Knight's Cross
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 31, 2007
- Messages
- 473
- Reaction score
- 44
Alright I was asked not too long ago to provide a field report as to my status since ex BPD so here goes:
Turned a friend into more (slept with)then watched as said plate wanted more....spun that plate down to friendzone. Although she wanted more I LJBF'd her. Not looking to be exclusive. Her pushing = my pullback. She knew that at the go, then tried to capture frame from me. No dice. So we'll see where that goes.
Plate 2, currently sleeping with, like it. She's got huge Interest level 90or better, I have about 60% so that's good. It's a nice place to be.
Plate 3 Former AFC woman(slept with) that still acts AFC, I refer to her as the LIL cookie girl. She has watched my place while I was flying a trip over Christmas and left me a gift package on my return. The other day she had set up a full body deep tissue massage for me at her expense. Yes her IL is over 95% I'm about 50 on that one.
Plate 4 New girl. Now we had great rapport at a coffee date, and we have connected, still to be seen. She is very slow to come up to full speed. Granted she has lots to offer. She is a Single mom of an adopted child. I'm not opposed to this, and she is full disclosure and seems to make the adjustment to date's fast, but not at the expense of her child which I like. So far the frontrunner. IL seems matched, but I'm cautiously optimistic.
Plate 5 (former intimacy establsished, I LJBF'd her) FLAKED on a date idea last night to bonfire/ roast smores at my Villa....she's dropped UFN. No room for flaking. Possibility exists that she holds grudge over LJBF on my terms. Either way flake = drop
That's it Soldiers. Always drop the IL that you THINK they have in you 20% and you are in the ballpark.
KC continuing the Quest as the PRIZE
Ohh yeah, Ex BPD is about to be served Restraint Order....Some people just do not learn. On occasion it is necessary to teach them the lesson they need.
Turned a friend into more (slept with)then watched as said plate wanted more....spun that plate down to friendzone. Although she wanted more I LJBF'd her. Not looking to be exclusive. Her pushing = my pullback. She knew that at the go, then tried to capture frame from me. No dice. So we'll see where that goes.
Plate 2, currently sleeping with, like it. She's got huge Interest level 90or better, I have about 60% so that's good. It's a nice place to be.
Plate 3 Former AFC woman(slept with) that still acts AFC, I refer to her as the LIL cookie girl. She has watched my place while I was flying a trip over Christmas and left me a gift package on my return. The other day she had set up a full body deep tissue massage for me at her expense. Yes her IL is over 95% I'm about 50 on that one.
Plate 4 New girl. Now we had great rapport at a coffee date, and we have connected, still to be seen. She is very slow to come up to full speed. Granted she has lots to offer. She is a Single mom of an adopted child. I'm not opposed to this, and she is full disclosure and seems to make the adjustment to date's fast, but not at the expense of her child which I like. So far the frontrunner. IL seems matched, but I'm cautiously optimistic.
Plate 5 (former intimacy establsished, I LJBF'd her) FLAKED on a date idea last night to bonfire/ roast smores at my Villa....she's dropped UFN. No room for flaking. Possibility exists that she holds grudge over LJBF on my terms. Either way flake = drop
That's it Soldiers. Always drop the IL that you THINK they have in you 20% and you are in the ballpark.
KC continuing the Quest as the PRIZE
Ohh yeah, Ex BPD is about to be served Restraint Order....Some people just do not learn. On occasion it is necessary to teach them the lesson they need.