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Master Don Juan
Really, most guys are completely oblivious when a girl is showing interest. What I'm going to try to do here is coach y'all into noticing the most subtle cues girls give.
These are the basics everyone should be aware of (primarily for when you're talking to a girl):
1. Laughing at every joke you make, even the lame ones.
2. Touching you in anyway, from a tap on the wrist to tickling.
3. Lots of eye contact.
4. Leaning forward, shoulders square towards you.
5. Heightened posture.
6. Lots of head-nodding, head-tilting.
7. Smiling (of course).
8. Mirroring your body stance.
*note: Beware of very extraverted girls, as they naturally display all these attributes to anyone. They're very hard to read, and often you can't tell how they feel about you until you make a move.
Less noticeable (these all have to do with eye contact, the most essential tool at reading people):
1. If you find a girl making lasting eye contact with you. When we stare at girls, 95% of the time it's because they're attractive. Guess what? Women are just as human.
2. When a girl looks down, then rolls her eyes around when you catch her looking at you. I don't know the sceince behind this one, but trust my experiences with it: it's gold.
3. When you catch her looking at you at least 3 times. Unless you look familiar or you look like the elephant man, there's only one other reason she's looking at you, playa.
Now the point of all this: act on these cues (to confirm them)! It could be from a simple head-nod to a wave of the hand. If you get some sort of positive reply (commonly enough a smile), then go in for the kill. If you don't react to the subtle clues, she's gonna lose interest. If you react but do nothing, you'll look like even more of a pansy.
It's fine to be able to read people, but it does no good if you don't act on it. My bud and I were chillin at a bar, and he was pointing out how well he could read the flirting language of people at the bar. He sounded really sure of his readings, and they were usually spot-on. Then he told me to calmly look over my shoulder, because he just noticed a girl check him out. Of course, he sat there and did nothing about it, so you can see how far inaction gets you. (I later dragged him to the dance floor and got some girls to gang-freak him so he wouldn't feel at a loss for the night.)
Please don't be like my friend. What good is knowledge if all you use it for is observation? We live in a passive world, and it's the ambitious individuals who get results.
Rx
These are the basics everyone should be aware of (primarily for when you're talking to a girl):
1. Laughing at every joke you make, even the lame ones.
2. Touching you in anyway, from a tap on the wrist to tickling.
3. Lots of eye contact.
4. Leaning forward, shoulders square towards you.
5. Heightened posture.
6. Lots of head-nodding, head-tilting.
7. Smiling (of course).
8. Mirroring your body stance.
*note: Beware of very extraverted girls, as they naturally display all these attributes to anyone. They're very hard to read, and often you can't tell how they feel about you until you make a move.
Less noticeable (these all have to do with eye contact, the most essential tool at reading people):
1. If you find a girl making lasting eye contact with you. When we stare at girls, 95% of the time it's because they're attractive. Guess what? Women are just as human.
2. When a girl looks down, then rolls her eyes around when you catch her looking at you. I don't know the sceince behind this one, but trust my experiences with it: it's gold.
3. When you catch her looking at you at least 3 times. Unless you look familiar or you look like the elephant man, there's only one other reason she's looking at you, playa.
Now the point of all this: act on these cues (to confirm them)! It could be from a simple head-nod to a wave of the hand. If you get some sort of positive reply (commonly enough a smile), then go in for the kill. If you don't react to the subtle clues, she's gonna lose interest. If you react but do nothing, you'll look like even more of a pansy.
It's fine to be able to read people, but it does no good if you don't act on it. My bud and I were chillin at a bar, and he was pointing out how well he could read the flirting language of people at the bar. He sounded really sure of his readings, and they were usually spot-on. Then he told me to calmly look over my shoulder, because he just noticed a girl check him out. Of course, he sat there and did nothing about it, so you can see how far inaction gets you. (I later dragged him to the dance floor and got some girls to gang-freak him so he wouldn't feel at a loss for the night.)
Please don't be like my friend. What good is knowledge if all you use it for is observation? We live in a passive world, and it's the ambitious individuals who get results.
Rx
