The Comeback Kid
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 4, 2005
- Messages
- 591
- Reaction score
- 5
The best way to exact revenge on someone is...by living well. :yes:
I know this is cliche, but it's true. Some people here on the board tend to forget this little tidbit when trying to decide how to defeat a doubter.
When it comes to women......if a HB rejects you, says you are inferior to her, believes you aren't worthy of her attention, don't focus any of your energy on trying to "get even" with them. If you call them out, give them a piece of your mind, let her know that you will not put up with her bs...sure, you'll possibly get her to stop walking all over you, but she will not respect you.
When it comes to other guys......if you're out of the social circle, if they look down on you, if they try to make fun of you, if you're not cool enough to sit at the cool kids table, don't pick a fight, don't start an argument, don't try to be a hero...sure they may stop walking all over you, but they will not respect you.
Any direct negativity you confront these people with will show that they did get to you, that they are able to control you. However, if you don't let their insecurities and neediness for maintaining their weakly-protected image get to you, and you IMPROVE YOURSELF FOR THE SAKE OF BEING A BETTER PERSON, others will notice your improvement. These former rejectors could get a little jealous, these former rejectors probably won't befriend you, the particular HB who rejected you most likely won't all of a sudden like you now...but they will respect you. The rejectors took their best shots and couldn't hurt you, couldn't bring you down; you're an untouchable. By living well, you rise above them. By living well, all people WILL respect you.
I know this is cliche, but it's true. Some people here on the board tend to forget this little tidbit when trying to decide how to defeat a doubter.
When it comes to women......if a HB rejects you, says you are inferior to her, believes you aren't worthy of her attention, don't focus any of your energy on trying to "get even" with them. If you call them out, give them a piece of your mind, let her know that you will not put up with her bs...sure, you'll possibly get her to stop walking all over you, but she will not respect you.
When it comes to other guys......if you're out of the social circle, if they look down on you, if they try to make fun of you, if you're not cool enough to sit at the cool kids table, don't pick a fight, don't start an argument, don't try to be a hero...sure they may stop walking all over you, but they will not respect you.
Any direct negativity you confront these people with will show that they did get to you, that they are able to control you. However, if you don't let their insecurities and neediness for maintaining their weakly-protected image get to you, and you IMPROVE YOURSELF FOR THE SAKE OF BEING A BETTER PERSON, others will notice your improvement. These former rejectors could get a little jealous, these former rejectors probably won't befriend you, the particular HB who rejected you most likely won't all of a sudden like you now...but they will respect you. The rejectors took their best shots and couldn't hurt you, couldn't bring you down; you're an untouchable. By living well, you rise above them. By living well, all people WILL respect you.