Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Tell your story.. im interviewing everyone on so suave..

cola

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Whatsup guys,
My names chris.. as many of you know..
For my own reasons i'd like to ask all the users a few questions and would like you all to answer them.. feel free to not answer if you choose not to.
Ok this is the format --
There's a list of questions I'm about to write..
Please answer them in the order asked..
I think this would help everyone get to know each other and maybe help you get to know yourselves.. here we go..

1. How old are you?
2. Where are you from and where do you live now?
3. How did you find the seduction community..
4. Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life? If so how?
5. How would you describe yourself as an individual?
6. What are some hobbies your passionate about?
7. What do you do for a living?
8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker?
9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself..
10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride..
11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative?
12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social.
13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community?
Average, high success rate with women or little to no success at all

Thanks..
I can't wait to read these answers..
 

pLaYtHiNg

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I'm not a guy, but I'll play!

1. How old are you? 29

2. Where are you from and where do you live now?

I'm originally from Kentucky, but I'm a desert dweller in New Mexico now.

3. How did you find the seduction community..

Looking for male insight on dating and relationships...

4. Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life? If so how?

My eyes have been opened regarding things I was ignorant to. As a woman, I'd previously assumed that men thought and reacted the same way a woman would... WRONG!!

5. How would you describe yourself as an individual?

Quiet, laid-back, intelligent, and creative.

6. What are some hobbies your passionate about?

My artwork/photography, restoring/working on my cars, and collecting/customizing My Little Ponies.

7. What do you do for a living?

I'm a Auditor. I also buy and sell car parts, and my art brings in some income from time to time. My last commission brought in $500!!

8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker?

I'm shy... I let guys worry about that stuff! :)

9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself..

Nothing, and... nothing!

10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride..

My ability to empathize, and being open-minded.

11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative?

Conservative... and maybe too tomboyish on most days!

12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social.

Anti-Social... I don't like people.

13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community?

Pretty successful! Many women assume I am gay... but I'm not!

Can't wait for the rest of you to join in! This ought to be an interesting thread!
 

TheSplat

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1. How old are you?
24


2. Where are you from and where do you live now?
From GA, now living in Jacksonville, FL

3. How did you find the seduction community..
Google, lol. "How to get girls" was the search I believe

4. Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life? If so how?
Yes, I'm an alpha male now. Much more confident, obviously my love life has improved. I'm an advice giver to all my friends now.


5. How would you describe yourself as an individual?
Alpha male, relaxed, intelligent

6. What are some hobbies your passionate about?
Reading, working out, traveling

7. What do you do for a living?
USAF Officer

8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker?
An easy neg on a girls outfit, nail polish, or shoes

9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself..
Honestly, nothing. I'm pretty happy with myself.

10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride..
How far I've come from the shy nerdy kid at 16, and how far my physique has come

11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative?
Classic/preppy.

12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social.
Very social

13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community?
NO success rate. Flat out terrible
 

londonzen

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1. How old are you?
23
2. Where are you from and where do you live now?
south london
3. How did you find the seduction community..
last week after typing in "boners while dancing" lol
4.Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life? If so how?
no not yet knowbody has really helped with my only question yet

5. How would you describe yourself as an individual?

quiet,calm,like to laugh like to make people laugh,laid back, will talk to any one, but im depressed sometimes and dont wanna talk to anyone other times. sometimes in the same day. and i also push people away alot
6. What are some hobbies your passionate about?

football(soccer),music,any thing funny

7. What do you do for a living?
work as part of a facilities team for a big company
8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker?

any thing in the area around me ie today i was in the lift and a catering staff girl comes in(italian:D ) with a box of cakes so i asked what id have to do to get the whole box to which she just blushed and said i couldnt eat them all.
9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself..

i didnt doubt my self so much,wish i could express my feelings better
10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride..
people say im good looking alot and i get alot of attention, i find i have the ability to charm even the most icy girls (before the doubt kicks in)
11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative?

