I've had so much trouble getting girls over the past 5 years and I've been really frustrated and angry lately. So I've really been taking a look back at what I've been doing wrong. Now I think I've got it all figured out as to what I need to do.
- It's a numbers game, the more girls you approach the better.
- Don't get stuck on one girl, if you even feel close to stuck, move on. Also, if you start arguing with her, forget it and move on. Arguing with a girl will NEVER lead to better things. You can't argue your way into bed.
- Only pursue girls that you know for CERTAIN are definitely interested in you. I capitalized certain because some girls are really good at faking interest. So only pursue girls that are DEFINITELY interested in you. If you aren't sure whether they are faking interest or not, move along. Don't put any effort in girls that aren't interested.
- If a girl is a b1tch at all, run the other way and ignore her COMPLETELY. I've noticed that girls that I've had the most frustrations over are the extremely b1tchy ones. So if I avoid the b1tches I'll have less frustrations. And I mean COMPLETELY IGNORE them.
- Don't compete with another guy until you've gotten really good with women. If you see her with another guy and she looks really interested in him don't bother until you're an ultimate Don Juan. Competing with another guy and losing is more frustrating than not competing at all.
- Work out. I've been kind of against working out because the guys I see with girls are NEVER muscular. But I think working out is more for mental reasons than physical reasons. Working out makes you more positive and takes away frustration, anger and jealousy.
- Don't rely on drugs or alcohol. I need a clear mind to be a ladies man.
- Get her completely alone. This one is kind of obvious but doesn't always seem very clear. Being with more people offers more opportunities for other guys to c0ckblock. Being with more people also means more opportunities for you to screw up. By inviting a girl to hang out alone at your place, you are testing her level of interest. A girl more than likely won't go over to the house of a guy she really dislikes. And if she doesn't put out by a few visits to your house then move on.
- Never ask for her number. Let her give it to you. I've never had luck with the girls whose numbers I've asked for. I have had luck with the girls who have given me their number first.
- Stay positive and act like you've never gotten rejected.
- Aside from eye contact, body language, and posture, DON'T focus too much on your appearance. You're never going to look like Brad Pitt so don't go out of your way to try.
Like I said, this is all from past experience with women that was really bad. It's pretty much what I've learned from my mistakes, you could say. I'm still really awkward and a little negative, but I think working out and not pursuing girls that clearly aren't interested in me will help with that aspect.
- It's a numbers game, the more girls you approach the better.
- Don't get stuck on one girl, if you even feel close to stuck, move on. Also, if you start arguing with her, forget it and move on. Arguing with a girl will NEVER lead to better things. You can't argue your way into bed.
- Only pursue girls that you know for CERTAIN are definitely interested in you. I capitalized certain because some girls are really good at faking interest. So only pursue girls that are DEFINITELY interested in you. If you aren't sure whether they are faking interest or not, move along. Don't put any effort in girls that aren't interested.
- If a girl is a b1tch at all, run the other way and ignore her COMPLETELY. I've noticed that girls that I've had the most frustrations over are the extremely b1tchy ones. So if I avoid the b1tches I'll have less frustrations. And I mean COMPLETELY IGNORE them.
- Don't compete with another guy until you've gotten really good with women. If you see her with another guy and she looks really interested in him don't bother until you're an ultimate Don Juan. Competing with another guy and losing is more frustrating than not competing at all.
- Work out. I've been kind of against working out because the guys I see with girls are NEVER muscular. But I think working out is more for mental reasons than physical reasons. Working out makes you more positive and takes away frustration, anger and jealousy.
- Don't rely on drugs or alcohol. I need a clear mind to be a ladies man.
- Get her completely alone. This one is kind of obvious but doesn't always seem very clear. Being with more people offers more opportunities for other guys to c0ckblock. Being with more people also means more opportunities for you to screw up. By inviting a girl to hang out alone at your place, you are testing her level of interest. A girl more than likely won't go over to the house of a guy she really dislikes. And if she doesn't put out by a few visits to your house then move on.
- Never ask for her number. Let her give it to you. I've never had luck with the girls whose numbers I've asked for. I have had luck with the girls who have given me their number first.
- Stay positive and act like you've never gotten rejected.
- Aside from eye contact, body language, and posture, DON'T focus too much on your appearance. You're never going to look like Brad Pitt so don't go out of your way to try.
Like I said, this is all from past experience with women that was really bad. It's pretty much what I've learned from my mistakes, you could say. I'm still really awkward and a little negative, but I think working out and not pursuing girls that clearly aren't interested in me will help with that aspect.
