Ska's sexual escalation trick...

[Skalioppe]

One of the common questions on this board is how to sexually escalate with a woman. So you've got her number, you've been texting a bit, had a few calls, dates but are slowly heading for the friendzone like some chump locomotive, simply because you don't know how to make her realise you want to fvck her and are going to, without ruining everything.

Now sometimes, if you give the perception of a true Alpha, you can just come out with something overly sexual to get the ball rolling, shock and awe style - this technique is best done by text (to allow them to digest in comfort without intimidation) but most men can't pull it off, because they aren't leaving a blip on her Alpha-radar. If she thinks you aren't an Alpha, she will be offended, trust me on that and it could be to point of GAME OVER. If you are an Alpha, she'll either go quiet on your arse and ignore you for a few days whilst she gets over the shock, then come back playing the sex card back at you.

I've been field trialling two much better techniques, both of which have proved very successful indeed. Both are subtle and inoffensive as they are founded on things women love....
Honesty.... I just had to tell you something.
Unbridled Desire... This effect you have on me.... I can't help it, so you can't scold me.
Their Ego... You're so hot you've done this to me
Respect... I totally respect for you and am proving that to you

1. Naughty Dream...
I've tried this many times lately and it's so smooth and hasn't failed me yet. It escalates so nicely plus it isn't offensive and it plays on another trait about women, nosiness. Once you plant the first text, they just have to know and so they are to blame for your revelation.

What I tend to do is put ellipsis "..." at the end of texts when I want to prompt them to delve a bit deeper, it makes them play ball as it suggests there is something secret and naughty that they must find out.

Here's a typical text situation:
Me : I had a dream about you last night...
Her : Was it a nightmare? ? / Was it a nice one? / What happened in it?
Me : I'm not sure I can tell you, you might be offended or think bad of me...
Her : Ha ha, I'm sure I won't be. Tell me!
Me : Are you sure you want to know?...
Her : Yes, definitely!
Me : We'd been out for a drink and came back to mine. You came into the kitchen as I was making you a coffee and you started whispering naughty things to me and biting my neck teasingly. It turned me on so much, that things got heated very quickly. We ended up ripping each others clothes off and I ravaged you on the kitchen table.
(You can make it more graphic if you dare, but I find women tend to like it less so. I also like to be the ravager, as it is dominant and more Alpha).
Her : Wow, you really are a bad boy aren't you!
(Translation : Wow that turned me on imagining you fvcking me hard, I like the idea)
Me : I can't help it, I blame you and the effect on my sub conscience!
(Translation : I'm massaging your ego and now talking about sex with you and you like it. I'm going to bang the fvck out of you soon and we both know it.

Et Voila, sexual escalation has occurred without offending, opening the doors to much more and getting your goal.

How it works....
A) It was my dream so I can't help it, so I'm not a perv or only after sex.
B) I wanted to tell you because I'm honest to you, but didn't want to offend you because I respect you.
C) You insisted I tell you because you're a woman and you are nosy as fvck, so can't be offended.
D) You now know I want to fvck your brains out, in some unbridled desirous moment, you've accepted the fact and are turned on by it because you replied positively.
E) Your ego enjoyed being the source of my desire and will want more.
F) I can now escalate into sexier texts / calls knowing you won't spaz out about it, and I will be banging you very soon.

A few times I've got this sort of thing as a reply
Her : I'm a little shocked!

to which I reply....
Me : It's your fault, I can't help it, it was a dream and you insisted on hearing it. I can't help what you make me dream about, plus I toned it down out of respect.
Her : Ok, fair point!

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2. I Can't See You Any More...
OK, so you've been out on a few dates and it went OK, but still no sexual escalation. What do you do? I found the following a good tool in my armoury, I call it the false disqualify turn on text. It has worked pretty well for me.

Here's a typical text situation:
Me : Thanks for an amazing night, but I'm not sure I can see you any more. I left feeling so turned on it isn't good for me.
Her : Really? Maybe that's a good thing!
Me : But a good girl like you might not want a bad boy like me?
Her : Maybe I like bad boys....

Bingo!.. The door is open to escalate things sexually.

How it works....
A) False disqualifier, I had a great time but you are being rejected because I want to respect you by not sexually objectifying you.
B) You'll want to oppose the rejection, because your ego hates rejection.
C) Opposing it means accepting I'm a sexual person and you don't mind it, you'll also respect my honesty because women like that.
D) Truth be known your ego likes turning me on, and you are turned on by it too.
E) Now you've adjusted to me being sexual I can escalate my texts to you in a more sexual manner, and as such you now know I'm going to fvck your brains out.

I've been on a roll lately with women and a big part of it is due to sexual escalation, these techniques have definitely helped that a lot. Alphas let a woman know they want to fvck them and woman want to fvck Alphas. Sexual escalation without offence is an Alpha trait!

Digest, try and enjoy!
Ska.

 

[ScottMustaine]

Tried out these two

Me : I had a dream about you last night...
Her : What was it?
Me : I'm not sure I can tell you, you might be offended or think bad of me...
Her : Tell me !
Me : Are you sure you want to know?...
Her : Yes!
Me : We'd been out for a drink and came back to mine. You came into the kitchen as I was making you a coffee and you started whispering naughty things to me and biting my neck teasingly. It turned me on so much, that things got heated very quickly. We ended up ripping each others clothes off and I ravaged you on the kitchen table.

Her( real answer): Oh God. TOO MUCH INFORMATION.






Thing #2

Me : Thanks for an amazing night, but I'm not sure I can see you any more. I left feeling so turned on it isn't good for me.

Her: Okay












Sure thing. It works. -.-

 

[Demonpenz]

I just tried it and both girls responded with "???" works well thx dude.