at work i always look rather messy(not overly so) but if i go out i get compliments on the way i wear my clothes, i dont buy big brands tho just next and general high street clothes
12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social.
i worry about clubs and partys and think i wont like it but when im there i always do get really into it so a social person trapped in an anti social mind
13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community?
Average, high success rate with women or little to no success at all
like i say no probs atrracting and charming but i push away alot whooo feels like therapy
 

guywhoneedshelp

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1. How old are you? 21
2. Where are you from and where do you live now? Suffolk, Nassau
3. How did you find the seduction community? Did a Yahoo! search for "lets just be friends" and found this site.
4. Has the seduction community made a significant impact on your life? If so how? Yes, caused me to look within my self.
5. How would you describe yourself as an individual? Happy
6. What are some hobbies your passionate about? Music, bike riding, reading the Wall Street Journal
7. What do you do for a living? Television master control operator for Comcast Bay Area
8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker? Hiiiii
9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself: I wish I was more athletic and didn't have joint problems preventing me from being involved in sports.
10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride: My personality, educational/career success
11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative? I change it up. Button down shirts one day and an Element shirt the next.
12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social. Very social
13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community? Not at all I was only 16 and didn't understand the world.
 

Darth

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1. How old are you? 19.
2. Where are you from and where do you live now? From South, in New England most of my life.
3. How did you find the seduction community.. Don't remember. Had to do with a girl in high school. This wasn't the first site I found though.
4. Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life? If so how? Yes, Pook in particular helped to start me on the path toward manhood, which my father had been saying all along but I didn't listen. Before, I was timid and effeminate. The posts about being a man started me on a path of self-improvement still continuing today.
5. How would you describe yourself as an individual? Ambitious, calculating, artistic, and more emotional deep down than I probably should be.
6. What are some hobbies your passionate about? Film, music (writing and playing), writing.
7. What do you do for a living? College student studying music and business.
8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker? Funny situational comments.
9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself..I wish I didn't need glasses, and I wish I were more of a people person, more of a lovable person, more charming.
10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride..incredible talent and ambition, and a strong moral code
11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative? Button ups and polos. Mostly T-shirts in the summer. Nothing trendy, no popular brand names. Waste of money.
12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social. At this point, I'm probably between "anti social" and "social," closer to social.
13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community?
Horrendous. Not just with girls but socially in general.
 

x86

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I'll bite.

1. How old are you?
22
2. Where are you from and where do you live now?
Canada
3. How did you find the seduction community.
I honestly forget how. I know when between which GF's I found it though.
4. Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life? If so how?
More self confidence. Gave me enough confidence to join a sports and social club by my self. I now have a blast there.
5. How would you describe yourself as an individual?
Careful, intelligent, well read, versatile.
6. What are some hobbies your passionate about?
It varies. This month I am interested in the 1980's crime wave.
7. What do you do for a living?
Trades
8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker?
It seems like the party is over here. Anything situational.
9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself.
Being able to meet new people easier. I'm getting there but I'm not there yet.
10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride..
Meeting MPs. Joining a sports and social club.
11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative?
Conservative
12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social.
Social
13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community?
I was a AFC. I did things right and I did things wrong. I now do more of the former than the latter.
 

cola

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Sorry ..
Ill answer the questions.

How old are you?

19 years old

Where are you from and where do you live now?
Baltimore, Maryland born and raised

How did you discover the seduction community?

Found url randomly.. been hooked ever since

Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life?

Yes. Some good some bad. Now I can notice **** tests easier and eliminate them.
I realize my own potential and that I am the man because its my reality and I influence weather its positive or negative.. on the flip side I was a sort of natural I never had a problem getting girls.. but after discovering this site I became bitter towards women and viewed them all as blood sucking leeches.. I'm just getting over this complex and understanding that as with anyone there is good and bad in all women

How would you describe yourself?

