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If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

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Some of the most inspirational material.

On Identity:

“The very first step towards becoming a successful "Don Juan" is one of self-improvement…By focusing on a program of continual self-improvement you'll evolve into an attractor. Your strategy is always to think about, focus on, and accentuate your positive traits... but work on and eliminate your flaws.” -Allen Thompson

Save yourself first. Only then you can save others.

Have deep convictions that allow you to be a leader.
.....NEVER give these ideals or morals for ANYTHING.
.....Never think you have to prove yourself to anyone.
.....If you don't stand for something, you will fall for everything!

Be the center of your own universe. Do your own thing and make your own life interesting.

Be passionate about what you do and do it well. Indulge yourself in hobbies and work. This passion should give you confidence and joy. Love what you do so much that nothing else matters.
.....Never lose your passion! That would be the death of your soul.

EMBRACE your sexuality. It is God’s precious gift! You are male, she’s female. Accept nature’s course!

Be alone every once in a while and evaluate what you’ve accomplished and look at your weaknesses (you will not have much of them) and erase them from existence. Never erase them from your memory.

Inspire others. This has a twofold effect. Not only does it feel good to share the joy you have created in your life, but you instill a sense of loyalty and admiration that enhances your social proof and authority. A great leader shares his/her greatness.

Personality is indicated by one’s communication skills, or by what a person says and does in public. Character is indicated by one’s behavior independent of any interpersonal relationships. More simply, Character is what you do when no one else is watching.

What good is the greatest missile without a target? What use is the fastest car without any fuel? What point is a man without purpose?

Before you attempt to conquer the world, you must conquer your own mind.
 
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On Success

Go for all the money, health and power you can get. Never wait for good fortune to smile on you. Make your own fortune. EVERYTHING in life must be earned through hard work. That's the magical formula to every problem you have.

Know where you are going in life. Have a passion. Have purpose. Have goals. Have dreams. Have ambitions. Always work towards them. Focus on your dreams! Find your calling, defeat the negativity in your head, and plunge forward!

Look at all the people who made a difference throughout history. Christ, Martin Luther King, Einstein, Edison, Picasso. They never reached a point where they were like, "alrighty then, I have accomplished alot of things, I guess my work is done here!"
.....You can also bet that, although they were all accused of insanity or heresy, they couldn't give a wad of horsesh!t what anyone thought of them. Don't get influenced by other people’s moral values. Always believe in what you are doing, even if you’ve made a mistake

Before calculus you had to learn to count, add, subtract, multiply and divide. Decimals. Fractions. Percentages. Story problems. Geometry. Simple equations. Binomial and trinomial equations. Trig functions… You start small and eventually end up big.

When you want something, go out and get it. Make it happen.
.....Action, not reaction. Think about it...better yet, ACT on it.

Don’t worry about making mistakes. If you're not failing, you're not trying. Risk, pain and injury are part of the game. Sh!t happens. Failure is only a temporary set-back, a stepping stone to victory. Roll with the punches and learn from it. You only fail when you have given up on yourself.
.....Failure is the one thing in life that tests your character. In weightlifting in order to get bigger in size you use extreme resistance, feeling the burn and breaking down the muscle until it recovers even stronger. Failure does that to your character.

Regardless of what happens: you will not win OR lose. You will simply gain experience which will help you hone your skills, and be invaluable to you in the future. You are growing and that is what being a success is all about.

So go gain some experience. Work on it until it comes naturally. Elevate whatever you do to an art form.

Be patient (control your eagerness/desire). Don’t give anything away and ALWAYS keep your intentions hidden till you’ve achieved your goal. Maintain a calm demeanor throughout and you will succeed.
.....Desire makes you either insecure or lustful. It kills your chances before you even open your mouth.
.....Patience is also important because everything takes time. If you are learning a new skill then it will take time to learn, you cannot expect results overnight. If you do expect immediate results, you will quit when you don't get them. Cut off impatient thoughts. When you are waiting in line, don't tap your fingers and check your watch every two minutes, realise that you will have to wait and accept it. Enjoy the scenery, talk to people around you and think about things. Do not dwell on a situation that you cannot change.

