grayclif
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 27, 2009
- Messages
- 540
- Reaction score
- 226
So I've been dating this 40 yo hb7 the past 6 weeks. She's never been married and doesn't have kids. She is an ivy league graduate and currently on sebatical from her job as a bank executive.
She made it clear from the beginning that she's on this new path of awareness which includes fitness, yoga and health. To do what makes her life fulfilling where the goal is happiness and not money. During her sebatical she also wishes to pursue some entrepreneurial interests and look at starting a family.
While nestled in my arms the other day she mentions that she fully intends to be pregnant within a year (her sebatical ends in about a year).
I go home and think about this. I am not interested in having babies or being married. A week later I explain to her that I am not interested in kids or marriage. She considers what I've said and suggests that maybe she shouldn't have been so enthusiastic about her motive and she just wants to see where things go with us.
I explain to her that's not the kind of thing you backtrack on. I said your 40, unwed, childless and on sebatical your agenda is clear and I can't be a part of it. I've pulled away but she still calls and texts me.
She's a great girl with a nice supportive family. I partially blame myself because I knew she'd want a family. I wanted to see where it went and how I'd feel about it with her.
She made it clear from the beginning that she's on this new path of awareness which includes fitness, yoga and health. To do what makes her life fulfilling where the goal is happiness and not money. During her sebatical she also wishes to pursue some entrepreneurial interests and look at starting a family.
While nestled in my arms the other day she mentions that she fully intends to be pregnant within a year (her sebatical ends in about a year).
I go home and think about this. I am not interested in having babies or being married. A week later I explain to her that I am not interested in kids or marriage. She considers what I've said and suggests that maybe she shouldn't have been so enthusiastic about her motive and she just wants to see where things go with us.
I explain to her that's not the kind of thing you backtrack on. I said your 40, unwed, childless and on sebatical your agenda is clear and I can't be a part of it. I've pulled away but she still calls and texts me.
She's a great girl with a nice supportive family. I partially blame myself because I knew she'd want a family. I wanted to see where it went and how I'd feel about it with her.