I have two very diffrent sides and when I wake up its not telling which person I'm going to be that day..
Some days I'm fun loving, people loving, charismatic, charming and seductive.
Puppies are cute and bird poo doesn't bother me..
Other days I hate people.. everyone sucks.. I don't want anyone speaking to me and I want to be left alone..
I've accepted that this dr jeckyl mr hyde thing is just a part of me and take the day as it comes

What are some hobbies your passionate about?
Drawing, poetry, martial arts, espionage, buddhism, zen, psychology, philosophy and understanding the human brain and how to manipulate it.

What do you do for a living?

Currently I'm working as a dietary aide at a nursing home .. start school in september ..

What is your favorite opener/ice breaker?

Hello my name is chris. I walked over to you because your very attractive and further more you have this glow about you that just made me want to introduce myself.. -extend hand-..
Stand back..
Watch her melt..

That is copyrighted..

Name two things you wish you could change about yourself?

I wish I didn't have such a bad temper.. its caused me many friends .. many opportunities and many good quality females..

I wish instead of getting into weed and excstasy after highschool I would have went straight to college.. I finished highschool at 16 if I would have went straight to college I could have 1 year left for my bachelors and had my masters by 22-23.

What are two things that give you pride about yourself?
My witty sense of humor and my ability to discern people.

How do you dress? Trendy or conservative?
Comftorable.. jeans, polo shirt and tennis shoes..
I'm big on name brands unfortunately.. wish I wasnt id have a lot more money in my savings account.

how would you describe yourself socially? Very social, anti social or social?

I'm never the loudest guy in the room.. but never the quietest either so probably social..
And if I sense your full of svit ill be antisocial towards you as an individual..


How successful were you with women before the seduction community?

Ok.. let me break this down and be completely honest..
As a young kid I was picked on because I was big for my age..
In 7th grade I had a full mustache.. yikes!

At around 15 I started to grow into my frame and became somewhat attractive..
but still wasn't confident in myself..
Around 16-17 I discovered my confidence and began banging chicks frequently..
At 13 I lost my virginity but didn't have sex again until 16..
At 16-17 I was getting layed semi frequently.. usually just by being a wingman.. minimal effort..
At 18 I actually started trying and got better results.. I also discovered the pick up community..
At 19 now I can just about go outside.. do about 20-30 cold approaches..
Get about 5-10 numbers..
And end up banging one by the end of the week.. occassionaly that day or the next..

thanks for reading..
 

londonzen

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cola said:
Sorry ..
Ill answer the questions.

How old are you?

19 years old

Where are you from and where do you live now?
Baltimore, Maryland born and raised

How did you discover the seduction community?

Found url randomly.. been hooked ever since

Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life?

Yes. Some good some bad. Now I can notice **** tests easier and eliminate them.
I realize my own potential and that I am the man because its my reality and I influence weather its positive or negative.. on the flip side I was a sort of natural I never had a problem getting girls.. but after discovering this site I became bitter towards women and viewed them all as blood sucking leeches.. I'm just getting over this complex and understanding that as with anyone there is good and bad in all women

How would you describe yourself?

I have two very diffrent sides and when I wake up its not telling which person I'm going to be that day..
Some days I'm fun loving, people loving, charismatic, charming and seductive.
Puppies are cute and bird poo doesn't bother me..
Other days I hate people.. everyone sucks.. I don't want anyone speaking to me and I want to be left alone..
I've accepted that this dr jeckyl mr hyde thing is just a part of me and take the day as it comes

we sound similar
 

Darth

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londonzen said:
we sound similar
I used to be like exactly what you've described. It ruined everything. I didn't figure out how to fix t until about a month ago, when I accidentally discovered the condition called "cyclothymia." I had a mild version of this, I think.

I started taking 4 fish oil tablets a day (omega-3) and it literally changed my life.
 

King Turi

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1. How old are you?
21

2. Where are you from and where do you live now?
Australia, Australia.

3. How did you find the seduction community..
A MSN friend suggested the site to me after he realized I was too hung up on one girl.

4. Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life? If so how?
Not quite, though I've learnt a fair bit, and finally decided to join a gym.

