I've been dating this girl for a few years now. We are both in our late 20's. Things are ok. She is Jewish, I am not. She left for a birth rite trip 2 weeks ago. Basically, birth rite is a free trip for Jews to visit Israel. Her trip is 3 weeks in all.
She met a lot of people on her trip, and has told me how many good looking people there are over there (both guys and girls) and how all they do now is go to the beach and then party at bars. For the next week, she is staying at her male guides apt (Just the 2 of them) since she is trying to save money (I don't question her initial motives here, I know she is short on $$$ and really did try to stay at her relatives first).
Should I be upset about this, or am I overreacting? On one hand, I want her to have a good time and live it up, but on the other hand I don't feel comfortable with her staying at some random dude's apt and going to bars all the time. I don't think she is the type of girl to cheat at all, but I know what obviously goes on when people are drinking and staying together. I am not an idiot.
Thanks all for the advice and take care guys.
She met a lot of people on her trip, and has told me how many good looking people there are over there (both guys and girls) and how all they do now is go to the beach and then party at bars. For the next week, she is staying at her male guides apt (Just the 2 of them) since she is trying to save money (I don't question her initial motives here, I know she is short on $$$ and really did try to stay at her relatives first).
Should I be upset about this, or am I overreacting? On one hand, I want her to have a good time and live it up, but on the other hand I don't feel comfortable with her staying at some random dude's apt and going to bars all the time. I don't think she is the type of girl to cheat at all, but I know what obviously goes on when people are drinking and staying together. I am not an idiot.
Thanks all for the advice and take care guys.