focus on HB7's for a while now
My ex-wife is a counselor. She works with kids now, but has done marriage and family counseling before. Therapists are like any other human profession - a lot depends on who you get. If you're worried about getting fvcked out of your money, that's the insurance company's job. If your health insurance says you only get one counselor visit every two weeks, then it doesn't matter if you are about to jump off a tall building, that's all you get.logicallefty said:Counseling is a crock of sh!t. I've yet to find a counsoler who did anymore for me than a giant rock could have done.