5. How would you describe yourself as an individual?
Fucking awesome.

6. What are some hobbies your passionate about?
Lots of things basically all revolved around music though.

7. What do you do for a living?
Studying music right now. Plan on being a music teacher, or anything in the music industry as long as it's something like teaching or performing, not interested in the technical side of it, like sound engineering.

8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker?
Sup?

9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself..
I wish my eyes didn't go bloodshot for no reason. Gettin' on top of that today though, already booked my appointment.

10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride..
My looks and my musical abilities (guitar, keyboards, singing etc)

11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative?
However I want to dress.

12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social.
Social, I ain't anti-social, and I'm not extremely social.. so yeah just social.

13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community?
Same as I am now, I'm very successful with women generally, I attract women all the time through my singing abilities and good looks, I find it much harder to keep the women though, which I might use some of the stuff on this site to help out with next time I'm in a relationship.
 

Poonani Maker

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1. 33
2. Tennessee, Colorado
3. I first looked for e-books on emule, then it just progressed from there, Google.
4. Yes. It's made me aware of the game, and the stupid games women play and how to beat them at their stupid silly games.
5. Happy, confident, loving, a friend to just about anybody, a peacemaker, an encourager to young, old, sick, healthy, poor, rich.
6. Language learning, dancing, archery, movie making, singing.
7. Used to work for federal government. Can't tell you what I do now.
8. How are you?
9. I wish I were younger and in the position I am now. I would change my compacency because it's not attractive. I would like to be more REAL with people. At times I can be very honest and real like the people I admire the most.
10. My job, my athletic abilities and knowledge of survival. My diversity. Establishing myself in a hard-to-live area.
11. I buy unique clothes that no one else probably has.
12. Social, especially within the last couple of months.
13. Not very successful. I met my oneitis 4 years ago and her profound effect on me in conjunction with my continuous research within the community, I grew to be a darn good flirt with ALL women. Some women still hate me, but I can't help them to see the error of their ways, and they will be forever lost. Not my fault.
 
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Ahhh... let the interview begin haha

1. How old are you?

I am 242 moons old..... i am 20 and i dont apologize if i act like im 25.

2. Where are you from and where do you live now?

I am from southern California and i have lived here all my life. We are one of the worlds biggest economies and we have the Terminator for governor!

3. How did you find the seduction community..

I googled " How to get girls" in 2006, when i was destroyed by a girl i has extreme oneitis for. wow... i remember i bought a Zune because she had a zune... so we can trade songs... i was really pathetic haha. I started subscribing to David Deangelo and Carlos Xumas email newsletters... it open my eyes a little.... but i was into pickup lines and finding a "magic" pill before i found this community.

4. Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life? If so how?

It had reversed my prey instincts.... i am my own role model and leader now. A strong religoius mother made me treat girls like if they were idols. I thought the nicer you treated them... the more they liked you. I live the life i want, and i don't apologize for being successful, and for giving the hottie massive eye contact. It has made me not give a bomb shelter what people think of me.... but male chodes nag me for advice now. Hmmm... i feel like .... what's the word.... i feel like kicking ass all the time! Getting a free pass to every **** test is fun.... body language open my eyes big time. The seduction community has unleashed the badass in me that has been dormant since 6th grade!

5. How would you describe yourself as an individual?


Intelligent, adventurous, naughty, creative, friendly, comedian, approachable, leader , empathetic, outgoing, high status, revolutionary, enjoyable, ambitious, brave,

