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This is in response to Linkin Park ROX who asked how to be like Tony Stark and anyone else who wants to learn to be their ideal and best self to the world.
Warning: this has to do with mainly personality,vibe and aura & not material things like clothes , money, houses e.t.c.
Projection is an incredibly powerful thing and is pretty much controlled by your brain which is a very powerful organ. Ease gave a great answer which he has touted around the forum as frequently as he can even in my thread about defining what a man is. He said you should imagine how your role model man that you see in the movies or real life would act and act accordingly. He was spot on, DING! Bang on the money.
Its simple.........you know those first person shooter games like 007 Golden eye where you are only shown a view of the gun and not the whole character? Well imagine yourself being 007 james bond and holding the gun shooting bad guys (imagine you are holding the gun shooting but do not move your body while doing this, just create an image of it in your mind While your eyes are open). This is what I have personally termed ..........
~ THE GREEN LANTERN EFFECT.
If you imagine that, you will subsequently feel more immersed in the game and feel like you are in the videogame world .This is quite similar except in this case, you take whatever behavioural traits you like about the person you admire and just imagine yourself living in his body and experiencing life how he would. If you like a confident talkative guy for instance, imagine being in his body and do not for a second doubt that you are that person. Fully believe that its you. This is what is called ''faking it till you make it''.
The only thing though, is that you should not think of yourself as ‘faking it’ , you should think of yourself as making a permanent decision to be the type of ideal character that you think you would like to represent you.
You can even model yourself after a totally original character that you have created from scratch i.e you add what traits you want to have. For example, you could say; '' My character should be suave yet hard with an edge and he is the type of person that gets all the girls’’ .Then you proceed to behave exactly how you think that character would. This is called creating your own reality and is what guys like snowplowman and phat rabbit,scars, dbot, oldschooler,Pook,aaronlava, BOBBY RIO(he’s the man!), the sex god who wrote that article 'the truth about women’ and Accension have done to great success ,hence why their posts are so out of reality and difficult to believe sometimes.
On the opposite side of the spectrum, there’s guys with successful but incomplete realities such as Mixmaster who im guessin had a positive experience with a girl making a move on him and then he must have dwelt on this alot and thus other girls saw his projection of being a babe magnet and usually give him unnatural attention when he is out and about. The problem is that the puzzle piece of his reality is incomplete as he most likely does not yet believe that he can complete the sequence with girls having sex with him as he hasn’t yet scored and thus his doubts cause the girls to not totally succumb to him.
On a different note ; If you think that girls always see you as a friend and are repulsed by you , sure enough that’s what will always happen unless the girl sees past your negative reflection of yourself and takes pity on you .So therefore, see yourself as great instead.
I remember once when I was in high school, there was this girl I thought was hot but I felt gawky and ugly even though I am handsome. She saw my projected reflection and was repulsed by me but there was this other guy who was ugly but she was madly in love with him. Why? , because he thought of himself as being amazing and therefore she did too. You see doubt and hesitation will infect your execution. I remember getting this black jacket a while ago and feeling awkward in it and never got female attention but then i convinced myself that i looked cool in it and surely enough, girls started eyeing me up and one even bumped into me hard. I then started thinking wow this jacket must have something special. It wasn’t the jacket it was my belief about the jacket that caused girls to always go crazy when they saw me in it. They still do even now lol.
When I went off duty to one of my workplaces Christmas party (im a bouncer/doorman at the moment), I was nervous and was carrying a school bag in my hand, but then when i got to the reception, I thought of the videogame GTA: the ballad of gay tony and convinced myself that I was Luis; the Puerto rican bodyguard that Tony had. I unknowingly modelled myself after him, i.e as someone who was suave but hardened and surely enough the receptionist lady at the venue asked me in a flirty way if the bag i was carrying was a swagger bag. I was surprised to say the least and then i kept that reality the whole night and thought of myself as a piece of meat that all the women were trying to fvck. Surely enough , one of the girls I was talking to who I knew from work as shy and demure and having a fiancé!, tried pulling me into the toilet of the venue for sex by using innuendo and her eyes. I subtely brushed off her innuendo by changing the subject to querying about how her fiancé was doing and then wishing her a good night of partying.
