First off, Ive been lurking here a while and am very inspired by the progress I see some of you guys are making.
I have been seeing this girl for a while, smart ambitious and stable girl. I just dont feel it anymore and feel like what I want and what she wants does not coincide, in terms of commitment.
I dont want to hurt her and I genuinely want to be her friend (this has previously been very hard for me in previous relationships) I was wondering how you guys have framed it when breaking the news to the girl. I want to be honest but I was her first and I dont want her to be devastated. How have you guys dealt with situations like this?
Im 21 btw.
Thanks for your input in advance.
I have been seeing this girl for a while, smart ambitious and stable girl. I just dont feel it anymore and feel like what I want and what she wants does not coincide, in terms of commitment.
I dont want to hurt her and I genuinely want to be her friend (this has previously been very hard for me in previous relationships) I was wondering how you guys have framed it when breaking the news to the girl. I want to be honest but I was her first and I dont want her to be devastated. How have you guys dealt with situations like this?
Im 21 btw.
Thanks for your input in advance.