Guys I need an opinion on something.
I've read the DJ bible and the main theme that seems to run through it, is having goals dreams and aspirations in career, physical fitness and spirituality, anything that doesn't have to do with women.
However in my personal life, my biggest satisfaction and happiness comes from being successful with people around me. Meaning if I am able to score with women it makes me feel good, and if I am able to meet new friends that makes me feel great too.
I recently stayed at a Frat house and met tons of people, I've never been happier my entire life. Not just girls but I met many cool guys and I felt a sense of belonging and happiness I've never felt before.
To me socializing is a really important factor in my overall happiness, honestly I just want to give up school. Find a simple job and spend all my time meeting new people at bars, and clubs and just about everywhere else people hangout.
When I am successful for the day in socializing, then i feel motivated to achieve my other smaller goals, like working out and doing well in school.
To me the high that I get from having a women respond positively and meeting new people and being the center of attention is amazing.
I was having fun at these frat parties and I simply loved just being there. Nothing else could compare to the satisfaction of playing beer pong at 2 in the morning with thirty people.
All I want to do is sarge and meet new people. However i have other goals as well and sometimes they end up suffering because I am making effort in trying to push myself out of my comfort zone.
It takes lots of emotional energy to socialize with people because I have anxiety and everyday it takes courage to push past the barrier and put myself out there. That I usually have no energy left for other goals in my life.
I want to go to law school, however it worries me that doing so is going to take time away from growing as a person socially.
What should I do? Should I give up my goals of my career, to spend all that time to work on my social skills?
I've read the DJ bible and the main theme that seems to run through it, is having goals dreams and aspirations in career, physical fitness and spirituality, anything that doesn't have to do with women.
However in my personal life, my biggest satisfaction and happiness comes from being successful with people around me. Meaning if I am able to score with women it makes me feel good, and if I am able to meet new friends that makes me feel great too.
I recently stayed at a Frat house and met tons of people, I've never been happier my entire life. Not just girls but I met many cool guys and I felt a sense of belonging and happiness I've never felt before.
To me socializing is a really important factor in my overall happiness, honestly I just want to give up school. Find a simple job and spend all my time meeting new people at bars, and clubs and just about everywhere else people hangout.
When I am successful for the day in socializing, then i feel motivated to achieve my other smaller goals, like working out and doing well in school.
To me the high that I get from having a women respond positively and meeting new people and being the center of attention is amazing.
I was having fun at these frat parties and I simply loved just being there. Nothing else could compare to the satisfaction of playing beer pong at 2 in the morning with thirty people.
All I want to do is sarge and meet new people. However i have other goals as well and sometimes they end up suffering because I am making effort in trying to push myself out of my comfort zone.
It takes lots of emotional energy to socialize with people because I have anxiety and everyday it takes courage to push past the barrier and put myself out there. That I usually have no energy left for other goals in my life.
I want to go to law school, however it worries me that doing so is going to take time away from growing as a person socially.
What should I do? Should I give up my goals of my career, to spend all that time to work on my social skills?