Remember that we are each only in control of ourselves. You can only INFLUENCE the success/failure of an act. Most Don Juan skills are pure forms of manipulations. Go out there in the field and test everything. Find out what works. GO GAIN SOME EXPERIENCE.
.....Depressed or in love? You are in control of your mind. Your mind isn't in control over you. Your mind is weaker than your spiritual essence and you can beat every psychological problem. Just be stubborn. Plain old stubborness will get you where you want to go.

Focus on your faults. Write them down. Every single one you can think of. Now find a solution to each problem. NEVER settle for less. Always try to improve yourself. Get rid of your bad habits (any activity, or inactivity, that removes you from reality but leaves you with nothing positive to show for the time you have spent).

Don't assume, know for sure.
.....Learn from everyone and everything. Read women’s books and websites to learn how they think.
.....Try to learn about and from everything. Like making ****tails, dancing, making jokes, coping with people who you a hard time, etc. Knowledge is power and can be used to screw with people's minds.

Real men are not available. They are climbing mountains. They are swimming across rivers. They are following their passion.

Do what they say can’t be done. Aim for the moon. If you miss, at least you'll be among the stars.

Never fear rejection and don't take it personally. Crashing and burning is part of trying new things. It’s their loss anyway.

Be internationally marketable. Learn to do something that will get you work anywhere. Ex. bartending, graphic/web design, plumbing/construction, serving food, mechanics, first aid, etc.


Quotes:

When I see what I want, I'm gonna take it. If I don't see a chance, I'll have to make it. My need to succeed gives me the will to survive. I'm gonna remain strong, and always feel alive!

“I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.” --Michael Jordan

“There’s no shame in falling, the shame is in not getting back up.” -- Muhammad Ali

“Better to have tried and failed then never have tried at all.”
 
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On Dominance:

There is a big difference between being "desperate" and "impatient": a desperate guy gives gifts, flowers, always offering to do favors, showering women with compliments, etc. An impatient guy gets tired of the games, doesn't obsess, and always remembers that women are literally everywhere. Remember if you’re not getting what you want. Walk without hesitation. Period. And don’t look back.

Confidence is 50% attitude, 50% experience.

Have everything under control. Solve problems… don’t place blame.

Learn about pokerfaces. Watch Richard Donner's "Maverick" with Mel Gibson.You'll learn something about facial expressions.

Stop whining! Men have 3 Feelings: HAPPY, MAD, & DON'T GIVE A F*CK

Do not apologize for your testosterone or desires. Try to always win. After childhood, there are TRUE winners and losers in life. Simply take what you want. You desire to be the winner. Because of this passion, you can come off as arrogant and egotistical. NEVER apologize for these desires. Go full-speed ahead and confidently into each and every action you choose to take.

Do not go through life walking on eggshells! Be sure of yourself. Speak STRONGLY and behave STRONGLY. LEAD with your words. LEAD with your body.
.....STAND TALL! Walk like you own the place. Act as if u have a nine inch cok. Don’t take crap.
SMILE!

Talk is cheap. ACTION, ATTITUDE AND NOT OVERANALYSIS. When in doubt: pretend you know what you’re doing. Be ready to adapt.

Have that "I'm-gonna-take-over-the-world" attitude.

In any given situation you should take as much charge as you can. Act like you’re the host.

Approach anyone and say just what's on your mind. Completely disregard any of the repercussions.

Remember that no one is better than you. Everyone is testing everyone 24-7. Don't fail!

Be nice to people. But never let yourself get stepped on. Treat only those people nice who deserve it. There are very few on this planet.

The bottom line is: be tough. Nobody fvcks with you. If someone is doing a thing you don't like, tell them not to do it without insulting them. Insulting is a weakness. Showing people that you do not tolerate their actions is very admirable.

Never ever loosen up. There is always an unstoppable number of jerks out there waiting to crush you the moment you don’t pay attention. It doesn’t have to be personal.

Make a lot of friends but don’t soften up! Never become civilised. Even wearing a suit be yourself; direct and aggressive. It doesn’t matter where you are. Just don’t fight everywhere. Being aggressive doesn’t mean being stupid.

If anyone is watching you look him/her straight in the eye. If they still watch you, ask: “can I help you with anything?”. They'll definitely stop watching you now. If not… start doing crazy things: making licking movements toward him/her.

Observe and learn what people’s fears and weak spots are.