6. What are some hobbies your passionate about?

Hmmmm.....
I am interesting in almost anything adventurous that gets me off the couch..... dancing, partying, reading good works of literature, painting and photoshop, portrait drawing and paper graffiti, football, creating science experiments, clubbing, parasailing, skydiving, making everyday an anniversary, flirting with the Force, empowering others, reading good books like Brave New World, makin' music on FL, traveling, learning, making fun of the rich and privileged, getting it down at social events, photography, protecting the environment, all eras of history, listening to music, business and marketing, songwriting, beatbashing, freestyle rapping, gardening and planting, urban exploration, sociology , cooking like a chef, hanging out with casanovas, weightlifting, pushing the buttons of security guards, nutrition and eatin' healthy, being naughty and sarcastic, female attraction , eating ice scream with nuts, using erotic body language, ancient warfare, going to the beach, rockin' out, drawing cool monsters, soccer, not giving a ****, having fun my own way, street racing, writing short stories, being amazed about DNA and genetics, saving money on Sales, making faces at the monkeys at the zoo,giving medical advice, sexdreaming about Vanessa Hudgens, study groups, listening to comedians, breakdancing and spinning like an Apache helicopter, motivational quotes and philosophy, helping others and volunteering, spotlighting at nightclubs, showing my masculine side,putting my balls on the table, cruising the street gansta style, getting romantic at picnics, bomb ranges and rockets, magic and hypnotizing, going on rollercoasters, experiencing new drinks, making waves with Shamu, watching Lakers own the court, archery and swordfighting, eating at unique restaurants ,riding horses with a girl in a ponytail, running and cycling at sunrise and sunset, extreme sports, anime and manga, meeting humble rich people, psychology, playing playstation 2, teasing and playfighting with girls, experiencing new cultures, reading the newspaper, exotic cars, biology, sensual poetry, going Whooohooohoo, making videos on handycam, kicking ass in something i haven't done before, raves, new inventions and technology, playing imaginary guitar, waiting for the revolution, getting free stuff, giving girls oh my god moments, driving with style, watching nature at play, fishing and hunting, basketball,action heros, runescape, doing skateboarding, talking about life with senior citizens, avoiding the judicial system, making kickass sandwiches, teaching others, breaking the law the fun way, hanging out with good friends, thumb wrestling, making up statistics, saying Yo Momma jokes to moms, being mysterious like Zorro, having intelligent conversations with hotties, being a badboy, going to museums and nature walks, teasing people about whats fashionable, going alpha male at football games, dune racing and quad riding, traveling to exotic places, trowing paper balls in class, watching birds of prey with binoculars, drinking lemonade, making people have a good time by my presence, interested in dinosaurs especially velociraptors, learning how to box well, avoiding the underage and uglies, alternative energies and solar power, baking studmuffins from scratch, speaking in foreign languages, watching good movies like Kelly's Heroes, going blah blah blah, but most of all learning something new and going on Adventures
7. What do you do for a living?

Head assistant at a grocery store.. but i tell people im an adveturer... that my real job.

8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker?


1. Hey what's up
2. hello
3. Hey girl
4. oh wow

9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself..
my athletic level... ( working on it)
wish i wasn't scared of heights

10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride..
Being my own role model
Using my intelligence intelligently to improve my life

11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative?


I dress with artistic value.... and very trendy... i dress fashionable to express my persnalty

12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social.

Extremely social.... but can be a lone wolf when i feel like it.


13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this communi



I was .............. hmmmm..... depends on whats you mean by "successful"... i was good with girls but not where i wanted to be at
 

shock

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1. How old are you?
24

2. Where are you from and where do you live now?
Colorado Springs, CO...born and raised

3. How did you find the seduction community..
Honestly don't remember... but something to do with meeting girls.

4. Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life
Yes, big time. I've come a long way from where I was 8 years ago since I joined this site. I used to be considered quiet and shy. Reserved, and NO success with women. I've become more confident all around.

5. How would you describe yourself as an individual?
Ambitious, successful, selfless...

6. What are some hobbies your passionate about?
Lifting, photography, music/movies

7. What do you do for a living?
Fireman

8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker?
A simple "hello"

9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself..
I wish I was a bigger, and had cooler hair.

10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride..
Very successful for my age, determined to be 100% happy in life

11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative?
I change it up. Stylish trendy to punk.. whatever

12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social.
Social.

13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community?
Awful. This site gave me the confidence and skills needed to be successful with women.
 

