Thought I would update you guys on my ex just for the laughs.
I finally responded to her pandering texts with a "stop sending me this ****".
She responded with "Oh shut up and have a sense of humor." Then proceeded to tell me how she was going to throw out my jury duty notice since I was being such a prick (I used to live with her).
I said NO ***** BRING IT TO WORK. When I showed up she gave me a dirty look and handed me the notice, which was ripped up into a thousand pieces and stuffed into an envelope. I was like, damn, I can't believe this cvnt.
So I demanded an explanation and an apology. She went from cold to friendly in about 2 minutes and started talking about how much her daughter misses me and whatnot. My head was spinning from all these mood swings so I just bought a bottle of wine and headed home to drink myself into a stupor.
Then she starts texting me, asking about the girl I'm dating. Says "Try and be charming and maybe you can lay her on your hard squeaky bed lol".
The next morning I was all hungover after school so I texted her asking her to make me coffee at her place. She obliged, and when I got there she proceeded to show off all the flowers her new guy bought her and bragged about the kinky sex she was having with him. I just brushed it off like I couldn't care less but I have to admit it stung a bit.
I just carried on conversation with her like she was an old acquaintance and she kept bringing up our relationship with **** like "You never took me anywhere nice", "You said some pretty nasty things to me", "You were never affectionate" etc.
So finally I had enough punishment and just said thanks for the coffee, peace. And the funny thing is, after all of that, I'm pretty much over it now. The reality of the situation is finally solidified in my head and I'm no longer reacting to her mentally, just trying to get on with my life. Its been a hell of a trip.