Keep your brain active so that you stay alert and smart all the time. No mother****er can ever harm you then.

YOU SHOULD NEVER REALLY GIVE A FLYING FUKK WHAT ANYONE THINKS ABOUT YOU ANYWAY. DO WHATEVER THE HELL YOU WANT TO DO AND NEVER TAKE ANY BULLSHYT FROM ANYONE. REMEMBER, YOU'RE A MAN NOT SOME EMASCULATED PVSSY.
 
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On Anger:

Stay friendly! At first. Until that moment you get the idea people are being rude to you. Do not forgive till they’ve apologized. Stay angry. Screw them.

Do not let people treat you with disrespect even if it this behaviour suddenly miraculously turns into a joke (because they see that you’ve gotten pissed.) Always stay serious in these cases till the end. Make them look away first.

When they don’t like your attitude and still want to stay rude just increase the intensity of your anger.

If you get approached by an angry person (who’s just interested in crushing his/her problems on your head) crush him/her no matter what. But don’t say something wrong to people who have recently lost someone. They don’t know any better. You’ll beat them up if they keep giving you that bull**** behaviour.

Evil gives more efficient and more focused power to a person. Love is for people who are idealists. They usually lose the first time and that’s enough.

He doesn’t want to go? Grab him by the neck and make pull him up and push him an arm-length away to let him know that he has to go. Now.

People try to be tough. They have to think again because you are the worst mother****er in the whole world. Nothing can or will ever break you. Never stay silent and always crush the fvck out of them. Even when you don’t feel like doing that.
 

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On Fighting:

If he doesn’t let go and you know that he isn’t probably going to strike you then step on his foot…
Warn first: "If you hit me I'll hit you back." This applies to girls and guys. No one has the right to hit you unless you give them permission. Make clear that you do not like to be touched by people who you don’t want touching you.

Don’t touch until the other has touched you

When things really go wrong, imagine that you are the strongest man in the world. Never ever try think about how fast, slow, strong, weak, smart or smart your opponent is.

When things go even more wrong act like a pyscho. Laugh but never show that it hurts. People are afraid of maniacs. Act like one and you can make them polish your boots.

Don't give him the opportunity to crush you! Kick his balls. His throat is sensitive. The place where the ribs end is sensitive (can be punched to take breath away). Crush his foot. Twist his arm and hand. A strong blow in the stomach... Don't wait until he gains strength, keep controlling him and delay his actions by hitting him.

Learn how to protect yourself by observing animals (how wushu was developed.)
 

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On Fear:

Fear is like an evil energy, which penetrates everyone who will allow it to. If fear tries to stop you say mentally “back off! I’m not listen to this crap!” and walk right through the fear. (Picture yourself as a house, and all these enemies are trying to get in through your front door. If you stand up to them and tell them to get lost and lock the door, they leave. But if you leave the door wide open they will hunt you and destroy your dreams!)

Fear has many faces: Jealousy, not taking risks, lashing out, avoiding difficult or scary situations, not using kino, worrying, hesitation, no eye contact, not dealing with a problem, not being able to face the truth, not showing (different from telling about) feelings, etc.

Fear can only serve him who can deal with it.
 

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On Trust:

The most intimate thing is how your spirit functions. Don't give it away to anyone. Reveal things about yourself only as a reward… but never those most intimate things.
.....Your emotions, your past, your weaknesses, your feelings (the emotional perception of events,) your fears should stay hidden. That way nobody will know what to expect from you which will eventually lead to people underestimating you and getting crushed or beaten up.

The only true friend you have is yourself. Never trust anyone with important things.
 
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On Respect:

There are basically three types of respect: The respect you get from others, the respect you give others, self-respect. ALL HAVE TO BE EARNED!

Before you can command respect from the world, you must respect yourself.
.....So respect yourself. Don't do anything you do not want to do… if someone gets upset over it let him/her walk to hell.

Nobody, not other people, not yourself and certainly not wolves, will respect you for your words, appearances or attitudes. It is what you DO that counts! ACTIONS define who you are, how you see yourself and how others relate to you

You must stand up for yourself! Even if it means you have to be a prik, never let anyone disrespect or take advantage of you. If someone flakes on you or fvcks you over somehow, don't put up with it! Either ignore them completely or confront them! If they pout and b!tch banish them from your world and stop caring if they like you or not. Whatever it takes, don't ever give your personal power away to the weight of what other's think of you.

