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This bartender chick who i was obliquely flirting with dismissively called me a "wh*re" a few weeks ago. She's still real nice to me (hired guns usually ARE, though, for tips.)
I'm not overtly promiscuous, I don't talk about my conquests, I'm not a "bedpost-notcher." I don't brag about girls I "date," and i don't really screw all that many girls that she knows about anyway.
The crowd at her bar includes a bunch of folks I know and sometimes hang out with. I understand "social proof" and all, but will this hurt me if this is indeed the way I'm seen?
I'm really NOT racking up big numbers, and I really don't have all that much to brag about with regard to laying a lot of girls from her bar.
I don't know why she would think of me this way. It's not like she knows what I'm up to, anyway.
Any ideas about all this?
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This bartender chick who i was obliquely flirting with dismissively called me a "wh*re" a few weeks ago. She's still real nice to me (hired guns usually ARE, though, for tips.)
I'm not overtly promiscuous, I don't talk about my conquests, I'm not a "bedpost-notcher." I don't brag about girls I "date," and i don't really screw all that many girls that she knows about anyway.
The crowd at her bar includes a bunch of folks I know and sometimes hang out with. I understand "social proof" and all, but will this hurt me if this is indeed the way I'm seen?
I'm really NOT racking up big numbers, and I really don't have all that much to brag about with regard to laying a lot of girls from her bar.
I don't know why she would think of me this way. It's not like she knows what I'm up to, anyway.
Any ideas about all this?
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