Jesus!!!!!!!!
I'm a stupid, stupid man. I just called. My first time calling a girl. No excuse at all. I blew it like Monica Lewinski.
- Get a grip man, your already overthinking it and you just met her, don't stop cold approaching women, do it today, cause this is getting into a oneitis anyway
Her: Hey
Me: Shay?
Her: Yeah
Me: It's ______
Her: Oh, hey!
Me: How's it going?
Her: Oh it's going ok
Me: That's good to hear...
Her: How's it going with you?
Me: It's going good!
Her: Cool!
Me: I've got a question for you here real quick...
Her: Haha...yeah
- think she's getting intrested into you or
slightly is
Me: Are you a football fan
- never, EVER go on a viewing date, worst idea ever! You would try to be macho, and screw things up, or you'll be a puss and screw things up, eather way first dates are ALWAYse action dates...
Her: Yeah
Me: A Vols fan?
Her: What? *I guess she couldn't hear me...idfk*
Me: A Tennessee Vols fan?
Her: Oh, yeah
- she probebly couldn't care less...
Me: Well, get this. My friend and I usually go to the UT games, and he's going to be gone this weekend...would you like to come with me?
Her: Well...I don't know if i can. I may be going out of town this weekend
Me: Oh really..when?
Her: Maybe Friday night...
Me: Well...call me... (WRONG) or (VERY WRONG, no or) I'll call you later this week and maybe we can work something out (WRONG)
-just say: Ok no problem, I'll call you later; don't
promis (you're giving her to much control, you're the guy leading not her) this week or whatever, best thing you can do now is call her like thursday or something cause she's expecting you, make her wait at least a bit...
Her: Okay
Me: See ya later
Her: Bye
I had a sh!t load of funny stuff to say, but I forgot it all when I called. I was going to bust on her for saying she was bad with names and then knowing who I am..and tons of other stuff...I get nervous on the phone...I don't use the phone...I should have texted...I shouldn't have been a moron when I called...I am a stupid, stupid man.(*sight... selfimage 0/10*)
-Don't make phone talks to long, make your "superb" jokes when you're on a date, at least there they will have a decent effect, phone calls are there to make the dates.