Pay attention to whoever deserves it.

Listen to everyone. Don’t care if they’re boring. Don’t care if they’re wrong; that’s their problem. Don’t prove them wrong either. No one likes unasked for advice.

Clean up language around girls.

Don’t have an opinion about people until you have sufficient information about them.

Never fall prey to gossip! And stand up for people who are being bashed in conversations.

Don’t be an ass to anyone who doesn't deserve it.

Disrespect is like a weed. Something small that just gets on your nerves, but if you leave it alone it will soon become a problem that you will find hard to control.
.....NEVER EVER let disrespect grow in your garden! It's the sure root to bad times and eventually the dumping ground.
.....Do not tolerate people who are wrong to you. You are the most important person in your existence. Treat only those people nice who deserve it. There are very few on this planet.
So a crippled person who does not treat you in the right fashion? Just tell them. Just because they are in a wheelchair or something doesn't mean they can be arrogant to you.
 
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On Conversation:

Don’t participate in negative discussions, put a positive spin on things or simply ignore negative comments.

Don’t turn it into an interview. Be warm; light and pleasant with all the friendliness and fun at your disposal. Act as if the women you meet were long lost, unattractive school mates that you dearly loved. [Until they give you a reason not to!] You can make people feel loved and special just by the warmth in the tone of your voice and your smile.

Talk with different types of humans. Have friends (no need to be best friends) among different types.

You can't just open up a conversation with anyone without feeling their vibe first. Before you can communicate and be received, it is necessary to PACE the targeted individual. Absorb their situation and change your speed to match theirs. In order to learn how to pace another person, start by taking a deep breath and imagining you are that other person. What is it like to be this person right now?

Be prepared to carry 90% of a convo when you first start talking to people. It takes a while for most folks to completely warm up to someone. This requires you to really LISTEN to what the other person is saying and use it as a vehicle for what you want to say.

Be passionate and fascinating, full of stories and ideas. Leave everyone feeling ten times better than they did before meeting you. Your curiosity and sense of adventure should be contagious and ADDICTIVE.

Don't dominate conversations be a great listener. Listen to people with your complete attention and help them any way you can.

Talk openly about sex with a girl and laugh about it. Whatever you want to talk about as long it is not a boring conversation. Bring some humor in it.

Never think you’ve been "caught" while sarging. There’s no shame in the game! The best way to deal with this is to neutralize any of her colleagues, guy or girl, by making friends with them.

Remember: eye-contact & kino! Body language says more than words.

Sometimes the best response is to say nothing at all. No one takes you seriously if you talk too much.

“Opinions are like *******s. Everybody has one.” --Clint Eastwood

Learn to flirt and enjoy it! Flirt with everyone.
 

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On Women:

Most women don't go for guys who 'love' them. They go for guys who excite them, frighten them, give them an adrenaline rush and can keep their little puzzies moist by acting like real men.
.....Every woman’s life is gray and drab from all the AFC attention until you show up and are kind enough to let her bask in your manhood.

Never be scared of woman. You are bigger, stronger, more successful, and better looking. If a chick sparks your interest don't sit there like a dumb a$$ dog wondering what to do... GO GET IT!
.....Soon as you feel like you want to make a move you have to act upon it. Think less and act more. Ask for a number in the middle of the conversation.

Get to know all the prettiest women in the neighborhood.

