donjuanapprentice01
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The one that I tried to kiss and went on a trip with. Gave me the same old crap. lol! here's the relevant parts, for your enjoyment.:
^J.E.M^ says:
i hope we can still be friends
^J.E.M^ says:
but you must know that i don't think it will turn into anything more
^J.E.M^ says:
you must have been confused by what i said awhile back
Iceman says:
of course we can still be friends (so I can NEXT your ****ing ass face to face)
^J.E.M^ says:
thats good
^J.E.M^ says:
because i would hate to lose you as one
Iceman says:
Let me ask you something else, have you considered dating me at least?
^J.E.M^ says:
no not really
^J.E.M^ says:
we are very different people
Iceman says:
I don't think we are.
^J.E.M^ says:
i can't say what you want to hear
^J.E.M^ says:
and if we are going to be friends, you have to move on from the notion of us getting together
^J.E.M^ says:
i have had a fairly good time with you
^J.E.M^ says:
being friends
Iceman says:
and that can be a catapult. But I want to know, I don't care if my feelings are hurt, why don't you tell me why you aren't attracted to me
^J.E.M^ says:
because it does nobody any good
Iceman says:
I just don't get it. I'm good with kids, I care about you, I make you laugh, we have fun together, why would I be such a bad boyfriend?
^J.E.M^ says:
it makes both of us feel like crap (insecure are you? thought so!)
Iceman says:
what does?
^J.E.M^ says:
its not just about that, i have friends who do all that (as much as me? YEAH RIGHT! LOL!)
^J.E.M^ says:
there has to be something else
Iceman says:
hmmm... it must be mojo then, and I have no mojo lol
^J.E.M^ says:
i don't have romantic feelings for you
^J.E.M^ says:
and those things are either there or they aren't
^J.E.M^ says:
and to me in this case they aren't
Iceman says:
I see
Iceman says:
i am a good guy, I'm ambitious, nice, caring, all the qualities girls say they want, including you I'm sure, yet they always end up with the jerks
Iceman says:
why is that?
Iceman says:
I can't bring myself to treat people like ****
^J.E.M^ says:
i can't tell you why that is
^J.E.M^ says:
and unfortunately the jerks aren't jerks all the time
(ok, I was an AFC, I just found this site a week ago, but this is funny. "jerks aren't jerks all the time! LOL! Now I know, this ***** is the type that will come crawling back after being slapped around a little, because "he's not a jerk all the time")
Iceman says:
So, if I had told you right from the beginning that I liked you, things would have been different?
Iceman says:
I like to make friends first
Iceman says:
Learn about the person, before I decide to tell them how I feel
^J.E.M^ says:
that is good in some ways
^J.E.M^ says:
i don't generally have that approach
Iceman says:
Just like you, I wanted friendship first, then I found out how great you were, intellegent, fun to be with, in short, an amazing person
^J.E.M^ says:
and sometimes that works for me and sometimes it doesn't, my approach
Iceman says:
Then I told you, but i guess I was too late
Iceman says:
Wouldn't you want to date someone you knew well, ratehr than some guy you just meet online or at a bar?
^J.E.M^ says:
me i tend to look for someone i find interesting to me, but they know pretty quickly if i like them in a more than friends way
Iceman says:
wouldn't you rather have jordan be around someone you know very well?
^J.E.M^ says:
that is why i don't bring guys i date around jordan much
Iceman says:
There are alot of players and crazies out there
^J.E.M^ says:
thats why you have spent time with him
^J.E.M^ says:
because we are friends
^J.E.M^ says:
yes there are, and thats why i keep jordan out of it for quite some time
(ok, not only does this ***** need to be NEXTED pronto, she also needs to head over to a mental institution! What kind of mother lets her son get attached to some guy they aren't even interested in? Is that fair for the kid? I would think not!)
