Guys, i've been in a 5 year relationship up until a few months ago, and slowly starting to get back into the groove of dating. Bit rusty.
So i got this waitresses' number,pretty girl, probably 18-19, and VERY friendly and "touchy feely" with all her customers, knows how to get those tips. She's been serving me and my buddies last few times we went to this place, and with a little persuasion i finally got the digits.
Now here's the thing, i can see that she gets hit on a LOT working at a sports bar. I'll be going back to that place in about 3 weeks, should i just hold off on contacting her altogether till then and make up some bs about being out of town and just set up a time to meet next time i see her, or send her a txt in a couple days?(yes txt, most girls that age avoid phone calls like the plague).
Normally i'd get in contact with a girl after a few days, but i was thinking that with somebody who gets offered d1ck on hourly basis at work i could fall into "just another guy trying to get with me" category. Would think if i dont message her, she'd be curious why and it might be easier to actually get her to hang out with me next time i see her.
As i said, i'm rusty and any advice is appreciated. Thoughts? Suggestions?
So i got this waitresses' number,pretty girl, probably 18-19, and VERY friendly and "touchy feely" with all her customers, knows how to get those tips. She's been serving me and my buddies last few times we went to this place, and with a little persuasion i finally got the digits.
Now here's the thing, i can see that she gets hit on a LOT working at a sports bar. I'll be going back to that place in about 3 weeks, should i just hold off on contacting her altogether till then and make up some bs about being out of town and just set up a time to meet next time i see her, or send her a txt in a couple days?(yes txt, most girls that age avoid phone calls like the plague).
Normally i'd get in contact with a girl after a few days, but i was thinking that with somebody who gets offered d1ck on hourly basis at work i could fall into "just another guy trying to get with me" category. Would think if i dont message her, she'd be curious why and it might be easier to actually get her to hang out with me next time i see her.
As i said, i'm rusty and any advice is appreciated. Thoughts? Suggestions?