 

[alpha_ash]

Hahahha oh man, wasted plates! Everything in the first post screams AFC! Lets just stick to the rule and forget exceptions: if a girl is interested in you, she will show it, no confusion!

Also OP made everything logical. Since when are our women logical in terms of relationships or even otherwise. This is trying too hard to get laid.

 

[Fly By Night]

The dream one is pretty good imo, but like that one chick said, I think you should keep it short. Going into a long detailed explanation may come off as having strange fetishes. But base rule applies, if she likes you (in that way) then it doesn't matter what you say.

 

[dj_inprogress]

I have done this myself and it works.
Just like everything, timing is important.
The girl needs to be interested in you sexually.
And every situation is unique.

 

[Pair A Dice]

To those of you who this doesn't work, it's simply because it's not congruent with who you are. If you met her in person before and put off a sexual energy, she'd probably like hearing this. If you haven't met or just traded online messages with her without ramping up anything sexual, then she's going to brush it off like nothing is different.

 

[ScottMustaine]

I met those two girls on gigs, made out and they asked me for number. Chatted like 3-4 texts, met again, made out... And now this. Whoho.

Nothing AFC so far. I didn't show much of emotion nor clinginess. They were quite actually interested in me and asked me few times 'where is this heading? i wish it would be more special ' => wanted relationship.


I don't blame the OP, different cultures, different mindset. Gotta adapt and not spit out everything raw.

 

[Mike32ct]

The Dream...

I think this one is great. My only suggestion is to lengthen the story. I think it gets to sex too fast and could scare off the wrong girl. I'd slow it down and talk about some kissing and touching and see how she responds.

If you slow it down and drag it out more (talking about foreplay), she'll get really wet without you triggering some uncomfortable ASD in her.

But the method itself sounds great.

 

[Skalioppe]

To those of you who this doesn't work, it's simply because it's not congruent with who you are. If you met her in person before and put off a sexual energy, she'd probably like hearing this. If you haven't met or just traded online messages with her without ramping up anything sexual, then she's going to brush it off like nothing is different.

The wise words of someone with complete sense!! This texting technique isn't a magic bullet, exactly as Pair A Dice says it has to be congruent with the type of person you are. It has to be believable, in character and confident. Women can often smell contrived behaviour. So I'd say to those who dismiss it based on one person's failed attempt, maybe you haven't reached the right level of rapport yet with the woman to try it effectively? Maybe an air of sexuality doesn't pervade from you for it to be believable? Maybe you just aren't confident enough to use the tool convincingly? No technique is 100%, but many techniques work if used correctly and believably.

I have field trialled this texting technique now with at least seven different plates, (ones I have built some confident rapport with) and it has worked achieving sexual escalation in every case. Some women are a little less receptive to it than others, but it works. Even my wing men / drinking buddies have now started to use it in earnest, it seems pretty successful for them, hence why I shared it.

As for the argument of the technique being logical and women aren't like that?....., Well women have anti-slvt defence mechanisms built in and men are always fighting to break that down. That anti-slvt defence mechanism has inherent rules, but trust me, it can and does get fooled, and it gets fooled by cleverness. That's the battle of man versus women. Women spend their life trying to sniff out and avoid the men who are players and liars and men spend their life trying to become better players and liars to fool them. It's all in the game.

 

[\O/]

I do something similar to this. It's much shorter though. I just like to plant a sexual seed and let it linger in her head without going into any details. I find it to work better when i say it in a face to face interaction, than over text but both works great.

Me: I had a dream about you/us last night..
HB: What was it?/What happened?
Me: You are not old enough to hear it../You are waay to young to hear it

I use this regardless of her age. She can be 20 or she can be 35, it doesn't matter.

Then i just smirk and change the subject entirely. And you ignore all of her inquiries to get the details.

It also creates a good opportunity to pick up the thread at a later point. "Remember that dream i told you about?" Then you can go into all the details and get things heated up. It's also a good idea to escalate the story slowly. Women love erotic novels that builds up gradually. It's their equivalant to POV-porn videos.

Good stuff

 

[DonGorgon]

females will only respond to this if they like how you look

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

The wise words of someone with complete sense!! This texting technique isn't a magic bullet, exactly as Pair A Dice says it has to be congruent with the type of person you are. It has to be believable, in character and confident. Women can often smell contrived behaviour. So I'd say to those who dismiss it based on one person's failed attempt, maybe you haven't reached the right level of rapport yet with the woman to try it effectively? Maybe an air of sexuality doesn't pervade from you for it to be believable? Maybe you just aren't confident enough to use the tool convincingly? No technique is 100%, but many techniques work if used correctly and believably.

I have field trialled this texting technique now with at least seven different plates, (ones I have built some confident rapport with) and it has worked achieving sexual escalation in every case. Some women are a little less receptive to it than others, but it works. Even my wing men / drinking buddies have now started to use it in earnest, it seems pretty successful for them, hence why I shared it.

As for the argument of the technique being logical and women aren't like that?....., Well women have anti-slvt defence mechanisms built in and men are always fighting to break that down. That anti-slvt defence mechanism has inherent rules, but trust me, it can and does get fooled, and it gets fooled by cleverness. That's the battle of man versus women. Women spend their life trying to sniff out and avoid the men who are players and liars and men spend their life trying to become better players and liars to fool them. It's all in the game.

Both of you are wrong. It only works if there is a strong physical attraction. Save the congruency talk for grade school math.

Simple:

Sexual talk + not attracted to you = creepy

Sexual talk + thinks you are hot = turn on

Just like you're a creep if you hit on a girl and you're not attractive, but if you're attractive, you are "charming".

Technique without physical attraction = failure.