she said, "i'll wait for you"
It has been a while since i've been on this forum but it has done me very well over the past couple years. I have a new issue that recently arose. A little background, I am in the military and recently got back to my hometown for leave. I was on the prowl and met a girl HB9 at a party. I didn't lay it on too heavy but definitely got to know her a bit and intiated kino throughout the night. I ended up with a number before the night was over. Now, since i only had a few weeks home i called her up and went at her pretty fast. Date-- mall, food,... then a kiss to close and tons of kino throughout the date. I knew this girl was digging me and i was playing it cool.
The next 5 nights were amazing. Lots of great sex. Great times. It was fast and hard. I was in total control of this girl. I felt like it was the movies and i knew she was falling for me completely. Well good times come to an end, as I knew they were. I had to leave to go back to the military. Well the final night with her after sex we were cuddling and she said that she would 'wait for me'. I laughed and told her she was being ridiculous and then she got serious and said that she has fallen completely for me and wants no one else. I said, what if the wait is 6, 7, 8, 9 months and she said she would wait, and that she meant it. I also heard from one of her friends that she was talking about visiting me at my base. I am FAR away.
She also tried to get confirmation from me about what I would do. I was stumped and didn't know what to say (didn't want to be AFC and also didn't want to reject her and lose any chance of a LTR with her), she wanted me to answer and I would smile and say, "of course i'll wait' and then i'd kiss her but she detected that i was playing around which could have ebeen a huge mistake.
ok enough rambling, bottom-line... I really really like this girl and never expected myself to get hooked after our fun, but her telling me she would wait makes me think she might. What are the chances of that? How should I play that off? How much should i call/talk to her? I am probably sounding like a AFC right now, but if there is anything i can do that would make her wait for me, i want her too. She is an amazing catch.
It has been a while since i've been on this forum but it has done me very well over the past couple years. I have a new issue that recently arose. A little background, I am in the military and recently got back to my hometown for leave. I was on the prowl and met a girl HB9 at a party. I didn't lay it on too heavy but definitely got to know her a bit and intiated kino throughout the night. I ended up with a number before the night was over. Now, since i only had a few weeks home i called her up and went at her pretty fast. Date-- mall, food,... then a kiss to close and tons of kino throughout the date. I knew this girl was digging me and i was playing it cool.
The next 5 nights were amazing. Lots of great sex. Great times. It was fast and hard. I was in total control of this girl. I felt like it was the movies and i knew she was falling for me completely. Well good times come to an end, as I knew they were. I had to leave to go back to the military. Well the final night with her after sex we were cuddling and she said that she would 'wait for me'. I laughed and told her she was being ridiculous and then she got serious and said that she has fallen completely for me and wants no one else. I said, what if the wait is 6, 7, 8, 9 months and she said she would wait, and that she meant it. I also heard from one of her friends that she was talking about visiting me at my base. I am FAR away.
She also tried to get confirmation from me about what I would do. I was stumped and didn't know what to say (didn't want to be AFC and also didn't want to reject her and lose any chance of a LTR with her), she wanted me to answer and I would smile and say, "of course i'll wait' and then i'd kiss her but she detected that i was playing around which could have ebeen a huge mistake.
ok enough rambling, bottom-line... I really really like this girl and never expected myself to get hooked after our fun, but her telling me she would wait makes me think she might. What are the chances of that? How should I play that off? How much should i call/talk to her? I am probably sounding like a AFC right now, but if there is anything i can do that would make her wait for me, i want her too. She is an amazing catch.
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