Zodiac

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1. How old are you?
19

2. Where are you from and where do you live now?
I am from Idaho but I live in Maine now

3. How did you find the seduction community..
I found this site while trying to get advice to get into a girls pants

4. Has the seduction community made a significant impact on your life? If so how?
Yes the seduction community made a significant impact on my life by teaching me to not care about how others view me nor should I care about what they think about me. Due to this I really don't care if I get rejected and thus I can ask girls questions I would never have before

5. How would you describe yourself as an individual?
Laid back

6. What are some hobbies your passionate about?
Fixing cars and staying in shape

7. What do you do for a living?
I work in a salvage shop along during the fall and spring along with landscaping during the summer.

8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker?
"Hi."

9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself..
1. My insomnia
2. My injury prone nature

10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride..
1. Been told I can cook really good
2. My carefree attitude

11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative?
I dress casual all the time. During the fall, winter and early spring I wear pants and a t-shirt and during summer a pair of shorts and t-shirt. I am not trendy and not really conservative. I wear what I want to wear.

12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social.
Sort of anti-social. I use this to play a laid back, wise and reserved type of person

13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community?
I had very few relationships
 

MisterMcGee

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1. How old are you? 19
2. Where are you from and where do you live now? canada
3. How did you find the seduction community. dont remember. probably google
4. Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life? If so how? its been a part of my journey but its one of those things that you let go of eventually (like training wheels)
5. How would you describe yourself as an individual? growing. above a lot of bull****, to the point where sometimes i dont feel a drive to do some things, like get laid or maintain smaller friendships
6. What are some hobbies your passionate about? writing/film
7. What do you do for a living? student and part-time work
8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker? commenting on something funny
9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself. allergies that make my eyes watery
10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride. carefree (maybe too much so). also talented. ive got this gardenstate-esque thing going on right now where drama is almost entirely trivial to me. This makes me kind of different as i dont care about what i say and if it makes someone not like me, cause its petty. sometimes i say something jokingly rude to a friend-girl of mine, and she'll take offense, but i seriously dont see the big deal at all and it makes her a lot more chill as a result. Basically, I don't want to go through "the motions" (especially faking politeness) and, at least while this phase lasts, it makes things interesting.
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11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative? i dress comfortably so i feel good. all fitted clothes.

12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social. im good in social situations and i have a lot of acquaintances, but ive recently realized im a bit of a loner. im fine with it, recently trying to see how i can be confident about this realization. my character is strong and such thanks to a burst of personal growth and maturity, so the fact that im a bit of a lone wolf isn't harmful as it is to a teenager or a 25 year old who lives with his parents

13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community?Average, high success rate with women or little to no success at all bad. typical nice guy but never went overboard due to shyness and lack of a big drive to do anything. im not much better with women on paper now as i dont care much about actually getting things done with them, but i feel prepared and healthy.
 

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Alright,move out the way guys. It's my turn. :D

1:How old are you? I'm 34.
2:Where are you from,and where do you live now? Well,originally I'm from a little town in Oklahoma,but I moved to Texas like 3 years ago. Right now,I currently still live here in Texas,about 10 miles from the Texas/Oklahoma border.
3:How did you find the seduction community? Well,I found it about 10 years ago. I was in a book store,and I happened to walk into the dating/relationship section,and I found a book called "How to be sucessful with women". That book helped more than any other book or person ever did up to that point in my life,however,it was just the first step into a community that I never even knew existed.
4:Has the seduction community made a significant impact on your life? If so how?Well,it's helped me out a lot. It's made me aware of a WHOLE LOT OF THINGS I didn't even know were going on about myself first that I needed to change,and about what women find attractive in men.
5:How would you describe yourself as an individual? This is a loaded question here Cola. I'd say I'm basically a good person. I want the best for everybody. I want the best for my family and friends,and if it were possible,instead of seeing hurt and harm come to people who don't like me,I'd rather win over my enemies to being my friends as well.
6:What are some hobbies your passionate about? I like to bowl. I know,it may be an old folks' sport,but I HIGHLY enjoy it. Also,I like to play basketball. It's fun as well.
7:What do you do for a living? I work for a major,MAJOR food producing company. I work in distribution.
8:What is you favorite opener/ice breaker? Are your feet tired? Because you've been running through my mind....just kidding man,just kidding.
This is a hard question,because my "ice breaker" may change depending on where I'm at. I mean,I've been as blunt as saying....
me:Are you married?
girl:No.
me:You got a boyfriend?
girl:No
me:Good,then we can go out.

