this girl i picked up in college in the foyer keeps cancelling on me but not on purpose.. i got her number about 2 and half weeks ago and 2 days later i called her to have lunch with me that day (i called her during break at like 10am) she hadn't come in that day cos she went partying the night before. she didnt offer another time tho. i told her i was busy the next day and we should do it on monday next week. she said yes.
this is where the disrespect started, come monday i text her to meet me outside her building for lunch again. she tells me her mom came to visit her (we're studying abroad) for a few days and she needs to help out for business, she counter offered with a day after her mom left so it was less disrespectful and said we'd def do it then. i complied (tho i knew i did seem to available by always saying yes)
come that day she cancelled when i was suppose to see her cos she was in hospital ill (really i thought she should text me to tell me this in the morning but if she was ill then..) either way i thought she was pissing me about cos she didn't offer another time, i thought if she was ill she wouldn't offer the next day cos she might not be better by then, so i went for monday this week. she said yes.
i however didn't meet up with her monday nor texted her the time to meet cos i was ill over the weekend (which probably was a smart move looking a little less desperate) then texted her yesterday saying to her i forgot and not to worry cos i hadn't forgot about her in a jokey way. we arranged for today for lunch.. then guess this..
SHE CANCELLED AGAIN! she went clubbin last night so didnt come into class again. the thing is all our date arrangements revolve around her coming to class cos she lives far off campus (and im not going all the way to hers by cab) so i'd assume out of a 5 day week she'd come in at least 3 times. she didnt counter offer so i was p1ssed.
i sent something back about her being a bad girl for missing so much class and she should offer me another time and i said something about assuming tomorrow instead? (i realise now i make myself look way too available by keep being free to have lunch) she said i dont know we'll see tomorrow. u can tell interest is dropping.
should i really be so uptight about this whole thing?
this is where the disrespect started, come monday i text her to meet me outside her building for lunch again. she tells me her mom came to visit her (we're studying abroad) for a few days and she needs to help out for business, she counter offered with a day after her mom left so it was less disrespectful and said we'd def do it then. i complied (tho i knew i did seem to available by always saying yes)
come that day she cancelled when i was suppose to see her cos she was in hospital ill (really i thought she should text me to tell me this in the morning but if she was ill then..) either way i thought she was pissing me about cos she didn't offer another time, i thought if she was ill she wouldn't offer the next day cos she might not be better by then, so i went for monday this week. she said yes.
i however didn't meet up with her monday nor texted her the time to meet cos i was ill over the weekend (which probably was a smart move looking a little less desperate) then texted her yesterday saying to her i forgot and not to worry cos i hadn't forgot about her in a jokey way. we arranged for today for lunch.. then guess this..
SHE CANCELLED AGAIN! she went clubbin last night so didnt come into class again. the thing is all our date arrangements revolve around her coming to class cos she lives far off campus (and im not going all the way to hers by cab) so i'd assume out of a 5 day week she'd come in at least 3 times. she didnt counter offer so i was p1ssed.
i sent something back about her being a bad girl for missing so much class and she should offer me another time and i said something about assuming tomorrow instead? (i realise now i make myself look way too available by keep being free to have lunch) she said i dont know we'll see tomorrow. u can tell interest is dropping.
should i really be so uptight about this whole thing?