Girls FANTASIZE about meeting the guy of her dreams in normal places like the supermarket. Enough said?
Come on telling guys not STOP cold approaching? Sorry sir but you are a goober! Even if they don't get success right away they are building their CONFIDENCE and SOCIAL SKILLS. This will improve their game even in their own social circle. Not only that but he will be meeting new people which will expand his existing social circle! So it seems regardless of whether he actually gets laid from it, cold approaching has a lot of benefits.
One of the biggest things you get from it is getting out of your comfort zone. This builds confidence and encourages risk taking. Someone asked how it builds confidence, that's how. Hell if you go out and get rejected 99 times that's brilliant! We should all do that. Imagine how much less you would care if you got rejected that 100th time! Once you no longer care if you get rejected, because it has happened so many times that you realize you aren't affected by it and are still alive, your success will skyrocket. From there you will get positive experiences instead of rejections, and that takes your confidence from not caring to expecting success. Or you could stay in your social circle?
Since when has having friends been related to success with women? Sure you MIGHT get social proof but it depends who these friends are and more importantly who you are. We all know how well being friends first with girls works. I'm sure that social circle game is valid and worth learning, but it's no reason to stop cold approaches. If you stuff something up in your own social circle it's there to stay, with cold approaches you can try whatever you like on a variety of women. When you figure out what works you can integrate it into your social circle game.
You tell us we shouldn't cold approach because average guys don't, but since when has doing what the average guy does got us any success? Sure, let's all only date girls in our social circle by giving them chocolates and flowers and making sure we are friends first, after all it's what normal people do. Hell why are we on this site anyway?
If you say that cold approaching is creepy you obviously have limiting beliefs. You also clearly haven't done any. How can you judge it without actually doing it? Almost everyone who has done it for a decent amount of time has said how most girls are actually open to it. They enjoy it. This is probably because by doing it they build up the social skills required in order to get such a response. You know, the kind of skills you don't have.
If you don't want to cold approach, fine. If you can get girls without it, great! However please don't encourage other people not to do it, and whatever you do, don't attack it unless you have sufficient experiance with it. Theorys don't count.