Yeah,I've actually said that to a girl before,and we ended up dating for over a year. If you'll notice,I don't have a lot of patience for playing games and beating around the bush.

9:Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself. Let's see.....well,I'd like to be a bit taller. And...I wish I didn't overanalyze so much.
10:List 2 things about yourself that give you pride. I like the fact that generally speaking,I live life skillfully. I also like that I'm in a position where I can be a help to others.
11:How do you dress? Trendy? Conservative? Oh definately not trendy. I guess somewhat conservative. On a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being conservative and 10 being a fashion misfit,I'd say I'm a 5.5/6.
12:Would you describe yourself as social,very social,or anti-social. I'd say social. Not as much as I'd like to be,but yeah,social.
13:How sucessful with women were you before you discovered this community? Average,high success rate with women or little to no success at all? I'd say little to no success at all. It wasn't that I never dated or had a girlfriend,it was that whenever I did get one,I didn't know what I did that caused it. It was like winning the lottery:somebody's gonna win it. I "got lucky" with women,or so I thought at the time. I was actually doing some of the things taught here on the forum,I just didn't know I was doing them. I guess you can say I "screwed up" and did the right thing. :D

Anyway,that's "Igetit!" in a nutshell.

Good thread man.

+1 rep.
 

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1. How old are you?
2. Where are you from and where do you live now?
3. How did you find the seduction community..
4. Has the seduction community made a signifigant impact on your life? If so how?
5. How would you describe yourself as an individual?
6. What are some hobbies your passionate about?
7. What do you do for a living?
8. What is your favorite opener/ice breaker?
9. Name 2 things you wish you could change about yourself..
10. List 2 things about yourself that give you pride..
11. How do you dress? Are you trendy? Conservative?
12. Would you describe yourself as social, very social or anti social.
13. How successful with women were you before you discovered this community?
Average, high success rate with women or little to no success at all


1. 24
2. From Philadelphia, Pa and live in Philadelphia, Pa
3. Google search for help with women
4. Yes, I know what NOT to do when it comes to women but I'm still having trouble approaching women I don't know at all.
5. Intelligent, compassionate, funny
6. I really don't have passionate hobbies, but I like writing and I'm a geek when it comes to technology and gadgets.
7. I'm a network and specialty device technician.
8. I really don't have any since I don't approach. But with females I feel warmed up to, I make small talk aboout whatever is happening in the moment.
9. My weight (thin and cut...want some more mass and still be cut) and not being able to just relax and go with the flow.
10. I have a good sixth sense when it comes to things and I haven't done any of things most people regret (drink, smoke, drugs, etc)
11. I'm conservative. I used to dress in bland colors, but I now buy clothes that fit my frame better and more interesting colors and designs.
12. Social...to a point. I'm not the guy that will talk to everyone but I do try to be the one to make conversationg here and there.
13. I was not successful at all with women before I discovered this community.
 

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These are such easy posts to make.

1.) I'm 27
2.) From Philadelphia and in Philadelphia. Every time I think I'm out it drags me right back in.
3.) Random google search.
4.) Some. I still think the nice guy brings the right ones home but the DJ brings home very fun wrong.
5.) Lazy and undisciplined. But interesting and individualistic.
6.) Motorcycles, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, rockabilly, cooking.
7.) LPN
8.) An emotion-stirring question. This I picked up from forums like these.
9.)Weight and discipline.
10.) My personality and my friendships.
11.) Very frattish. Except when I go out I try to Elvis it up about 25%
12.) Social. Some VERY close friends, less associates than most though.
13.) I'd been married and had several girlfriends. But I did need to step it up a notch.
 
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