When approaching a woman, keep it simple, and keep your expectations low. You're not going through a job interview; you're not meeting her parents; and your definitely not getting married. You don't have an agenda, you just would like to meet her. What you are doing, is making a friend, and nothing more. If you think this way, it'll be a lot easier to approach a woman. Forget about meeting a lover. Concentrate on making a friend first, the lover role will soon follow.
.....True seduction isn’t calculation or painful discipline, it is the same as with everything that makes a success: A Passion for Life.
.....If you keep in mind that you're just trying to socialize with a stranger, you'll have the courage. Just tell yourself, I'm going to have a pleasant conversation with the woman standing beside me. I'm looking for nothing but a few minutes of pleasant conversation. I'm not looking for a date, a kiss, a lover, or a wife.
Flirting should be fun. There should be many chicks you just flirt with and not go beyond that. So until a flirtation changes into an actual date, it is nothing but a flirtation. Even if you are not totally interested in the girl, you are still going to enjoy the flirtation and then let go.
.....Don’t be fooled, flirting is not a relationship. It is easy to create a mental relationship that in reality has no existence. It is just flirting and that’s all. You need to understand that nine out of ten women are just flirting and that is what you should be doing too.
.....There was a time during my twenties when I approached over ONE HUNDRED women a month! I didn't spend my spare time doing nothing....I wouldn't go to one store a day, I'd go to thirty! I loved it! Every second of it! Hell, even getting blown off was fun....I'd get with my buddies later and swap "war stories" with 'em. I loved going out with/banging multiple chicks at the same time. I think all young guys should. When I met my (future) wife I was seeing something like six different girls! Available women aren't going to come to your door, you have to get out there and find them! Remember guys, someday a nursing home attendant is going to have to help you get up to take a piss.......Go have a blast while you're young!!
Look at me. Technically, I shouldn't get laid, but I do. And you know why, Dave? Because when I'm hanging out with a woman that's all I doing: hanging out, talking, listening, and I'm not sitting there thinking how I can get in bed with them.


Laugh at women! Tease them and NEVER say you are sorry.

If you can walk away with a number or a way to see the girl again then you have just discovered the game! Everything else is fruitless and guess work. Women don't make sense, don't try to understand them. We can't! Just keep on going with YOUR thing and forget everyone else!
.....You can influence a woman but you can't control the way she will act, think, or respond. So quit worrying about it. It's beyond your control.

Women will touch you and say sweet things to get something done. Don’t cave until you get sex. (Even then, don’t do anything unreasonable.)
.....Beware of manipulative women because their actions are taken more personally. Just fvck their mind and attitude. Better yet screw her literally and ditch the b!tch. Seduce her. Women are insecure about many things (can be used to manipulate them).
.....Going on a date is not a sign of high interest. A chick may go on a date with you because she's bored or because she needs an emotional tampon, free meal, etc. etc.

Game playing from women? This will stop it cold: Walk away. Never kiss a woman's *ss
....Don't put up with the drama! A lot of women will put you through all sorts of shít tests to see if you are worthy. They want to see if you will jump through their hoops like a trained puppy dog. Don't fall for this! Make THEM jump through your hoops to prove they are good enough for you.

You have to muck through a lot of sluts and cokteases to find some quality.
.....Not all girls are worth dating. In fact, most aren’t worth your time at all. 95% OF WOMEN ARE UTTERLY WORTHLESS, (OTHER THAN FOR SEX OF COURSE AND PIVOTS FOR THEIR HOTTER FRIENDS!) AND ULTIMATELY REPLACEABLE. They are lame, boring, kind of stupid, and usually lacking in any kind of original thought. They are utterly self-important, self centered and basically wait around for the man in their life to give them some kind of purpose outside of school/job/or whatever sport they engage in.
.....In the Army all the recruits are as different as night and day. But the Army, in Basic Training, makes them climb EVERY obstacle in their path. Nothing is changed for an individual. They either make it or they have to drop out. You follow the same procedure time and time again with ALL women. That way they fit your criteria.

Always remember that women are to enhance your life, not to be your life! Enjoy life with or without women and simply be. A LIFE SPENT DOING NOTHING BUT TRYING TO GET WOMEN IS A DAMN POINTLESS ONE.

Derive pleasure from situations with a woman and not the woman itself. When you are out with a woman, simply be with the woman. When you are talking to her, simply talk to her. When you are kissing her, simply kiss her. Dating is about having fun and having a good time.
.....Be patient (control your eagerness). Don’t rush things sexually with single women. Appear as if you are still deciding whether or not you want to be involved.
.....Have a "hands-off" policy until they touch you. Once they’ve started touching you, it’s flood gates open.

When you look a girl in the eyes think: "I can make love to you like you've NEVER been loved before!"

Always ravish every chick you make love to. A woman who is having wonderful love being made to her figures that her lover must really love her. Plus they’ll always come back for more.

Don’t get too emotional with a female. Don’t put your own life in someone else’s hands. There is no excuse for that.

Don’t always do what women expect you to do. Appeal to her power of seduction. Let her use her sensuality and sexuality to “catch” you. Convince the girl that she is more interested in you than you are in her.