The success continued that night as I imagined myself being smooth and suave after being introduced to a HB9 white chick in a pink miniskirt by a female hb8 workmate and I gamed her so hard to the point where she was asking the female friend for my number afterwards. All this shows you is that women are mirrors and they reflect back what you think about yourself. They also behave in ways you expect them to, hence why there are no clinically sane attention w h o r e s or princesses on this earth, just guys who think of girls as such and cause the girls to act that way. If you think of a girl as sexually liberal without judging her poorly for it, thats what she will be for you. Hence why society at present sucks; because men gave women an inch and they took a thousand miles.
What you project out is how people take you so if your ugly, think of yourself as beautiful and thus people will see you as being ok looking. It all has to do with the simple fact that your thoughts mold the way your face is shaped and also explains why some people never seem to look like they are ageing (cause they see themselves as forever young).
Disclaimer:
I also think that the reason why some unenlightened people on this forum struggle is not because they are dumb and don’t understand the advice being given but its bcos they read posts which do not use the type of communication they understand.
If you are blunt, read blunt posts (which i personally do and love) by guys such as myself, Warrior74,Igetit! Jophil e.t.c If you are vague and therefore understand the most abstract language very easily, then read stuff by Rollo Tomassi , interceptor, e.t.c. (Im not knocking you guys at all but you come to mind the easiest)
Its simply a communication distortion that causes a lot of noobs to struggle learning this stuff. Its cos they need more detailed explanations cos they are blunt communicators . Obviously this is not an absolute because blunt people can also understand vague communication and vice versa . Its just that its easier if you stick with your type of communication.This will rapidly speed up your understanding of dating dynamics. I learnt about this communication difference after reading a conversation book written by Sean McPheat.
FOOL your mind into thinking these great things naturally happen for you and soon enough they will begin to.
This is in response to Linkin Park ROX who asked how to be like Tony Stark and anyone else who wants to learn to be their ideal and best self to the world.
Warning: this has to do with mainly personality,vibe and aura & not material things like clothes , money, houses e.t.c.
Projection is an incredibly powerful thing and is pretty much controlled by your brain which is a very powerful organ. Ease gave a great answer which he has touted around the forum as frequently as he can even in my thread about defining what a man is. He said you should imagine how your role model man that you see in the movies or real life would act and act accordingly. He was spot on, DING! Bang on the money.
Its simple.........you know those first person shooter games like 007 Golden eye where you are only shown a view of the gun and not the whole character? Well imagine yourself being 007 james bond and holding the gun shooting bad guys (imagine you are holding the gun shooting but do not move your body while doing this, just create an image of it in your mind While your eyes are open). This is what I have personally termed ..........
~ THE GREEN LANTERN EFFECT.
If you imagine that, you will subsequently feel more immersed in the game and feel like you are in the videogame world .This is quite similar except in this case, you take whatever behavioural traits you like about the person you admire and just imagine yourself living in his body and experiencing life how he would. If you like a confident talkative guy for instance, imagine being in his body and do not for a second doubt that you are that person. Fully believe that its you. This is what is called ''faking it till you make it''.
The only thing though, is that you should not think of yourself as ‘faking it’ , you should think of yourself as making a permanent decision to be the type of ideal character that you think you would like to represent you.
You can even model yourself after a totally original character that you have created from scratch i.e you add what traits you want to have. For example, you could say; '' My character should be suave yet hard with an edge and he is the type of person that gets all the girls’’ .Then you proceed to behave exactly how you think that character would. This is called creating your own reality and is what guys like snowplowman and phat rabbit,scars, dbot, oldschooler,Pook,aaronlava, BOBBY RIO(he’s the man!), the sex god who wrote that article 'the truth about women’ and Accension have done to great success ,hence why their posts are so out of reality and difficult to believe sometimes.