^J.E.M^ says:
i just want to know that we can be friends
^J.E.M^ says:
and that i won't have to worry about you trying to convince me to be more
Iceman says:
I'm not trying to convince you
Iceman says:
That's your decision to make
Iceman says:
not mine
Iceman says:
And, I want you to be happy, if I can't make you happy so be it
Iceman says:
I don't see why I couldn't though
^J.E.M^ says:
i told you how i feel
^J.E.M^ says:
and i am happy being your friend
^J.E.M^ says:
as i said i would hate to lose that
(well, guessy what *****! You are going to lose that! I'm now a DJ, no more mr. chump! so, NEXT!)
^J.E.M^ says:
as i said no expectations on being more than friends though in this case
Iceman says:
I will have no expectations, but I can't say that I won't hope
^J.E.M^ says:
anyways gotta get back to this
^J.E.M^ says:
yes i can't tell you how to feel, all i can tell you is that if something like what happened on sunday night happens again i won't be able to be your friend (well, that's fine and dandy then!, I'll try harder next time, lol! and I'll make it count!)
Iceman says:
ok, I don't know why you are making such a big deal out of it.
Iceman says:
I mean, it was just going to be a little peck anyways
Iceman says:
I thought you would have been surprised I had the balls to try, heh
^J.E.M^ says:
because it made me feel uncomfortable, and it made me question whether you had heard what i had told you before about only wanting to be friends
^J.E.M^ says:
or whether you just didn't care (You're right, I didnt' give a ****, I do what I want)
Iceman says:
Look, I thought you were giving me signals. I saw the way you would look at me sometimes. Also, you didn't mind when I touched you a little
^J.E.M^ says:
i now know you were just confused
^J.E.M^ says:
and thought i was sending you signals
^J.E.M^ says:
yes because others friends touch me a little too
Iceman says:
ah, I see, it was just a little kino on my part
Iceman says:
to test the waters so to speak.
What I want to know is, how do I next this ***** so bad that she will regret ever bother being my "friend" in the first place? Any ideas? I'm surely not being her friend any more. And, here is the kicker! She don't have many friends in the first place, heheheeh.
^J.E.M^ says:
i hope we can still be friends
^J.E.M^ says:
but you must know that i don't think it will turn into anything more
^J.E.M^ says:
you must have been confused by what i said awhile back
Iceman says:
of course we can still be friends (so I can NEXT your ****ing ass face to face)
^J.E.M^ says:
thats good
^J.E.M^ says:
because i would hate to lose you as one
Iceman says:
Let me ask you something else, have you considered dating me at least?
^J.E.M^ says:
no not really
^J.E.M^ says:
we are very different people
Iceman says:
I don't think we are.
^J.E.M^ says:
i can't say what you want to hear
^J.E.M^ says:
and if we are going to be friends, you have to move on from the notion of us getting together
^J.E.M^ says:
i have had a fairly good time with you
^J.E.M^ says:
being friends
Iceman says:
and that can be a catapult. But I want to know, I don't care if my feelings are hurt, why don't you tell me why you aren't attracted to me
^J.E.M^ says:
because it does nobody any good
Iceman says:
I just don't get it. I'm good with kids, I care about you, I make you laugh, we have fun together, why would I be such a bad boyfriend?
^J.E.M^ says:
it makes both of us feel like crap (insecure are you? thought so!)
Iceman says:
what does?
^J.E.M^ says:
its not just about that, i have friends who do all that (as much as me? YEAH RIGHT! LOL!)
^J.E.M^ says:
there has to be something else
Iceman says:
hmmm... it must be mojo then, and I have no mojo lol
^J.E.M^ says:
i don't have romantic feelings for you
^J.E.M^ says:
and those things are either there or they aren't
^J.E.M^ says:
and to me in this case they aren't
Iceman says:
I see
Iceman says:
i am a good guy, I'm ambitious, nice, caring, all the qualities girls say they want, including you I'm sure, yet they always end up with the jerks
Iceman says:
why is that?