The power and influence that a girl’s closest friends have to influence her decisions should NEVER be underestimated.

Never take advice from women, about women

Cold water makes women want to pee ;)

Shut up and leave the girl alone when you are drunk.

Better to slap her ass and say ‘hi toots’ than to have her think you're too nice and possibly gay
 
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On Happiness/Life

When you sit down at a poker table, look around and identify the chump. If you don't see one, leave, because the chump is you!

If you were not born the universe would not have existed. The universe how you know it only exists for you.

Do not have addictions. Have nothing to lose. Be full of sarcasm. Be romantic. Be an idiot. Be loving. Be crazy. Be romantic. Live life to fullest. Spend much time with old people who love you. Don’t be sorry about anything. Explore your body (there could be a world champion breakdancer in you.) In short be unpredictable and make your life fun to live.

BE HAPPY: depressed and sour people might be fun to laugh at, they aren't funny. Smile, laugh, and enjoy yourself. People will see you as fun-loving and cheerful and the humor will flow much better.
.....Humor is all about shattering expectations, surprising people, and exaggeration.
.....A sense of humor is absolutely vital to your own well-being. Science has shown that it provides a unique internal massage that actually cleanses and relaxes your organs. Explains why you always feel GREAT after a good laugh!
.....Learn to make people laugh. Learn to laugh at yourself. Joke about your flaws. Eliminate them at the same time.

Everyone is a human being. We can all die on a cherry that gets stuck in our throats. So don’t fear the bodybuilder. Women have their monthly problems. Be open about it. If you can’t get an erection for once it’s no big deal. You’re human.

Stop trying to say the perfect thing!

Let your personality SHINE.

Learn to let go! Never worry about anything. Do not stress. Go with the flow. Focus not on the outcome but on the game. Live in the present moment. Screw tomorrow. Live for today. To Love is to live. So keep on living.
.....The essence of desire is wanting things to be other than present experience is. In otherwords, the AFC is focused more than outcomes rather than focusing on the present moment. This is the entire key. Stop worrying so much of saying or doing the wrong or right things just in the moment. Go with the flow of things in the current situation.
.....Go to clubs/parties and enjoy the ATMOSPHERE (The music, the booze, the laughter, the dance).

Follow your passion and thus, love life! Always give more values to your hobbies/passions then to anything else.

Try something new… something that challenges you ...make a list in your head of things you cant do because they seem to scary or you think you will fail… then try and confront a few of these. Do something that scares you. We all need more stories to tell.

Expand your kino to include those around you, yes even your guy friends. Start to pay attention to how (if at all) you touch your friends and family. Grab someone's arm gently when you want to make an important statement. If someone is sad, or tired or stressed, rub their upper back in light circles and give their shoulder a squeeze. Deep down, everyone is starving for real human contact.

Do your best in bed. Word will spread among the female population that you are a sexgod.

Accept your fetishes

Things are often not what they seem, take success and failure with a ton of salt

There are no coincidences or accidents in this life. Everything has a purpose...which is to teach and make us grow. Embrace your sense of destiny!

Appreciate the perfection of any situation, no matter how imperfect it may seem. Be able to turn a total stranger into a devoted friend.

Realize that when you meet someone that they are entering Your World and you are sharing YOUR experience with them. Invite others to share YOUR experience.
.....Don’t let other people's moods affect yours. Nobody can steal your joy!

Make your own moves. Impose your own will.

Don’t cling to the familiar… thrive in the unexpected

Lighten your Load - eliminate all the worthless crap in your life! Only The bare essentials baby!

If someone thanks you… play it off as nothing.

Be everyone's Dad. Nourish people with love and compassion, but exert your authority when necessary.

Be comfortable enough in your world to enjoy the ride, but not so comfortable that you get too soft to change things for the better.

Do the things you'd normally do in your life but integrate (incorporate) everything you've learned so far in your actions.

Always buy drinks for friends. Never buy drinks for girls you don’t know. If someone declines the drink once, never offer again.

The only way to have a happy life is to develop one for yourself, then leave an opening for someone else to come and share it with you. Don't push the limits of being alone.
 
