Riiight...sooo...ex girlfriends.
You know what sucks ? Sucks that I've always been able to give objective solid advice to anyone asking for it , but in some scenarios (this is one of them) I can't think out of the box regarding my own problems.
So this is the girl that ****ed up my world big time at the begining of 2013 after a 3 year relationship. I've never contacted her after the brakeup , she did a few times. We've had brief conversations every now and then. Nothing horrible happened. Nothing really bad even, I just didn't take it too well.
Whatever , not gonna get into that again. Point is , she'll be in town this weekend. She just told me and asked for a meetup. And I. Am. Terrified. No , you don't uderstand. I'm really scared. ****less. I automatically turn utter AFC in her presence. That effect has seemingly not worn off yet. Which it probably should have ? I don't know.
I don't wanna ***** out on this. We all know stepping out of our comfort zone is the best way towards progression , but I need help. I need tips , whatever you have for me. I don't have any goal for this meetup other than facing my own fear. I don't care about other outcomes.
Wat do ?
Feels like I should mention this. I'm 21, she's 19.
You know what sucks ? Sucks that I've always been able to give objective solid advice to anyone asking for it , but in some scenarios (this is one of them) I can't think out of the box regarding my own problems.
So this is the girl that ****ed up my world big time at the begining of 2013 after a 3 year relationship. I've never contacted her after the brakeup , she did a few times. We've had brief conversations every now and then. Nothing horrible happened. Nothing really bad even, I just didn't take it too well.
Whatever , not gonna get into that again. Point is , she'll be in town this weekend. She just told me and asked for a meetup. And I. Am. Terrified. No , you don't uderstand. I'm really scared. ****less. I automatically turn utter AFC in her presence. That effect has seemingly not worn off yet. Which it probably should have ? I don't know.
I don't wanna ***** out on this. We all know stepping out of our comfort zone is the best way towards progression , but I need help. I need tips , whatever you have for me. I don't have any goal for this meetup other than facing my own fear. I don't care about other outcomes.
Wat do ?
Feels like I should mention this. I'm 21, she's 19.