Iceman says:
I can't bring myself to treat people like ****
^J.E.M^ says:
i can't tell you why that is
^J.E.M^ says:
and unfortunately the jerks aren't jerks all the time
(ok, I was an AFC, I just found this site a week ago, but this is funny. "jerks aren't jerks all the time! LOL! Now I know, this ***** is the type that will come crawling back after being slapped around a little, because "he's not a jerk all the time")
Iceman says:
So, if I had told you right from the beginning that I liked you, things would have been different?
Iceman says:
I like to make friends first
Iceman says:
Learn about the person, before I decide to tell them how I feel
^J.E.M^ says:
that is good in some ways
^J.E.M^ says:
i don't generally have that approach
Iceman says:
Just like you, I wanted friendship first, then I found out how great you were, intellegent, fun to be with, in short, an amazing person
^J.E.M^ says:
and sometimes that works for me and sometimes it doesn't, my approach
Iceman says:
Then I told you, but i guess I was too late
Iceman says:
Wouldn't you want to date someone you knew well, ratehr than some guy you just meet online or at a bar?
^J.E.M^ says:
me i tend to look for someone i find interesting to me, but they know pretty quickly if i like them in a more than friends way
Iceman says:
wouldn't you rather have jordan be around someone you know very well?
^J.E.M^ says:
that is why i don't bring guys i date around jordan much
Iceman says:
There are alot of players and crazies out there
^J.E.M^ says:
thats why you have spent time with him
^J.E.M^ says:
because we are friends
^J.E.M^ says:
yes there are, and thats why i keep jordan out of it for quite some time
(ok, not only does this ***** need to be NEXTED pronto, she also needs to head over to a mental institution! What kind of mother lets her son get attached to some guy they aren't even interested in? Is that fair for the kid? I would think not!)
^J.E.M^ says:
i just want to know that we can be friends
^J.E.M^ says:
and that i won't have to worry about you trying to convince me to be more
Iceman says:
I'm not trying to convince you
Iceman says:
That's your decision to make
Iceman says:
not mine
Iceman says:
And, I want you to be happy, if I can't make you happy so be it
Iceman says:
I don't see why I couldn't though
^J.E.M^ says:
i told you how i feel
^J.E.M^ says:
and i am happy being your friend
^J.E.M^ says:
as i said i would hate to lose that
(well, guessy what *****! You are going to lose that! I'm now a DJ, no more mr. chump! so, NEXT!)
^J.E.M^ says:
as i said no expectations on being more than friends though in this case
Iceman says:
I will have no expectations, but I can't say that I won't hope
^J.E.M^ says:
anyways gotta get back to this
^J.E.M^ says:
yes i can't tell you how to feel, all i can tell you is that if something like what happened on sunday night happens again i won't be able to be your friend (well, that's fine and dandy then!, I'll try harder next time, lol! and I'll make it count!)
Iceman says:
ok, I don't know why you are making such a big deal out of it.
Iceman says:
I mean, it was just going to be a little peck anyways
Iceman says:
I thought you would have been surprised I had the balls to try, heh
^J.E.M^ says:
because it made me feel uncomfortable, and it made me question whether you had heard what i had told you before about only wanting to be friends
^J.E.M^ says:
or whether you just didn't care (You're right, I didnt' give a ****, I do what I want)
Iceman says:
Look, I thought you were giving me signals. I saw the way you would look at me sometimes. Also, you didn't mind when I touched you a little
^J.E.M^ says:
i now know you were just confused
^J.E.M^ says:
and thought i was sending you signals
^J.E.M^ says:
yes because others friends touch me a little too
Iceman says:
ah, I see, it was just a little kino on my part
Iceman says:
to test the waters so to speak.
What I want to know is, how do I next this ***** so bad that she will regret ever bother being my "friend" in the first place? Any ideas? I'm surely not being her friend any more. And, here is the kicker! She don't have many friends in the first place, heheheeh.
According to that , you're far from it. 