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On God:

Mankind shows up on the evolutionary scene. Thinks to himself how great he is and decides to craft the creator of the universe in his own image

You see, the universe, in it's infinite splendor at some point decided to become conscious of itself. Each of us is a vessel of perception. Every living thing, from the ameoba, to the ****roach to you and me is all perceiving different facets of reality. We are all pieces of the infinite mystery that seeks to experience itself and in the process, enhance its intelligence through evolution.
 

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Not much new here. If you want to find the original author just run a search. My hat is off too all the original authors though. All apologies if you feel your work has been butchered.
 

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hey great work rob, u took the most important sentences in this site and put'em together... in my opinion, this should go to the bible right away. once again, congratulations, man, one of the best threads ever
 

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this is the single greatest advice giving post i have read on these forums, and by far the most helpful for me personally, ive been re-reading it for a week now
 

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Most advice is from stockholder - letz give him some credits! good thread!
 

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On Success

YOU are the only one who cares about your success. More often people want to see you fail, especially if you’re doing better than them. Live for YOU.

Learn the fundamentals and MASTER them before applying fancy techniques in any field.

Two keys to success in anything: 1) Definite Major Purpose and Constant Improvement

Go for all the money, health and power you can get. Set high standards and expect them to be met.

External behaviour + Meaning assigned by us = our beliefs. If a belief is limiting you, challenge and change the meaning assigned to it!

Life isn’t fair, you won’t get a fair anything. If life WAS fair, then you’d just have to accept your place in life and not do anything about it. When you want something, go out and get it. Make it happen.

Success-minded people don’t think negatively when negative things start happening all around them. They think “this is the time when success is right around the corner, and whatever happens, I will get it!”

On Dominance

WHOSE REALITY IS IT? “This is MY reality here, and you’re a guest. If you don’t like it here, you can leave.” By asserting YOUR reality as the more dominant one, you assume control of the situation in any interaction since the dominant belief system is going to be the frame in which all the communication is framed.
When you assume authority, you HAVE to be comfortable with it. You have to be completely congruent with what you’re suggesting or else you risk coming off as a fraud.

Keep your COMPOSURE. Take every opportunity to show you can control yourself, especially on occasions where nothing can happen anyway. Pull back and stop, it builds anticipation.

On Respect

Before you can command respect from the world, you must respect yourself. Don’t tolerate disrespect to yourself, your time, or your property.

Don’t have an opinion about people until you have sufficient information about them. And always judge people based on CHARACTER, not possessions or ******d physical appearance

Do not tolerate people who are wrong to you. Don’t be afraid to ex-communicate these people from your life.

On Conversation

Psychological leaning is a sign of insecurity. It reminds people of their own insecurity and irritates them. Don’t lean! As soon as someone pulls back a little bit, you pull back a little bit further. Never “lean” inwards. Take the more laid back decision and go with it.

Remember: eye-contact & kino! Body language says more than words.
Have UNBORING body language. Be animated, take up space

Don’t take testing personally. Have fun with it! Automatic resistance, comebacks, etc are FUNNY…don’t take it seriously

On Women

Women do themselves up and do everything to impress men. If you’re indifferent to that, you have the power.

Laugh at women! Tease them and NEVER say you are sorry. Teasing shows lack of intimidation and sense of humour.

If a woman is speaking, she’s testing you! Look at any request a woman makes as a test. Accept it or deny it based on YOUR criteria, not hers. Have fun with it: don’t answer questions directly unless the answer’s NO.

Women will touch you and say sweet things to get something done. Don’t let women use their looks or sexual power to gain anything from you. There are no special privileges.

Always communicate that you are the selector. If you’re dealing with a woman from a position of scarcity, where you have to get THIS particular girl, you’ve already lost. You’ve given all your chips away—you don’t have a negotiating position.

Always be picky and tease her about how she’s screwing up her chances with you

Always have other things to do with your life and never wait around to see if a woman will choose you

On Happiness/Life

Surround yourself with people who are LIKE the way you want to be! And surround yourself with POSITIVE people to avoid a negative mindset. Avoid negative influences whenever possible, like TV news.












Just some additions that I forgot to add earlier. Enjoy.

Happy New Year to you all.

As for me... This site has served it's purpose. I'm off to teach myself the rest.

Cheers. And good luck in the new year. Keep your head up.


Strength and Honour
--Animal
 
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