On the opposite side of the spectrum, there’s guys with successful but incomplete realities such as Mixmaster who im guessin had a positive experience with a girl making a move on him and then he must have dwelt on this alot and thus other girls saw his projection of being a babe magnet and usually give him unnatural attention when he is out and about. The problem is that the puzzle piece of his reality is incomplete as he most likely does not yet believe that he can complete the sequence with girls having sex with him as he hasn’t yet scored and thus his doubts cause the girls to not totally succumb to him.
On a different note ; If you think that girls always see you as a friend and are repulsed by you , sure enough that’s what will always happen unless the girl sees past your negative reflection of yourself and takes pity on you .So therefore, see yourself as great instead.
I remember once when I was in high school, there was this girl I thought was hot but I felt gawky and ugly even though I am handsome. She saw my projected reflection and was repulsed by me but there was this other guy who was ugly but she was madly in love with him. Why? , because he thought of himself as being amazing and therefore she did too. You see doubt and hesitation will infect your execution. I remember getting this black jacket a while ago and feeling awkward in it and never got female attention but then i convinced myself that i looked cool in it and surely enough, girls started eyeing me up and one even bumped into me hard. I then started thinking wow this jacket must have something special. It wasn’t the jacket it was my belief about the jacket that caused girls to always go crazy when they saw me in it. They still do even now lol.
When I went off duty to one of my workplaces Christmas party (im a bouncer/doorman at the moment), I was nervous and was carrying a school bag in my hand, but then when i got to the reception, I thought of the videogame GTA: the ballad of gay tony and convinced myself that I was Luis; the Puerto rican bodyguard that Tony had. I unknowingly modelled myself after him, i.e as someone who was suave but hardened and surely enough the receptionist lady at the venue asked me in a flirty way if the bag i was carrying was a swagger bag. I was surprised to say the least and then i kept that reality the whole night and thought of myself as a piece of meat that all the women were trying to fvck. Surely enough , one of the girls I was talking to who I knew from work as shy and demure and having a fiancé!, tried pulling me into the toilet of the venue for sex by using innuendo and her eyes. I subtely brushed off her innuendo by changing the subject to querying about how her fiancé was doing and then wishing her a good night of partying.
The success continued that night as I imagined myself being smooth and suave after being introduced to a HB9 white chick in a pink miniskirt by a female hb8 workmate and I gamed her so hard to the point where she was asking the female friend for my number afterwards. All this shows you is that women are mirrors and they reflect back what you think about yourself. They also behave in ways you expect them to, hence why there are no clinically sane attention w h o r e s or princesses on this earth, just guys who think of girls as such and cause the girls to act that way. If you think of a girl as sexually liberal without judging her poorly for it, thats what she will be for you. Hence why society at present sucks; because men gave women an inch and they took a thousand miles.
What you project out is how people take you so if your ugly, think of yourself as beautiful and thus people will see you as being ok looking. It all has to do with the simple fact that your thoughts mold the way your face is shaped and also explains why some people never seem to look like they are ageing (cause they see themselves as forever young).
Disclaimer:
I also think that the reason why some unenlightened people on this forum struggle is not because they are dumb and don’t understand the advice being given but its bcos they read posts which do not use the type of communication they understand.
If you are blunt, read blunt posts (which i personally do and love) by guys such as myself, Warrior74,Igetit! Jophil e.t.c If you are vague and therefore understand the most abstract language very easily, then read stuff by Rollo Tomassi , interceptor, e.t.c. (Im not knocking you guys at all but you come to mind the easiest)
Its simply a communication distortion that causes a lot of noobs to struggle learning this stuff. Its cos they need more detailed explanations cos they are blunt communicators . Obviously this is not an absolute because blunt people can also understand vague communication and vice versa . Its just that its easier if you stick with your type of communication.This will rapidly speed up your understanding of dating dynamics. I learnt about this communication difference after reading a conversation book written by Sean McPheat.
FOOL your mind into thinking these great things naturally happen for you and soon enough they will begin to.
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