yungballa
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I been going out with my girlfriend for about 4 months. She's my first girl friend ever. When we started going out, she was craaaaazyyy over me (still is). She said since she's been with me its the happiest she's ever been. When we first started the relationship, I was really into her. Over time, my feelings for her have started to go down drastically.
We've done a lot of sexual things but we've never had sex. Overall, we've had a healthy relationship. She respects me and treats me well as if I'm her king. I act dominant towards her and keep her in line, and she doesn't cross the line with me. It's a good relationship. From what it seems, she's extremely loyal... but with my experience with girls, I find it hard to believe she's completely loyal.. She tells me when other guys try to talk to her / flirt with her / text with her, so I guess I can trust her, but I still have my doubts at times. She has a lot of guys trying to go after her. She's talked about having a future with me multiple times, like having kids and marriage. She's willing even for me to take her virginity. It's been a pretty serious relationship even though it's only been four months. She claims that she only wants me. She's also said that she'll never break up with me.
Lately, we've been getting into a lot of arguments. She's pissed me off a LOT in our arguments lately. When I first started dating her, I really liked her. But now I'm starting to not like her.
Why? Well it's simple. She's EXTREMELY quiet. She's starting to bore me. If I don't utter a word, she won't say a single thing. Sometimes I just get tired of me being the one who engages. She claims she's shy, which is believable. She's not a very lively person. She can talk and all with her friends, but when it comes to me she's almost silent. It's just boring. Before, I used to talk to her but now I just give up. In person she hardly talks to me. While we're together she'll probably just touch me a little bit, but she won't talk. She'll hardly talk. Or if she sees me walking by, she'll also touch me. Some days, she'll tell me that she loves me when we say bye to each other. If we ever have a conversation, I'm always the one who has to stretch them out. She puts little to no effort in our conversations in real life. She also thinks negatively and that I'll "reject" her showing me affection in public.
I like to be single. I like the freedom. I dislike having all these stupid arguments & problems in a relationship, which is what me and my girl have a lot, pretty often recently. Some days we can have regular convos thru text, but other days we'll be having arguments about something. But she always says that I'm right and she's sorry. My value is sooo high in her eyes, I guess. But ever since I feel like I've been in this relationship I feel like I've been focusing less on me. I feel a little bit more stressed out. I could be messing with soooo many girls since I love freedom, but I'm still going out with her. I don't want to hurt her, but this relationship is just too much for me. She's really attached to me and I don't wanna cause some emotional damage to her, because I know I'm really important to her. But at the same time, I want to live my own life how I want to instead of feeling trapped down to her. She's a good girl and all, but I don't know how much longer of this I can take. I want to be free, but she really really is in love with me, despite all of our CONSTANT
nearly everyday arguments and relationship drama.
Recently I told her that I like her less. She says that hearing that hurt her. I've given her a lot of signs I'm not that much interested any more and have tried to make her lose interest/break up with me, but yet she still seems like she's head over heels in love with me.
What should I do? Should I be patient with her, try and work things out with her? I do like her, just not as much as she likes me. She's wife material, but I'm just really getting bored.
Or should I just go with how I feel and break up with her, become more focused on me and enjoy freedom?
I need help.
We've done a lot of sexual things but we've never had sex. Overall, we've had a healthy relationship. She respects me and treats me well as if I'm her king. I act dominant towards her and keep her in line, and she doesn't cross the line with me. It's a good relationship. From what it seems, she's extremely loyal... but with my experience with girls, I find it hard to believe she's completely loyal.. She tells me when other guys try to talk to her / flirt with her / text with her, so I guess I can trust her, but I still have my doubts at times. She has a lot of guys trying to go after her. She's talked about having a future with me multiple times, like having kids and marriage. She's willing even for me to take her virginity. It's been a pretty serious relationship even though it's only been four months. She claims that she only wants me. She's also said that she'll never break up with me.
Lately, we've been getting into a lot of arguments. She's pissed me off a LOT in our arguments lately. When I first started dating her, I really liked her. But now I'm starting to not like her.
Why? Well it's simple. She's EXTREMELY quiet. She's starting to bore me. If I don't utter a word, she won't say a single thing. Sometimes I just get tired of me being the one who engages. She claims she's shy, which is believable. She's not a very lively person. She can talk and all with her friends, but when it comes to me she's almost silent. It's just boring. Before, I used to talk to her but now I just give up. In person she hardly talks to me. While we're together she'll probably just touch me a little bit, but she won't talk. She'll hardly talk. Or if she sees me walking by, she'll also touch me. Some days, she'll tell me that she loves me when we say bye to each other. If we ever have a conversation, I'm always the one who has to stretch them out. She puts little to no effort in our conversations in real life. She also thinks negatively and that I'll "reject" her showing me affection in public.
I like to be single. I like the freedom. I dislike having all these stupid arguments & problems in a relationship, which is what me and my girl have a lot, pretty often recently. Some days we can have regular convos thru text, but other days we'll be having arguments about something. But she always says that I'm right and she's sorry. My value is sooo high in her eyes, I guess. But ever since I feel like I've been in this relationship I feel like I've been focusing less on me. I feel a little bit more stressed out. I could be messing with soooo many girls since I love freedom, but I'm still going out with her. I don't want to hurt her, but this relationship is just too much for me. She's really attached to me and I don't wanna cause some emotional damage to her, because I know I'm really important to her. But at the same time, I want to live my own life how I want to instead of feeling trapped down to her. She's a good girl and all, but I don't know how much longer of this I can take. I want to be free, but she really really is in love with me, despite all of our CONSTANT
nearly everyday arguments and relationship drama.
Recently I told her that I like her less. She says that hearing that hurt her. I've given her a lot of signs I'm not that much interested any more and have tried to make her lose interest/break up with me, but yet she still seems like she's head over heels in love with me.
What should I do? Should I be patient with her, try and work things out with her? I do like her, just not as much as she likes me. She's wife material, but I'm just really getting bored.
Or should I just go with how I feel and break up with her, become more focused on me and enjoy freedom?
I need help.