check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
we all know practice make perfect, you want to be better at anything, say at holding a ocnversation or better at sport then practice will make you improve at it.
BUt how do you stop over anylising, how do you stop giving a dam aobut certain girls, surely practice will not make perfect here. But i found out it does.
You try and talk to girls oyu over anylise you make osmtinhg of nothing you chase a bit because you cant stop thinking about her.
Well i had done this a lot, always asking my freind what did such and such girl say to you about me, always over anylising. Then i came back to school after christmas with a new mentality iv had enough im gona take all my chances but not try and make any, im not going to give a dam.
This is not somthing you can just stop doing, it is through doing it many times you stop giving a dam. I just could not be bothered to anylise what a girl did anymore and stoped aksing my freind what guirls may have said about me.
and in this week i have talked to so many more girls because i stoped worying and took all my chances rather then trying to make some but messing up and missing the chances i already had.
since i stoped giving a dam this week the girls i like today said hi to me as i wlaked past, i said hi back, but no i was not my old self i did not ditch my freind to talk to the girls i caried on walking past and stayed with my freind.
I think part of why they said hi to me was not because i stoped talking to them and stoped checking them out but because of the social proof, as they saw me talking with a group of 6 girls the whole afternoon just me and them, yet i still have more guy freind, i ussaly hang around with guys.
(funnily enough there are not many groups with girls and guys in it so im ussaly hanging around with more or less all guys or all girls although 1 area in school we hang out in girls hang there to and we are all freinds as we are hanging out in the same place. )
BUt how do you stop over anylising, how do you stop giving a dam aobut certain girls, surely practice will not make perfect here. But i found out it does.
You try and talk to girls oyu over anylise you make osmtinhg of nothing you chase a bit because you cant stop thinking about her.
Well i had done this a lot, always asking my freind what did such and such girl say to you about me, always over anylising. Then i came back to school after christmas with a new mentality iv had enough im gona take all my chances but not try and make any, im not going to give a dam.
This is not somthing you can just stop doing, it is through doing it many times you stop giving a dam. I just could not be bothered to anylise what a girl did anymore and stoped aksing my freind what guirls may have said about me.
and in this week i have talked to so many more girls because i stoped worying and took all my chances rather then trying to make some but messing up and missing the chances i already had.
since i stoped giving a dam this week the girls i like today said hi to me as i wlaked past, i said hi back, but no i was not my old self i did not ditch my freind to talk to the girls i caried on walking past and stayed with my freind.
I think part of why they said hi to me was not because i stoped talking to them and stoped checking them out but because of the social proof, as they saw me talking with a group of 6 girls the whole afternoon just me and them, yet i still have more guy freind, i ussaly hang around with guys.
(funnily enough there are not many groups with girls and guys in it so im ussaly hanging around with more or less all guys or all girls although 1 area in school we hang out in girls hang there to and we are all freinds as we are hanging out in the same place. )